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Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.

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  • 89th8 Offline
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    Who’s the other victim, the surgeon? Sorry it’s late and I’m tired.

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    • 89th8 89th

      Who’s the other victim, the surgeon? Sorry it’s late and I’m tired.

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      #17

      @89th said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

      Who’s the other victim, the surgeon? Sorry it’s late and I’m tired.

      The donor

      I was only joking

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      • MikM Offline
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        Consider the contrast between the donor and these miscreant parents. One could hardly think them the same species.

        "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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          Ah yes. The donor. My FIL got a kidney transplant in July and I've become very familiar with the anti-rejection regiment and requirements. He's actually back at Mayo right now because his white bloodcell count is lower than expected, they think maybe an infection somewhere.

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            I was thinking more of the person further down the transplant list that didn’t receive a new heart…

            The Brad

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            • 89th8 Offline
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              Even moreso, wow. Lots of victims from this stupidity.

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              • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad

                I was thinking more of the person further down the transplant list that didn’t receive a new heart…

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                @LuFins-Dad said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

                I was thinking more of the person further down the transplant list that didn’t receive a new heart…

                Yeah, that's an even bigger deal.

                Also, imagine how the parents of the donor feel.

                I was only joking

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                • MikM Offline
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                  I doubt they know who received it. Jon? But I still feel it. I have a friend who's on the heart transplant list. She's been living with an LVAD for over a year now.

                  "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                  • MikM Mik

                    I doubt they know who received it. Jon? But I still feel it. I have a friend who's on the heart transplant list. She's been living with an LVAD for over a year now.

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                    @Mik said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

                    I doubt they know who received it. Jon?

                    Yeah, I'm not sure - but somebody who used to post here did know who he'd received his from. It was a big deal to him.

                    I was only joking

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                    • MikM Offline
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                      I do remember that. KB it was.

                      "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                        #26

                        Right, so for HIPPA reasons the hospitals don’t share info.

                        However, the recipient can send a letter to the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS) who will pass it along to the donor family, which may or may not respond.

                        That’s what happened with KB

                        I can’t see these parents doing that.

                        Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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                        • RainmanR Offline
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                          Rainman
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                          Of course you know that I know that you know that I know what you mean. Wink. Double-wink.

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                          • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                            Right, so for HIPPA reasons the hospitals don’t share info.

                            However, the recipient can send a letter to the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS) who will pass it along to the donor family, which may or may not respond.

                            That’s what happened with KB

                            I can’t see these parents doing that.

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                            @jon-nyc said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

                            Right, so for HIPPA reasons the hospitals don’t share info.

                            However, the recipient can send a letter to the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS) who will pass it along to the donor family, which may or may not respond.

                            That’s what happened with KB

                            I can’t see these parents doing that.

                            Yeah, I can't either. At this point I'd first question their literacy, the ability to actually do that. If they passed that I can think of a whole lot of other reasons why they wouldn't.

                            "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                              There should have been better oversight and quick intervention. What good does time in jail do, or some sort of other penalty. Nada

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                              • MikM Mik

                                I do remember that. KB it was.

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                                @Mik said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

                                KB it was.

                                DOnt mean to derail the forum thread, but does anybody know what happened to him?

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                                  He’s fine, still in Colorado as far as I know.

                                  "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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