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Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man

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    Renauda
    wrote on 1 Feb 2021, 21:22 last edited by Renauda 2 Jan 2021, 21:28
    #40

    Freedom of association? FFS, its a damned cemetery and from what I can gather, a Christian cemetery at that. Full of putrefying Christian corpses that have well moved beyond caring whether or not their neighbour in the next grave or crypt was at one time a black man or woman.

    As Cats stated it's antediluvian, an outdated and indefensible rule from a bygone era that was characterized by racism against the negro race. This is 2021 such rules have no place anywhere in any jurisdiction in North America, especially the USA.

    As to whether I sound virtuous, I really don't care. I just consider the source of the epithet and nod my head. I'd much rather sound virtuous than like a George Wallace, who is exactly what some folks here sound like while they spin their nonsense.

    Elbows up!

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    • D Doctor Phibes
      1 Feb 2021, 20:46

      @copper said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

      @doctor-phibes said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

      I'd stop digging, if I were you.

      No need

      But if it helps you to feel virtuous , please feel free to insinuate whatever you want

      I remain comfortable discussing things that would make your HR lady faint

      I just think you're in danger of making yourself look like a bit of a twat. I'm only trying to help.

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      Copper
      wrote on 1 Feb 2021, 21:25 last edited by
      #41

      @doctor-phibes said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

      @copper said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

      @doctor-phibes said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

      I'd stop digging, if I were you.

      No need

      But if it helps you to feel virtuous , please feel free to insinuate whatever you want

      I remain comfortable discussing things that would make your HR lady faint

      I just think you're in danger of making yourself look like a bit of a twat. I'm only trying to help.

      Get this

      I am neither for nor against diversity in this forum

      Sorry, I’m sure you’ll be crawling around looking for your pearls for a while.

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      • D Doctor Phibes
        1 Feb 2021, 20:59

        @mik said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

        Why? By saying something may be legal when it very well may be?

        Collecting photographs of porcine genitalia is perfectly legal, too. I would hazard a guess that if you stumbled upon a large scrap-book filled with such photography, and your immediate reaction was 'Well, it's PERFECTLY LEGAL YOU KNOW!!!', that eyebrows might be raised.

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        Mik
        wrote on 1 Feb 2021, 22:02 last edited by
        #42

        @doctor-phibes said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

        @mik said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

        Why? By saying something may be legal when it very well may be?

        Collecting photographs of porcine genitalia is perfectly legal, too. I would hazard a guess that if you stumbled upon a large scrap-book filled with such photography, and your immediate reaction was 'Well, it's PERFECTLY LEGAL YOU KNOW!!!', that eyebrows might be raised.

        Are you daydrinking?

        “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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        • M Mik
          1 Feb 2021, 22:02

          @doctor-phibes said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

          @mik said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

          Why? By saying something may be legal when it very well may be?

          Collecting photographs of porcine genitalia is perfectly legal, too. I would hazard a guess that if you stumbled upon a large scrap-book filled with such photography, and your immediate reaction was 'Well, it's PERFECTLY LEGAL YOU KNOW!!!', that eyebrows might be raised.

          Are you daydrinking?

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          George K
          wrote on 1 Feb 2021, 22:05 last edited by
          #43

          @mik said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

          Are you daydrinking?

          I am, NTTAWWT.

          "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

          The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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          • M Mik
            1 Feb 2021, 22:02

            @doctor-phibes said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

            @mik said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

            Why? By saying something may be legal when it very well may be?

            Collecting photographs of porcine genitalia is perfectly legal, too. I would hazard a guess that if you stumbled upon a large scrap-book filled with such photography, and your immediate reaction was 'Well, it's PERFECTLY LEGAL YOU KNOW!!!', that eyebrows might be raised.

            Are you daydrinking?

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            Doctor Phibes
            wrote on 1 Feb 2021, 22:58 last edited by
            #44

            @mik said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

            @doctor-phibes said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

            @mik said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

            Why? By saying something may be legal when it very well may be?

