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The Hegseth "incident."

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  • JollyJ Jolly

    @taiwan_girl said in The Hegseth "incident.":

    @George-K @LuFins-Dad

    I somewhat agree. If someone in the military is going to be discharged for an adultery, there are usually other problems that that person has.

    I dont think we know if he was reprimanded or not for disobeying an order to engage the enemy.

    But, both of those are still against the Uniform Code of Conduct. The whole basis of the military in the US, even more than in other jobs in government or the private side, is that a soldier IS held to a higher standard and that it is necessary to follow the rules and orders without hesitation, weather or not you agree with them or not. As far as I know in the military, when a "superior officer" gives an order, it is not a negotiation.

    That concerns me. Kind like the broken window policing. "Yeah, he had adultery a few times. Ah, lots of people do it. Yeah, he disobeyed some orders. Ah, he's not the only one. He still okay to lead the organization and have to judge people who get called out for the same 'infractions'. "

    Why have rules then? It was said in this thread or another thread, but if he is willing to break rules like this, is there not the potential for other rules to be broken?

    (but my biggest concern is still that he is not qualified. Leading a group of 100 soldiers is way way way different from leading an organization with 3MM people and USD$billions of dollars of budget)

    Ulysses S. Grant was a drunk. Eisenhower cheated on his wife. Patton was a 24kt prick. MacArthur was a prima donna surrounded by Yes Men.

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    @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

    Ulysses S. Grant was a drunk.

    If I remember Chernow's biography correctly, Grant was a drinker, but was never drunk during battles, etc. He drank during his "off time."

    Eisenhower cheated on his wife.

    That was with a secretary, iirc.

    Patton was a 24kt prick.

    That should be considered a bonus.

    But to hear the Democrats complain about marital infidelity is laugh-worthy.

    "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

    The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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    • JollyJ Jolly

      @taiwan_girl said in The Hegseth "incident.":

      @George-K @LuFins-Dad

      I somewhat agree. If someone in the military is going to be discharged for an adultery, there are usually other problems that that person has.

      I dont think we know if he was reprimanded or not for disobeying an order to engage the enemy.

      But, both of those are still against the Uniform Code of Conduct. The whole basis of the military in the US, even more than in other jobs in government or the private side, is that a soldier IS held to a higher standard and that it is necessary to follow the rules and orders without hesitation, weather or not you agree with them or not. As far as I know in the military, when a "superior officer" gives an order, it is not a negotiation.

      That concerns me. Kind like the broken window policing. "Yeah, he had adultery a few times. Ah, lots of people do it. Yeah, he disobeyed some orders. Ah, he's not the only one. He still okay to lead the organization and have to judge people who get called out for the same 'infractions'. "

      Why have rules then? It was said in this thread or another thread, but if he is willing to break rules like this, is there not the potential for other rules to be broken?

      (but my biggest concern is still that he is not qualified. Leading a group of 100 soldiers is way way way different from leading an organization with 3MM people and USD$billions of dollars of budget)

      Ulysses S. Grant was a drunk. Eisenhower cheated on his wife. Patton was a 24kt prick. MacArthur was a prima donna surrounded by Yes Men.

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      @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

      Ulysses S. Grant was a drunk. Eisenhower cheated on his wife. Patton was a 24kt prick. MacArthur was a prima donna surrounded by Yes Men.

      Three of the above are not illegal in the US military. The fourth example is alleged. (From my very simple internet research).

      Anyway, I am a bit surprised that you, of all people, would be okay with a soldier disobeying the Uniform Code of Conduct more than once and then being "promoted" to lead that same military.

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      • George KG George K

        @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

        Ulysses S. Grant was a drunk.

        If I remember Chernow's biography correctly, Grant was a drinker, but was never drunk during battles, etc. He drank during his "off time."

        Eisenhower cheated on his wife.

        That was with a secretary, iirc.

        Patton was a 24kt prick.

        That should be considered a bonus.

        But to hear the Democrats complain about marital infidelity is laugh-worthy.

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        #150

        @George-K

        If I remember Chernow's biography correctly, Grant was a drinker, but was never drunk during battles, etc. He drank during his "off time."

        You are right and both Chernow and J. E. Smith also point out that although it appears Grant had a very low tolerance for alcohol, there is no evidence that he was a habitual drunk or casebook alcoholic either.

