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The Hegseth "incident."

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  • H Horace
    23 Nov 2024, 16:49

    @jon-nyc said in The Hegseth "incident.":

    @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

    @jon-nyc said in The Hegseth "incident.":

    The NDA was to squash anything pertaining to the incident, in lieu of future career opportunities.

    This doesn’t make sense. If it were Mike Pence, sure. But having sex with a married woman doesn’t show up in his top ten list of reputational hits.

    But a rape accusation, even a false one, does.

    Now that it’s out anyway, the NDA is purely a liability. Unless he really has something to hide.

    That’s a non sequitur. There is value in shutting someone up if they are making unprovable and reputationally damaging accusations against you. That holds whether both parties sincerely believe their version of events, one party is lying, or both parties are lying.

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    jon-nyc
    wrote on 23 Nov 2024, 17:14 last edited by jon-nyc
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    @Horace said in The Hegseth "incident.":

    @jon-nyc said in The Hegseth "incident.":

    @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

    @jon-nyc said in The Hegseth "incident.":

    The NDA was to squash anything pertaining to the incident, in lieu of future career opportunities.

    This doesn’t make sense. If it were Mike Pence, sure. But having sex with a married woman doesn’t show up in his top ten list of reputational hits.

    But a rape accusation, even a false one, does.

    Now that it’s out anyway, the NDA is purely a liability. Unless he really has something to hide.

    That’s a non sequitur. There is value in shutting someone up if they are making unprovable and reputationally damaging accusations against you. That holds whether both parties sincerely believe their version of events, one party is lying, or both parties are lying.

    See bolded part above.

    Only non-witches get due process.

    • Cotton Mather, Salem Massachusetts, 1692
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    • J jon-nyc
      23 Nov 2024, 17:14

      @Horace said in The Hegseth "incident.":

      @jon-nyc said in The Hegseth "incident.":

      @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

      @jon-nyc said in The Hegseth "incident.":

      The NDA was to squash anything pertaining to the incident, in lieu of future career opportunities.

      This doesn’t make sense. If it were Mike Pence, sure. But having sex with a married woman doesn’t show up in his top ten list of reputational hits.

      But a rape accusation, even a false one, does.

      Now that it’s out anyway, the NDA is purely a liability. Unless he really has something to hide.

      That’s a non sequitur. There is value in shutting someone up if they are making unprovable and reputationally damaging accusations against you. That holds whether both parties sincerely believe their version of events, one party is lying, or both parties are lying.

      See bolded part above.

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      Horace
      wrote on 23 Nov 2024, 17:59 last edited by
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      @jon-nyc said in The Hegseth "incident.":

      @Horace said in The Hegseth "incident.":

      @jon-nyc said in The Hegseth "incident.":

      @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

      @jon-nyc said in The Hegseth "incident.":

      The NDA was to squash anything pertaining to the incident, in lieu of future career opportunities.

      This doesn’t make sense. If it were Mike Pence, sure. But having sex with a married woman doesn’t show up in his top ten list of reputational hits.

      But a rape accusation, even a false one, does.

      Now that it’s out anyway, the NDA is purely a liability. Unless he really has something to hide.

      That’s a non sequitur. There is value in shutting someone up if they are making unprovable and reputationally damaging accusations against you. That holds whether both parties sincerely believe their version of events, one party is lying, or both parties are lying.

      See bolded part above.

      You keep reiterating that point, which I've attempted to engage in the other thread. You avoided that engagement, as you've avoided responding to any point I've made here. For the record, you have not provided a scenario in which an innocent Hegseth would be well advised to lift the NDA. The NDA is a good idea regardless of whether either party sincerely believes they are telling the truth. In order to engage with that point, you would have to provide a scenario in which an innocent Hegseth gains some advantage by lifting the NDA.

      Education is extremely important.

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        jon-nyc
        wrote on 23 Nov 2024, 18:40 last edited by
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        The point is obvious and I have made it. Since the story is out, and the police report is out, the NDA no longer serves the purpose of keeping the rape allegations under wrap. Continuing to hold her to the NDA just makes it look like there’s something he’s still hiding.

        Only non-witches get due process.

        • Cotton Mather, Salem Massachusetts, 1692
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        • J jon-nyc
          23 Nov 2024, 18:40

          The point is obvious and I have made it. Since the story is out, and the police report is out, the NDA no longer serves the purpose of keeping the rape allegations under wrap. Continuing to hold her to the NDA just makes it look like there’s something he’s still hiding.

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          Horace
          wrote on 23 Nov 2024, 18:47 last edited by
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          @jon-nyc said in The Hegseth "incident.":

          The point is obvious and I have made it. Since the story is out, and the police report is out, the NDA no longer serves the purpose of keeping the rape allegations under wrap. Continuing to hold her to the NDA just makes it look like there’s something he’s still hiding.

          It's an obviously weak point, and I have responded to it. Run the tape forward after the NDA is lifted. Now this accuser is out there going on all the talk shows, making money for accusing you of rape, with a financial motivation to make it as juicy as possible. None of it will be provable or disprovable. That's your "good idea".

          Education is extremely important.

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            jon-nyc
            wrote on 23 Nov 2024, 19:38 last edited by
            #19

            Fair point.

            Only non-witches get due process.

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              Tom-K
              wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 00:08 last edited by
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              But over all I'd consider him kind of a shitty guy. I'd rather it wasn't so. I'm sure he's going to be a great SoD, so no issues there, it just looks bad and makes him kind of creepy.

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                Mik
                wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 00:11 last edited by
                #21

                She should be held accountable for violating the agreement, whatever that consists of.