            Collecting photographs of porcine genitalia is perfectly legal, too. I would hazard a guess that if you stumbled upon a large scrap-book filled with such photography, and your immediate reaction was 'Well, it's PERFECTLY LEGAL YOU KNOW!!!', that eyebrows might be raised.

            Are you daydrinking?

            Do you think it would help?

            I was only joking

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            • D Doctor Phibes
              1 Feb 2021, 22:58

              @mik said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

              @doctor-phibes said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

              @mik said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

              Why? By saying something may be legal when it very well may be?

              Collecting photographs of porcine genitalia is perfectly legal, too. I would hazard a guess that if you stumbled upon a large scrap-book filled with such photography, and your immediate reaction was 'Well, it's PERFECTLY LEGAL YOU KNOW!!!', that eyebrows might be raised.

              Are you daydrinking?

              Do you think it would help?

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              Mik
              wrote on 1 Feb 2021, 23:00 last edited by
              #45

              @doctor-phibes probably.

              “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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              • R Renauda
                1 Feb 2021, 21:22

                Freedom of association? FFS, its a damned cemetery and from what I can gather, a Christian cemetery at that. Full of putrefying Christian corpses that have well moved beyond caring whether or not their neighbour in the next grave or crypt was at one time a black man or woman.

                As Cats stated it's antediluvian, an outdated and indefensible rule from a bygone era that was characterized by racism against the negro race. This is 2021 such rules have no place anywhere in any jurisdiction in North America, especially the USA.

                As to whether I sound virtuous, I really don't care. I just consider the source of the epithet and nod my head. I'd much rather sound virtuous than like a George Wallace, who is exactly what some folks here sound like while they spin their nonsense.

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                Jolly
                wrote on 1 Feb 2021, 23:22 last edited by
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                @renauda said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                Freedom of association? FFS, its a damned cemetery and from what I can gather, a Christian cemetery at that. Full of putrefying Christian corpses that have well moved beyond caring whether or not their neighbour in the next grave or crypt was at one time a black man or woman.

                As Cats stated it's antediluvian, an outdated and indefensible rule from a bygone era that was characterized by racism against the negro race. This is 2021 such rules have no place anywhere in any jurisdiction in North America, especially the USA.

                As to whether I sound virtuous, I really don't care. I just consider the source of the epithet and nod my head. I'd much rather sound virtuous than like a George Wallace, who is exactly what some folks here sound like while they spin their nonsense.

                That makes it more interesting and launches this issue into my wheelhouse. I've been involved with cemetery stuff at the church for the last couple of years. If it's a private cemetery, the by-laws apply and not public accommodation laws.

                Right or wrong, the 81 year-old lady was pointing out what was on the books. Don't like it? Bring it before the church and have the rules changed.

                And apparently, that's what happened. You can now all dig your panties out of the crack of your collective asses....

                “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                • J Jolly
                  1 Feb 2021, 23:22

                  @renauda said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                  Freedom of association? FFS, its a damned cemetery and from what I can gather, a Christian cemetery at that. Full of putrefying Christian corpses that have well moved beyond caring whether or not their neighbour in the next grave or crypt was at one time a black man or woman.

                  As Cats stated it's antediluvian, an outdated and indefensible rule from a bygone era that was characterized by racism against the negro race. This is 2021 such rules have no place anywhere in any jurisdiction in North America, especially the USA.

                  As to whether I sound virtuous, I really don't care. I just consider the source of the epithet and nod my head. I'd much rather sound virtuous than like a George Wallace, who is exactly what some folks here sound like while they spin their nonsense.

                  That makes it more interesting and launches this issue into my wheelhouse. I've been involved with cemetery stuff at the church for the last couple of years. If it's a private cemetery, the by-laws apply and not public accommodation laws.

                  Right or wrong, the 81 year-old lady was pointing out what was on the books. Don't like it? Bring it before the church and have the rules changed.

                  And apparently, that's what happened. You can now all dig your panties out of the crack of your collective asses....

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                  Renauda
                  wrote on 1 Feb 2021, 23:29 last edited by Renauda 2 Jan 2021, 23:29
                  #47

                  @jolly ....and it took what and how long since the 1960s for them to review their books?

                  Thought so.