        Elbows up!

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        • taiwan_girlT taiwan_girl

          @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

          Ulysses S. Grant was a drunk. Eisenhower cheated on his wife. Patton was a 24kt prick. MacArthur was a prima donna surrounded by Yes Men.

          Three of the above are not illegal in the US military. The fourth example is alleged. (From my very simple internet research).

          Anyway, I am a bit surprised that you, of all people, would be okay with a soldier disobeying the Uniform Code of Conduct more than once and then being "promoted" to lead that same military.

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          @taiwan_girl said in The Hegseth "incident.":

          @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

          Ulysses S. Grant was a drunk. Eisenhower cheated on his wife. Patton was a 24kt prick. MacArthur was a prima donna surrounded by Yes Men.

          Three of the above are not illegal in the US military. The fourth example is alleged. (From my very simple internet research).

          Anyway, I am a bit surprised that you, of all people, would be okay with a soldier disobeying the Uniform Code of Conduct more than once and then being "promoted" to lead that same military.

          You just contradicted yourself. You detailed how infidelity is grounds for dismissal then when Jolly mentions Eisenhower, you comment that it’s not illegal in the military.

          As far as illegal goes, infidelity is an actual felony punishable by jail in some states. It’s a misdemeanor in others. It’s one of those laws that aren’t enforced. Two thirds of our senior command would be disqualified for infidelity.

          The only real concern is the order on when to fire. I would like to know more details about that, but a unit leader does have some leeway in a combat situation to modify or change orders if they feel it’s necessary. Now, there will be reviews, and they damn well better have been good decisions on the part of the commander, or they are toast. The fact that Hegseth was not drummed out and was not demoted speaks volumes.

          The Brad

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          • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad

            @taiwan_girl said in The Hegseth "incident.":

            @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

            Ulysses S. Grant was a drunk. Eisenhower cheated on his wife. Patton was a 24kt prick. MacArthur was a prima donna surrounded by Yes Men.

            Three of the above are not illegal in the US military. The fourth example is alleged. (From my very simple internet research).

            Anyway, I am a bit surprised that you, of all people, would be okay with a soldier disobeying the Uniform Code of Conduct more than once and then being "promoted" to lead that same military.

            You just contradicted yourself. You detailed how infidelity is grounds for dismissal then when Jolly mentions Eisenhower, you comment that it’s not illegal in the military.

            As far as illegal goes, infidelity is an actual felony punishable by jail in some states. It’s a misdemeanor in others. It’s one of those laws that aren’t enforced. Two thirds of our senior command would be disqualified for infidelity.

            The only real concern is the order on when to fire. I would like to know more details about that, but a unit leader does have some leeway in a combat situation to modify or change orders if they feel it’s necessary. Now, there will be reviews, and they damn well better have been good decisions on the part of the commander, or they are toast. The fact that Hegseth was not drummed out and was not demoted speaks volumes.

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            @LuFins-Dad said in The Hegseth "incident.":

            You just contradicted yourself. You detailed how infidelity is grounds for dismissal then when Jolly mentions Eisenhower, you comment that it’s not illegal in the military.

            Sorry, I was not very clear.

            The three things I was referring to as being legal were:

            drinking - Grant
            being a prick - Patton
            being a prima donna - McArthur

            The alleged activity I was referring to was Eisenhower.

            As I said, usually when someone in the military is fired for adultery, there are usually other factors that also are part of it. It is rarely just being an adultery.

            (Hegseth) has said he told his troops to ignore commands about when to fire on potential enemies.

            I do understand that there is some leeway in a field of battle. But still a concern for me at least. At some level, ignoring direct orders is a problem.

            He may not have been officially drummed out. But could have been that he was told he was not going to get promoted to the next level. That is kind of the unofficial way to let a military guy know that it is time to look for another job. Or, "we are going to transfer you to XX position", knowing that the person would not be willing to do so, and would leave the military instead. (Having said that, I have no idea of his time he left the military and the reasons for leaving.)

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            • taiwan_girlT taiwan_girl

              @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

              Ulysses S. Grant was a drunk. Eisenhower cheated on his wife. Patton was a 24kt prick. MacArthur was a prima donna surrounded by Yes Men.

              Three of the above are not illegal in the US military. The fourth example is alleged. (From my very simple internet research).

