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Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.

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  • jon-nycJ Online
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    jon-nyc
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    #10

    I mentioned several times here that a history of non-compliance will get you removed from the transplant list.

    If you don't take it, it can only good happen.

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    • taiwan_girlT Offline
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      #11

      How sad. šŸ˜ž

      Should not have been just involuntary manslaughter.

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      • taiwan_girlT taiwan_girl

        How sad. šŸ˜ž

        Should not have been just involuntary manslaughter.

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        brenda
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        #12

        @taiwan_girl
        Agreed. What a sad thing for the kid to go through all that, and be stuck with parents like that.

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        • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad

          There’s another victim in all of this…

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          Renauda
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          #13

          @LuFins-Dad said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

          There’s another victim in all of this…

          So true.

          Elbows up!

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          • 89th8 Offline
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            89th
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            #14

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            • 89th8 Offline
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              89th
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              #15

              Looks like a winner

              Yeah when she said the kid missed two doses per week, you know it was way more than that. That’s like asking a drunk driver how many drinks they’ve had ā€œoh one or twoā€ is usually the false answer

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              • 89th8 Offline
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                #16

                Who’s the other victim, the surgeon? Sorry it’s late and I’m tired.

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                • 89th8 89th

                  Who’s the other victim, the surgeon? Sorry it’s late and I’m tired.

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                  Doctor Phibes
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #17

                  @89th said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

                  Who’s the other victim, the surgeon? Sorry it’s late and I’m tired.

                  The donor

                  I was only joking

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                  • MikM Away
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                    Mik
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #18

                    Consider the contrast between the donor and these miscreant parents. One could hardly think them the same species.

                    "You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible." — Thomas Sowell

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                    • 89th8 Offline
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                      #19

                      Ah yes. The donor. My FIL got a kidney transplant in July and I've become very familiar with the anti-rejection regiment and requirements. He's actually back at Mayo right now because his white bloodcell count is lower than expected, they think maybe an infection somewhere.

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                      • LuFins DadL Offline
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                        LuFins Dad
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                        #20

                        I was thinking more of the person further down the transplant list that didn’t receive a new heart…

                        The Brad

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                        • 89th8 Offline
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                          89th
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #21

                          Even moreso, wow. Lots of victims from this stupidity.

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                          • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad

                            I was thinking more of the person further down the transplant list that didn’t receive a new heart…

                            Doctor PhibesD Online
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                            Doctor Phibes
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                            #22

                            @LuFins-Dad said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

                            I was thinking more of the person further down the transplant list that didn’t receive a new heart…

                            Yeah, that's an even bigger deal.

                            Also, imagine how the parents of the donor feel.

                            I was only joking

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                            • MikM Away
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                              wrote on last edited by Mik
                              #23

                              I doubt they know who received it. Jon? But I still feel it. I have a friend who's on the heart transplant list. She's been living with an LVAD for over a year now.

                              "You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible." — Thomas Sowell

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                              • MikM Mik

                                I doubt they know who received it. Jon? But I still feel it. I have a friend who's on the heart transplant list. She's been living with an LVAD for over a year now.

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                                Doctor Phibes
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                                @Mik said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

                                I doubt they know who received it. Jon?

                                Yeah, I'm not sure - but somebody who used to post here did know who he'd received his from. It was a big deal to him.

                                I was only joking

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                                • MikM Away
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                                  Mik
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #25

                                  I do remember that. KB it was.

                                  "You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible." — Thomas Sowell

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                                  • jon-nycJ Online
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                                    jon-nyc
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #26

                                    Right, so for HIPPA reasons the hospitals don’t share info.

                                    However, the recipient can send a letter to the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS) who will pass it along to the donor family, which may or may not respond.

                                    That’s what happened with KB

                                    I can’t see these parents doing that.

                                    If you don't take it, it can only good happen.

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                                      Rainman
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                                      #27

                                      Of course you know that I know that you know that I know what you mean. Wink. Double-wink.

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                                      • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                                        Right, so for HIPPA reasons the hospitals don’t share info.

                                        However, the recipient can send a letter to the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS) who will pass it along to the donor family, which may or may not respond.

                                        That’s what happened with KB

                                        I can’t see these parents doing that.

                                        MikM Away
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                                        Mik
                                        wrote on last edited by
                                        #28

                                        @jon-nyc said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

                                        Right, so for HIPPA reasons the hospitals don’t share info.

                                        However, the recipient can send a letter to the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS) who will pass it along to the donor family, which may or may not respond.

                                        That’s what happened with KB

                                        I can’t see these parents doing that.

                                        Yeah, I can't either. At this point I'd first question their literacy, the ability to actually do that. If they passed that I can think of a whole lot of other reasons why they wouldn't.

                                        "You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible." — Thomas Sowell

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                                          Rainman
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                                          #29

                                          There should have been better oversight and quick intervention. What good does time in jail do, or some sort of other penalty. Nada

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