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  • Catseye3C Catseye3

    @brenda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

    Is this testing religion or just historical practices to keep women subjugated in their families?

    In his book Shibumi, Trevanian writes this: "Virginity is important to Arabs, who dread comparison, and with good reason."

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    @catseye3 said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

    @brenda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

    Is this testing religion or just historical practices to keep women subjugated in their families?

    In his book Shibumi, Trevanian writes this: "Virginity is important to Arabs, who dread comparison, and with good reason."

    LOLOL

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    • HoraceH Horace

      @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

      But when you start down the slippery slope of criminalizing religious behavior, at what point do you lose freedom of religion?

      That sounds suspiciously like nuance.

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      Renauda
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      @horace said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

      @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

      But when you start down the slippery slope of criminalizing religious behavior, at what point do you lose freedom of religion?

      That sounds suspiciously like nuance.

      Sounds more like fear of becoming an irrelevant anachronism.

      Elbows up!

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      • RenaudaR Renauda

        @horace said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

        @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

        But when you start down the slippery slope of criminalizing religious behavior, at what point do you lose freedom of religion?

        That sounds suspiciously like nuance.

        Sounds more like fear of becoming an irrelevant anachronism.

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        @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

        @horace said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

        @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

        But when you start down the slippery slope of criminalizing religious behavior, at what point do you lose freedom of religion?

        That sounds suspiciously like nuance.

        Sounds more like fear of becoming an irrelevant anachronism.

        Careful, your value system is speaking louder than your nuance is, again.

        Education is extremely important.

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        • HoraceH Horace

          @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

          @horace said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

          @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

          But when you start down the slippery slope of criminalizing religious behavior, at what point do you lose freedom of religion?

          That sounds suspiciously like nuance.

          Sounds more like fear of becoming an irrelevant anachronism.

          Careful, your value system is speaking louder than your nuance is, again.

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          Renauda
          wrote on last edited by
          #94

          @horace

          Yes I admit that the irrelevant anachronism accusation was being a bit harsh and judgmental. Fear of secularism would have sufficed.

          Elbows up!

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          • Doctor PhibesD Online
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            Doctor Phibes
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            #95

            It's not just about honour killing, which I would hope everybody would say is a very bad thing, it's about girls and young women becoming completely ostracized from their families.

            Obviously, outlawing virginity tests isn't going to change attitudes in of itself, but it sends a message that this isn't what we do.

            Anyway, it's up to the French what they do, and a bunch of Americans telling them they're wrong is going to have about as much effect as renaming your French fries - which I'm sure we can all agree was a particularly meaningless bit of symbolism.

            I was only joking

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            • brendaB brenda

              @copper said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

              Assault, murder, extortion, kidnapping, threats, stalking - all, and more, illegal.

              Why outlaw a specifically religious activity, especially if all parties consent?

              Because they don't consent. They are forced to be tested, too.

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              @brenda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

              @copper said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

              Assault, murder, extortion, kidnapping, threats, stalking - all, and more, illegal.

              Why outlaw a specifically religious activity, especially if all parties consent?

              Because they don't consent. They are forced to be tested, too.

              Wouldn't that be some kind of assault?

              I'd really be surprised if current laws didn't protect the woman.

              Maybe not.

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              • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

                It's not just about honour killing, which I would hope everybody would say is a very bad thing, it's about girls and young women becoming completely ostracized from their families.

                Obviously, outlawing virginity tests isn't going to change attitudes in of itself, but it sends a message that this isn't what we do.

                Anyway, it's up to the French what they do, and a bunch of Americans telling them they're wrong is going to have about as much effect as renaming your French fries - which I'm sure we can all agree was a particularly meaningless bit of symbolism.

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                Jolly
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                @doctor-phibes said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                It's not just about honour killing, which I would hope everybody would say is a very bad thing, it's about girls and young women becoming completely ostracized from their families.

                Obviously, outlawing virginity tests isn't going to change attitudes in of itself, but it sends a message that this isn't what we do.

                Anyway, it's up to the French what they do, and a bunch of Americans telling them they're wrong is going to have about as much effect as renaming your French fries - which I'm sure we can all agree was a particularly meaningless bit of symbolism.

                Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families. Then, maybe the practice dies as they marry nice French lads and produce children of their own...

                “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                • JollyJ Jolly

                  @doctor-phibes said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                  It's not just about honour killing, which I would hope everybody would say is a very bad thing, it's about girls and young women becoming completely ostracized from their families.

                  Obviously, outlawing virginity tests isn't going to change attitudes in of itself, but it sends a message that this isn't what we do.

                  Anyway, it's up to the French what they do, and a bunch of Americans telling them they're wrong is going to have about as much effect as renaming your French fries - which I'm sure we can all agree was a particularly meaningless bit of symbolism.

                  Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families. Then, maybe the practice dies as they marry nice French lads and produce children of their own...

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                  Renauda
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                  @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                  Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families.

                  For not taking advice from a few Americans?

                  Elbows up!

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                  • Doctor PhibesD Online
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                    Doctor Phibes
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                    #99

                    Also, as any civilized person will tell you, the correct word for French fries is ‘chips’.

                    I was only joking

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                    • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

                      Also, as any civilized person will tell you, the correct word for French fries is ‘chips’.

