I honestly don't get any of this.
It occurred to me that there were two sets of virtues, the résumé virtues and the eulogy virtues. The résumé virtues are the skills you bring to the marketplace. The eulogy virtues are the ones that are talked about at your funeral — whether you were kind, brave, honest or faithful. Were you capable of deep love?
Really, it's those two things? That's life? Build your career and be a saint?
"Lips" Kudlow from freaking Anvil even has a better perspective: "All you've got are your relationships and your experiences."
Separate that out a little more, and you've got:
are you learning what you need to learn to be helpful to yourself (and then by extension, other people)
are you building on your professional skills so that you don't stagnate, and you learn to contribute in greater ways to and for others
are you doing right by your friends and family
are you having fun by doing constructive things with your time
If you're at least attempting to get on some kind of upward trajectory with those, those two silly pop morality notions of virtue work themselves out.