                “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                • T Tom-K
                  24 Nov 2024, 00:08

                  But over all I'd consider him kind of a shitty guy. I'd rather it wasn't so. I'm sure he's going to be a great SoD, so no issues there, it just looks bad and makes him kind of creepy.

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                  George K
                  wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 00:44 last edited by
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                  Is it possible that there's something in the NDA that she wants kept private?

                  @Tom-K said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                  But over all I'd consider him kind of a shitty guy. I'd rather it wasn't so. I'm sure he's going to be a great SoD, so no issues there, it just looks bad and makes him kind of creepy.

                  Yes, and @jolly's concern about his penchant for womanizing is of concern - especially when it comes to such a high position.

                  If I were President-Elect Trump, I'd jettison him. Too much of a potential liability with no real plus side. I'm sure there are many other more qualified people.

                  I hear Kamala Harris might be looking for work.

                  "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                  The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                    Jolly
                    wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 02:12 last edited by
                    #23

                    Does she charge by the hour or by the job?

                    “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                    Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                    • J Jolly
                      24 Nov 2024, 02:12

                      Does she charge by the hour or by the job?

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                      George K
                      wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 02:14 last edited by
                      #24

                      @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                      Does she charge by the hour or by the job?

                      Word is that she was Hegseth's "Handler" for the conference. I have no idea what that means.

                      "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                      The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                        89th
                        wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 02:30 last edited by
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                        Pretty clear case of non consensual sex. She was sober, he was intoxicated.

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                        • 8 89th
                          24 Nov 2024, 02:30

                          Pretty clear case of non consensual sex. She was sober, he was intoxicated.

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                          George K
                          wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 02:37 last edited by
                          #26

                          @89th said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                          Pretty clear case of non consensual sex. She was sober, he was intoxicated.

                          LOL.

                          Yeah...what sober woman takes a drunk guy to his hotel room at 2 AM and is "surprised" at what happens?

                          But, as I alluded above, thought this incident, by itself, is not disqualifying, the pattern of behavior, including the fact that he admitted to this probably is.

                          Not legally (I believe he did not rape her), but practically.

                          He is a liability, and that's the last thing President-Elect Trump needs.

                          "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                          The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                            89th
                            wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 02:42 last edited by
                            #27

                            Trump has done enough adultery on his own, he doesn’t need even more help from his nominees.

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                            • 8 89th
                              24 Nov 2024, 02:42

                              Trump has done enough adultery on his own, he doesn’t need even more help from his nominees.

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                              Jolly
                              wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 03:17 last edited by
                              #28

                              @89th said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                              Trump has done enough adultery on his own, he doesn’t need even more help from his nominees.

                              The TDS is strong within this one, it is.

                              “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                              Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                Horace
                                wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 04:10 last edited by
                                #29

                                Depending on who Trump picks for Secretary of Concentration Camps, those sorts of posts might be pretty dangerous.

                                Education is extremely important.

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                                • J Jolly
                                  24 Nov 2024, 03:17

                                  @89th said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                                  Trump has done enough adultery on his own, he doesn’t need even more help from his nominees.

                                  The TDS is strong within this one, it is.

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                                  89th
                                  wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 05:42 last edited by
                                  #30

                                  @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                                  @89th said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                                  Trump has done enough adultery on his own, he doesn’t need even more help from his nominees.

                                  The TDS is strong within this one, it is.

                                  Or just a reminder why I didn’t vote for him. It’s surprisingly simple. I will not tell my kids I voted for someone so morally bankrupt. Ironic, since he loves bankruptcies.

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                                  • J Jolly
                                    24 Nov 2024, 03:17

                                    @89th said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                                    Trump has done enough adultery on his own, he doesn’t need even more help from his nominees.

                                    The TDS is strong within this one, it is.

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                                    jon-nyc
                                    wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 10:47 last edited by
                                    #31

                                    @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                                    @89th said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                                    Trump has done enough adultery on his own, he doesn’t need even more help from his nominees.

                                    The TDS is strong within this one, it is.

                                    TDS (noun): (1) Trump Derangement Syndrome. (2) A handy epithet used to dismiss claims that offend one's sensibilities without having to go to the bother of providing any arguments.

                                    Only non-witches get due process.

                                    • Cotton Mather, Salem Massachusetts, 1692
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                                    • 8 89th
                                      24 Nov 2024, 05:42

                                      @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                                      @89th said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                                      Trump has done enough adultery on his own, he doesn’t need even more help from his nominees.

                                      The TDS is strong within this one, it is.

                                      Or just a reminder why I didn’t vote for him. It’s surprisingly simple. I will not tell my kids I voted for someone so morally bankrupt. Ironic, since he loves bankruptcies.

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                                      Horace
                                      wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 13:26 last edited by
                                      #32

                                      @89th said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                                      @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                                      @89th said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                                      Trump has done enough adultery on his own, he doesn’t need even more help from his nominees.

                                      The TDS is strong within this one, it is.

                                      Or just a reminder why I didn’t vote for him. It’s surprisingly simple. I will not tell my kids I voted for someone so morally bankrupt. Ironic, since he loves bankruptcies.

                                      You don’t want them deciding not to share a thanksgiving table with you.

                                      Education is extremely important.

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                                        Tom-K
                                        wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 17:22 last edited by
                                        #33

                                        At least he doesnt, "like um' young."

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                                          Jolly
                                          wrote on 24 Nov 2024, 17:31 last edited by
                                          #34

                                          Bottom line...Can he do the job?

                                          Lots of people in the North thought Lincoln was nuts for appointing Grant.

                                          “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                          Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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