              Anyway, I am a bit surprised that you, of all people, would be okay with a soldier disobeying the Uniform Code of Conduct more than once and then being "promoted" to lead that same military.

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              @taiwan_girl said in The Hegseth "incident.":

              @Jolly said in The Hegseth "incident.":

              Ulysses S. Grant was a drunk. Eisenhower cheated on his wife. Patton was a 24kt prick. MacArthur was a prima donna surrounded by Yes Men.

              Three of the above are not illegal in the US military. The fourth example is alleged. (From my very simple internet research).

              Anyway, I am a bit surprised that you, of all people, would be okay with a soldier disobeying the Uniform Code of Conduct more than once and then being "promoted" to lead that same military.

              I have it on good authority that a soldier that won't fuck won't fight.

              “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

              Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                LOL. Seen on X:

                "Did anyone ask Pete Hegseth if he’d disappear for weeks without telling anyone like Lloyd Austin did?"

                "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                  #155

                  Hmmm. I am just surprised, that if you take the partisan from this pick, that people think Mr. Hegseth is a good choice.

                  The ⬇ column seems to have a lot more entries than the ⬆ column

                  (and yes, I know that there have been minister picks in the past that were less qualified. But.......... that still does not justify this one. If you look at importance, I think that the Minister of Defense is one of the more important Minister positions.)

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                    #156

                    The military needs a radical overhaul and you want more of the same.

                    “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                    Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                      I think she missed the point.

                      "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                      The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                      • RenaudaR Renauda

                        @jon-nyc said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                        I guess I should have read that before making my confirmation prognostications. If he gets the ax, that’s good news for Gabbard.

                        Watched a bit of this morning’s interrogation of Hesgeth on BBC. Meh, a lot of theatre by all involved.

                        I personally think that despite his baggage, Hesgeth is far less of a liability to the country risk than Gabbard. That woman should not have access to anything classified above Personal & Confidential.

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                        @Renauda said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                        the country risk than Gabbard. That woman should not have access to anything classified above Personal & Confidential.

                        Sen. McConnell is a crucial vote
                        https://www.axios.com/2025/01/17/mcconnell-gabbard-senate-confirmation-trump

                        President-elect Trump Trump's transition thinks Gabbard, the nominee for director of national intelligence, can get confirmed even with a "no" vote from McConnell. But his public opposition — if it materializes — could open the door to other GOP defectors.
                        Gabbard's team isn't banking on McConnell's vote, sources tell Axios.
                        McConnell is studiously avoiding public or private indications that he'll support Trump's nominees, three people familiar with the matter tell Axios.
                        Voting against Gabbard would resume hostilities between McConnell and Trump. It could have implications for big policy questions down the line, from funding Ukraine to raising tariffs.

                        McConnell said on the Senate floor on Thursday that he'll support nominees to "senior national security roles whose record and experience will make them immediate assets, not liabilities, in the pursuit of peace through strength."
                        When asked specifically about Gabbard, McConnell told CNN's Manu Raju he was not ready to announce whether he can back her.

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                          Why did she leave her boots in a field? Seems unnecessary. Hopefully she had flip flops or good socks.

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                              Why did she leave her boots in a field? Seems unnecessary. Hopefully she had flip flops or good socks.

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                              @89th said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                              Why did she leave her boots in a field? Seems unnecessary. Hopefully she had flip flops or good socks.

                              image.jpeg

                              "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                              The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                                Ouch, 89th…

                                The Brad

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                                  Oh bloody hell. My bad

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                                    Link to video

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                                      Oh bloody hell. My bad

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                                      @89th said in The Hegseth "incident.":

                                      Oh bloody hell. My bad

                                      Two points.

                                      1. Waving your Purple Heart in someone's face to discredit them is poor form.
                                      2. She proves, in a way, Hegseth's point. If she had been in a non-combatant role, she'd be walking down the halls of congress.

                                      "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                                      The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                                        Random (not even really interesting) fact: When I was in Wash DC this past summer, stopped by Sen. Duckworth's office. She happened to be there and was on her way out. Talked for about 10 seconds. She is half Thai so I greeted her with "Swa dee ka" , and she was kind of surprised. LOL

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                                          I didn't like him until I saw his white supremecy tats on his chest. That makes him good people.

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