                  You sort your own laundry out.

                  Elbows up!

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                  • R Renauda
                    1 Feb 2021, 23:29

                    @jolly ....and it took what and how long since the 1960s for them to review their books?

                    Thought so.

                    You sort your own laundry out.

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                    Jolly
                    wrote on 1 Feb 2021, 23:42 last edited by
                    #48

                    @renauda said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                    @jolly ....and it took what and how long since the 1960s for them to review their books?

                    Thought so.

                    You sort your own laundry out.

                    Those things are not routinely reviewed. The operating policies are drawn up, then voted on. As long as they stipulate certain things such as plot prices, plot locations, grave depths, etc., the policies are not revisited. The state mandates a certain amount of funds in escrow, if plots are sold as perpetual care and the state requests an initial plot map and a periodic update.

                    Now, you basically don't know what the fuck you are talking about and on this issue you have an opinion based on no knowledge.

                    “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                    Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                    • J Jolly
                      1 Feb 2021, 23:42

                      @renauda said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                      @jolly ....and it took what and how long since the 1960s for them to review their books?

                      Thought so.

                      You sort your own laundry out.

                      Those things are not routinely reviewed. The operating policies are drawn up, then voted on. As long as they stipulate certain things such as plot prices, plot locations, grave depths, etc., the policies are not revisited. The state mandates a certain amount of funds in escrow, if plots are sold as perpetual care and the state requests an initial plot map and a periodic update.

                      Now, you basically don't know what the fuck you are talking about and on this issue you have an opinion based on no knowledge.

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                      Rich
                      wrote on 1 Feb 2021, 23:55 last edited by
                      #49

                      @jolly The argument that this policy was some unintended carry over from yesteryear would hold more sway if the caretaker didn't tell them they couldn't do business the instant she saw black people.

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                      • R Rich
                        1 Feb 2021, 23:55

                        @jolly The argument that this policy was some unintended carry over from yesteryear would hold more sway if the caretaker didn't tell them they couldn't do business the instant she saw black people.

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                        Jolly
                        wrote on 1 Feb 2021, 23:59 last edited by
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                        @rich said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                        @jolly The argument that this policy was some unintended carry over from yesteryear would hold more sway if the caretaker didn't tell them they couldn't do business the instant she saw black people.

                        She's 81. For all I know, she could have wrote the policy. And that may be her personal feelings.

                        What I am saying, is that these things are not part of a normal cycle of review within a church that has a cemetery.

                        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                        • J Jolly
                          1 Feb 2021, 23:42

                          @renauda said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                          @jolly ....and it took what and how long since the 1960s for them to review their books?

                          Thought so.

                          You sort your own laundry out.

                          Those things are not routinely reviewed. The operating policies are drawn up, then voted on. As long as they stipulate certain things such as plot prices, plot locations, grave depths, etc., the policies are not revisited. The state mandates a certain amount of funds in escrow, if plots are sold as perpetual care and the state requests an initial plot map and a periodic update.

                          Now, you basically don't know what the fuck you are talking about and on this issue you have an opinion based on no knowledge.

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                          Renauda
                          wrote on 2 Feb 2021, 00:17 last edited by
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                          @jolly said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                          Now, you basically don't know what the fuck you are talking about and on this issue you have an opinion based on no knowledge.

                          Basically you are probably right but that still doesn't explain why in 2021 black folks still could not purchase grave plots in the cemetery. In this day and age of legalese and litigation suggesting these policies are not regularly reviewed by the management and BoD strikes me as either a lame excuse or just plain disingenuous.

                          Elbows up!

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                            Rainman
                            wrote on 2 Feb 2021, 00:52 last edited by Rainman 2 Feb 2021, 00:53
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                            @jolly said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                            Now, you basically don't know what the fuck you are talking about and on this issue you have an opinion based on no knowledge.

                            Well, that pretty much sums up a lot of us, eh?

                            And as for blacks being buried there, that's fine. I'm perfectly fine with that. No problem, this is 2021, the rage of intersectionality, CRT, SJW, everything is racist or needs to be. I get it, I'm in, BLM+.

