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Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.

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  • MikM Away
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    Mik
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    #18

    Consider the contrast between the donor and these miscreant parents. One could hardly think them the same species.

    "You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible." — Thomas Sowell

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    • 89th8 Offline
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      Ah yes. The donor. My FIL got a kidney transplant in July and I've become very familiar with the anti-rejection regiment and requirements. He's actually back at Mayo right now because his white bloodcell count is lower than expected, they think maybe an infection somewhere.

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      • LuFins DadL Offline
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        #20

        I was thinking more of the person further down the transplant list that didn’t receive a new heart…

        The Brad

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          Even moreso, wow. Lots of victims from this stupidity.

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          • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad

            I was thinking more of the person further down the transplant list that didn’t receive a new heart…

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            @LuFins-Dad said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

            I was thinking more of the person further down the transplant list that didn’t receive a new heart…

            Yeah, that's an even bigger deal.

            Also, imagine how the parents of the donor feel.

            I was only joking

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            • MikM Away
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              wrote on last edited by Mik
              #23

              I doubt they know who received it. Jon? But I still feel it. I have a friend who's on the heart transplant list. She's been living with an LVAD for over a year now.

              "You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible." — Thomas Sowell

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              • MikM Mik

                I doubt they know who received it. Jon? But I still feel it. I have a friend who's on the heart transplant list. She's been living with an LVAD for over a year now.

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                @Mik said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

                I doubt they know who received it. Jon?

                Yeah, I'm not sure - but somebody who used to post here did know who he'd received his from. It was a big deal to him.

                I was only joking

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                • MikM Away
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                  wrote on last edited by
                  #25

                  I do remember that. KB it was.

                  "You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible." — Thomas Sowell

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                    #26

                    Right, so for HIPPA reasons the hospitals don’t share info.

                    However, the recipient can send a letter to the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS) who will pass it along to the donor family, which may or may not respond.

                    That’s what happened with KB

                    I can’t see these parents doing that.

                    If you don't take it, it can only good happen.

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                      #27

                      Of course you know that I know that you know that I know what you mean. Wink. Double-wink.

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                      • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                        Right, so for HIPPA reasons the hospitals don’t share info.

                        However, the recipient can send a letter to the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS) who will pass it along to the donor family, which may or may not respond.

                        That’s what happened with KB

                        I can’t see these parents doing that.

                        MikM Away
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                        Mik
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #28

                        @jon-nyc said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

                        Right, so for HIPPA reasons the hospitals don’t share info.

                        However, the recipient can send a letter to the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS) who will pass it along to the donor family, which may or may not respond.

                        That’s what happened with KB

                        I can’t see these parents doing that.

                        Yeah, I can't either. At this point I'd first question their literacy, the ability to actually do that. If they passed that I can think of a whole lot of other reasons why they wouldn't.

                        "You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible." — Thomas Sowell

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                          There should have been better oversight and quick intervention. What good does time in jail do, or some sort of other penalty. Nada

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                          • MikM Mik

                            I do remember that. KB it was.

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                            @Mik said in Parents don't give anti-rejection meds, son dies.:

                            KB it was.

                            DOnt mean to derail the forum thread, but does anybody know what happened to him?

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                            • MikM Away
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                              He’s fine, still in Colorado as far as I know.

                              "You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible." — Thomas Sowell

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