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                      Renauda
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                      #100

                      @doctor-phibes

                      Chips topped with malt vinegar and a bit of salt.

                      Elbows up!

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                      • RenaudaR Renauda

                        @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                        Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families.

                        For not taking advice from a few Americans?

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                        Jolly
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #101

                        @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                        @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                        Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families.

                        For not taking advice from a few Americans?

                        Or Canadians.

                        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                        • JollyJ Jolly

                          @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                          @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                          Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families.

                          For not taking advice from a few Americans?

                          Or Canadians.

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                          Renauda
                          wrote on last edited by Renauda
                          #102

                          @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                          @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                          @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                          Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families.

                          For not taking advice from a few Americans?

                          Or Canadians.

                          We are not advising, We are supporting institutional secularism in France. As we do in Quebec.

                          A big difference.

                          Elbows up!

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                          • RenaudaR Renauda

                            @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                            @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                            @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                            Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families.

                            For not taking advice from a few Americans?

                            Or Canadians.

                            We are not advising, We are supporting institutional secularism in France. As we do in Quebec.

                            A big difference.

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                            Jolly
                            wrote on last edited by Jolly
                            #103

                            @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                            @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                            @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                            @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                            Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families.

                            For not taking advice from a few Americans?

                            Or Canadians.

                            We are not advising, We are supporting institutional secularism in France. As we do in Quebec.

                            A big difference.

                            I'm supporting the right of people to live free without interference of government into their private lives. As we do in America. And as they supposedly do in France.

                            “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                            Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                            • JollyJ Jolly

                              @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                              @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                              @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                              @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                              Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families.

                              For not taking advice from a few Americans?

                              Or Canadians.

                              We are not advising, We are supporting institutional secularism in France. As we do in Quebec.

                              A big difference.

                              I'm supporting the right of people to live free without interference of government into their private lives. As we do in America. And as they supposedly do in France.

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                              Renauda
                              wrote on last edited by Renauda
                              #104

                              @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                              @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                              @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                              @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                              @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                              Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families.

                              For not taking advice from a few Americans?

                              Or Canadians.

                              We are not advising, We are supporting institutional secularism in France. As we do in Quebec.

                              A big difference.

                              I'm supporting the right of people to live free without interference of government into their private lives. As we do in America. And as they supposedly do in France.

                              I don't believe that for a second. I think America shattered that myth of itself a long time ago. You just find secularism abhorrent. I do not.

                              Elbows up!

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                              • Doctor PhibesD Online
                                Doctor PhibesD Online
                                Doctor Phibes
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #105

                                Maybe all the Muslims will come to America.

                                I was only joking

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                                • RenaudaR Renauda

                                  @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                  @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                  @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                  @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                  @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                  Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families.

                                  For not taking advice from a few Americans?

                                  Or Canadians.

                                  We are not advising, We are supporting institutional secularism in France. As we do in Quebec.

                                  A big difference.

                                  I'm supporting the right of people to live free without interference of government into their private lives. As we do in America. And as they supposedly do in France.

                                  I don't believe that for a second. I think America shattered that myth of itself a long time ago. You just find secularism abhorrent. I do not.

                                  JollyJ Offline
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                                  Jolly
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #106

                                  @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                  @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                  @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                  @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                  @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                  @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                  Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families.

                                  For not taking advice from a few Americans?

                                  Or Canadians.

                                  We are not advising, We are supporting institutional secularism in France. As we do in Quebec.

                                  A big difference.

                                  I'm supporting the right of people to live free without interference of government into their private lives. As we do in America. And as they supposedly do in France.

                                  I don't believe that for a second. I think America shattered that myth of itself a long time ago. You just find secularism abhorrent. I do not.

                                  I think secularism is a dead end road, littered with the remains of shattered hope and an ever-changing belief system. A series of vignettes of situational ethics and moral uncertainty, roaring loud and signifying nothing.

                                  Other than that, I'm sure some people like it...

                                  “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                  Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                  • JollyJ Jolly

                                    @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                    @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                    @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                    @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                    @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                    @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                    Then maybe they need to be ostracized from their families.

                                    For not taking advice from a few Americans?

                                    Or Canadians.

                                    We are not advising, We are supporting institutional secularism in France. As we do in Quebec.

                                    A big difference.

                                    I'm supporting the right of people to live free without interference of government into their private lives. As we do in America. And as they supposedly do in France.

                                    I don't believe that for a second. I think America shattered that myth of itself a long time ago. You just find secularism abhorrent. I do not.

                                    I think secularism is a dead end road, littered with the remains of shattered hope and an ever-changing belief system. A series of vignettes of situational ethics and moral uncertainty, roaring loud and signifying nothing.

                                    Other than that, I'm sure some people like it...

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                                    Renauda
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #107

                                    @jolly

                                    Yes you are correct, some people do like secularism and what it brings to the modern world.

                                    I am one of those people and will continue to advocate for it.

                                    Elbows up!

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                                      Copper
                                      wrote on last edited by
                                      #108

                                      Fine, just keep it away from Jolly

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                                        Renauda
                                        wrote on last edited by Renauda
                                        #109

                                        No worries, France is long way from Louisiana. So is the 49th parallel.

                                        Elbows up!

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