eBay drama
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@jon-nyc said in eBay drama:
Agreed?
Yup. If he hasn't paid in 48 hours, despite his message, he'll get a "non-paying bidder" flag on his eBay account. Of course, he can open another.
Also, for your protection, never communicate via email, text or any other way outside of ebay's messages. That way there's a record if there's a dispute.
I sold a Mac a few years ago, and the buyer left me positive feedback saying all was working fine. Two weeks later, he messaged saying that the computer won't boot. Of course, I had no idea what he might have done to it, so I refused his request for a refund. eBay sided with me. All of our communications were through the ebay portal - that saved my ass.
wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 20:10 last edited by@George-K said in eBay drama:
Yup. If he hasn't paid in 48 hours, despite his message, he'll get a "non-paying bidder" flag on his eBay account. Of course, he can open another.
This isn't a bid, it's an offer. I have 2 days to reject or confirm.
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@George-K said in eBay drama:
Yup. If he hasn't paid in 48 hours, despite his message, he'll get a "non-paying bidder" flag on his eBay account. Of course, he can open another.
This isn't a bid, it's an offer. I have 2 days to reject or confirm.
wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 20:11 last edited by@jon-nyc said in eBay drama:
@George-K said in eBay drama:
Yup. If he hasn't paid in 48 hours, despite his message, he'll get a "non-paying bidder" flag on his eBay account. Of course, he can open another.
This isn't a bid, it's an offer. I have 2 days to reject or confirm.
Ah, that's different. I try to avoid "OBO" sales.
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wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 20:13 last edited by jon-nyc 12 Jul 2020, 20:14
Still, shouldn't I reject? Seems the likelihood he claims some problem on the receiving end are quite high.
But then, look at his legit purchases.
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wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 20:16 last edited by
Couldn't you out-scam the scammer? Tell him that you'd be happy to send the gift card, but sadly there's a processing fee of $20 that he needs to pay via Western Union to release the gift card. Or something.
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wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 20:23 last edited by Mik 12 Jul 2020, 20:24
Just reject it. Despite his reputation, this is clearly a scam. Also report it to eBay.
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Couldn't you out-scam the scammer? Tell him that you'd be happy to send the gift card, but sadly there's a processing fee of $20 that he needs to pay via Western Union to release the gift card. Or something.
wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 21:28 last edited by@Klaus said in eBay drama:
Couldn't you out-scam the scammer? Tell him that you'd be happy to send the gift card, but sadly there's a processing fee of $20 that he needs to pay via Western Union to release the gift card. Or something.
I could trade my time for his. But it's not worth it.
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wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 22:30 last edited by
Turn it over to EBay, they should have a standard procedure.
If they are any good they know this guy.
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wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 22:32 last edited by
This is clever. THere's actually no way to report him.
You can report buyers but he didn't buy yet. SO I can't get through the report screen.
I can report a seller or an item.
I can't report a bidder.
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wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 22:34 last edited by
I assume his "offer" was not through ebay, but an email/text.
Ignore.
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wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 22:41 last edited by
No it was a proper eBay offer, I still could accept it. He just put his phone number in the offer message:
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wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 22:48 last edited by
Yeah, but the message you posted about the gift card wasn't through ebay was it?
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wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 22:55 last edited by
Right. I went ahead and texted him.
But the $7.99 offer is a real offer (as far as eBay is concerned).
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wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 22:58 last edited by
My bet is Jon doesn’t respond but is just curious at this point.
For me the lesson for the kids is that it’s the Wild West out there. I think with improvements in social engineering it will get increasingly hard to know who’s legit especially with all the partial attention we give to everything.
Just last night I had to remind someone very close to me again to not click on that legitimate looking link but rather go to the website itself to follow up on an issue that was presented.
It’s so easy to get people these days, we get the best of the best at work all the time by enticing them to click. I know one person who has been subjected to three education sessions as a result of falling for stuff we do and it’s not even work related.
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wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 23:03 last edited by Loki 12 Jul 2020, 23:07
On another note I received a letter from Fortiva Retail Credit that my application was rejected after they pinged Equifax.
My credit is way above their average client and that might have been their cue but I did not apply and I can’t see so far that there was a query from the stuff I get from Experian.
Point is all your data is out there and lots of people are trying to get at you all day long and the days of the Nigerian are long gone.
My wife’s outlook account has attempted logins from all over the world happening multiple times a day. I googled it and it’s a thing and with dual authentication they can’t get at it and the message is don’t worry. If you reuse passwords it’s only a matter of time before you get hacked and it will be awful and inconvenient AF. All those apps you have are getting breached all the time and passwords for some reason VP am still be scraped.
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On another note I received a letter from Fortiva Retail Credit that my application was rejected after they pinged Equifax.
My credit is way above their average client and that might have been their cue but I did not apply and I can’t see so far that there was a query from the stuff I get from Experian.
Point is all your data is out there and lots of people are trying to get at you all day long and the days of the Nigerian are long gone.
My wife’s outlook account has attempted logins from all over the world happening multiple times a day. I googled it and it’s a thing and with dual authentication they can’t get at it and the message is don’t worry. If you reuse passwords it’s only a matter of time before you get hacked and it will be awful and inconvenient AF. All those apps you have are getting breached all the time and passwords for some reason VP am still be scraped.
wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 23:11 last edited by@Loki said in eBay drama:
If you reuse passwords it’s only a matter of time before you get hacked
Jon had a great suggestion on easy-to-remember and unique passwords. I'm transitioning as quickly as possible.
No, not THAT kid of transitioning, you perverts.
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wrote on 7 Dec 2020, 23:44 last edited by
We were hit with a keystroke logger. Bought "Guarded ID" which encrypts between the keyboard and the computer. Don't mean to derail the thread, but it might be about time for a thread on anti-virus options.
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wrote on 8 Dec 2020, 00:00 last edited by
A while ago my wife’s Uber account was hacked. The Uber guy called and said where are you at 10 at night. I looked out the front window and said where are you and he said Alburquerque. I never was able to get to a live person at Uber to address, they don’t give AF about your problems and have no idea why. I was able to change the password.
I’m sure many of her passwords are for sale on the dark web. Hackers just try them on all the social media accounts. Dual authentication really helps although the industrious can work around that. Thankfully there are still tons of soft targets.
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Ugh @jon-nyc stay away from this bidder. Can only lead to bad things. Yes a learning experience for the boy...that scammers are out there!
wrote on 8 Dec 2020, 12:46 last edited by@89th said in eBay drama:
scammers are out there
You have no idea.
I'm in a couple of FB groups related to Maine Coon cats. People will pay hundreds, sometimes thousands, of dollars for a cat that is advertised. The scammers require Western Union, or some other non-refundable method of payment. Once the deposit (or full payment) is sent...they disappear.
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wrote on 8 Dec 2020, 13:25 last edited by
On the flip side. There’s hours of entertainment on YouTube watching folks scam the scammers.