                            But of course, no Mexicans.

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                              Horace
                              wrote on 2 Feb 2021, 00:56 last edited by
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                              Or Irish.

                              Education is extremely important.

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                              • R Renauda
                                2 Feb 2021, 00:17

                                @jolly said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                                Now, you basically don't know what the fuck you are talking about and on this issue you have an opinion based on no knowledge.

                                Basically you are probably right but that still doesn't explain why in 2021 black folks still could not purchase grave plots in the cemetery. In this day and age of legalese and litigation suggesting these policies are not regularly reviewed by the management and BoD strikes me as either a lame excuse or just plain disingenuous.

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                                Copper
                                wrote on 2 Feb 2021, 02:41 last edited by
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                                @renauda said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                                that still doesn't explain why in 2021 black folks still could not purchase grave plots in the cemetery.

                                In case you missed it above, they changed the policy, black folks can buy the grave plot.

                                I hope that helps with your outrage.

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                                  Mik
                                  wrote on 2 Feb 2021, 02:58 last edited by
                                  #55

                                  It had likely never been challenged and it’s quite likely no one really cared.

                                  “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                                  • R Rainman
                                    2 Feb 2021, 00:52

                                    @jolly said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                                    Now, you basically don't know what the fuck you are talking about and on this issue you have an opinion based on no knowledge.

                                    Well, that pretty much sums up a lot of us, eh?

                                    And as for blacks being buried there, that's fine. I'm perfectly fine with that. No problem, this is 2021, the rage of intersectionality, CRT, SJW, everything is racist or needs to be. I get it, I'm in, BLM+.

                                    But of course, no Mexicans.

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                                    Jolly
                                    wrote on 2 Feb 2021, 03:01 last edited by
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                                    @rainman said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                                    @jolly said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                                    Now, you basically don't know what the fuck you are talking about and on this issue you have an opinion based on no knowledge.

                                    Well, that pretty much sums up a lot of us, eh?

                                    And as for blacks being buried there, that's fine. I'm perfectly fine with that. No problem, this is 2021, the rage of intersectionality, CRT, SJW, everything is racist or needs to be. I get it, I'm in, BLM+.

                                    But of course, no Mexicans.

                                    To be honest, as long as it's a private cemetery, I'm not much concerned who they bury there. For instance, maybe there's a private cemetery by a synagogue and they have a policy where no Muslims can be buried there. Or Christians. Or Herbie Hancock fans.

                                    I may not like it. I might condemn them for their practices. But I figure they've got a right to do what they want to at a private venue of whatever kind.

                                    “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                    Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                    • M Mik
                                      2 Feb 2021, 02:58

                                      It had likely never been challenged and it’s quite likely no one really cared.

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                                      Jolly
                                      wrote on 2 Feb 2021, 03:01 last edited by
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                                      @mik said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                                      It had likely never been challenged and it’s quite likely no one really cared.

                                      Oh, maybe they cared 60 years ago. Or maybe longer...

                                      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                      • C Copper
                                        2 Feb 2021, 02:41

                                        @renauda said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                                        that still doesn't explain why in 2021 black folks still could not purchase grave plots in the cemetery.

                                        In case you missed it above, they changed the policy, black folks can buy the grave plot.

                                        I hope that helps with your outrage.

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                                        Renauda
                                        wrote on 2 Feb 2021, 04:04 last edited by Renauda 2 Mar 2021, 18:59
                                        #58

                                        @copper said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                                        @renauda said in Louisiana whites-0nly cemetery apologizes for refusing to bury black man:

                                        that still doesn't explain why in 2021 black folks still could not purchase grave plots in the cemetery.

                                        In case you missed it above, they changed the policy, black folks can buy the grave plot.

                                        I hope that helps with your outrage.

                                        Hell, I learned that yesterday sometime between after jon posted "Bad legal takes by Copper" and then provided you with the hot link on public accomodations. But I understand your indignation though, you've dug yourself into a hole. You really ought to have taken Phibes advice against that. Silly billy.

                                        In any case I am disappointed not outraged that something this still occurs in a country such as the USA.

                                        Elbows up!

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