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O hai!! How y'all been?

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  • George KG George K

    Sounds like you certainly have your hands full. Fear not, it only gets crazier. Just ask @89th.

    So good to "see" you!

    Are you working from home at your exciting job? D4 is looking for something. She has a 2 year old and a 6 year old.

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    @George-K said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

    Fear not, it only gets crazier. Just ask @89th.

    Hey LW! Yes I have a 6, 3, and 1 year old right now.

    Potty training depends on the child. Our first got it right away, we dedicated to it one weekend and gave an M&M to her every 15 min when we made her sit on the potty. When not on the potty, we kept her naked (with puppy pads when she sat down). Had one accident, but otherwise she got it fast.

    BUT... then the 2nd child, a boy. Same approach (once we start potty training, it's 24/7 except diapers at night, until they get it). He learned to pee after a day or two, but going poop was one of the hardest weeks of my life. When he had to go he would run around screaming in a panic for an hour (think about that... like he was on fire), until it eventually popped out while literally holding him on the toilet. But after a week, he was trained LOL. So, each kid is different....

    One thing they don't tell you in the parent manual... once the kid is potty trained, all that means is now you get to go to the bathroom anytime you need to AND anytime they need to!

    Such is parent life... the hardest and most exhausting job, but also the most rewarding. What a paradox. Sounds like you're doing a great job!!!!

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    • 89th8 89th

      @George-K said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

      Fear not, it only gets crazier. Just ask @89th.

      Hey LW! Yes I have a 6, 3, and 1 year old right now.

      Potty training depends on the child. Our first got it right away, we dedicated to it one weekend and gave an M&M to her every 15 min when we made her sit on the potty. When not on the potty, we kept her naked (with puppy pads when she sat down). Had one accident, but otherwise she got it fast.

      BUT... then the 2nd child, a boy. Same approach (once we start potty training, it's 24/7 except diapers at night, until they get it). He learned to pee after a day or two, but going poop was one of the hardest weeks of my life. When he had to go he would run around screaming in a panic for an hour (think about that... like he was on fire), until it eventually popped out while literally holding him on the toilet. But after a week, he was trained LOL. So, each kid is different....

      One thing they don't tell you in the parent manual... once the kid is potty trained, all that means is now you get to go to the bathroom anytime you need to AND anytime they need to!

      Such is parent life... the hardest and most exhausting job, but also the most rewarding. What a paradox. Sounds like you're doing a great job!!!!

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      @89th thanks! We're not sweating the accidents. It's funny and equally annoying. I think we'll try the naked for a weekend trick too. He's doing well overall but that might help. Last night he ran around like he was on fire too, and we knew it was because he was afraid to poop on the potty. We hung out in the bathroom reading, trying all the things we normally do, but nothing until he had the safety of his undies🤦 adults are generally potty trained so we know he'll get it soon. Maybe a diaper hung in the potty would be good enticement. I think I'll try that.

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        Boys seem to be MUCH harder, good luck. Just remember...this too shall pass. No pun intended!

        (BTW I do recall sitting next to him as he was on the toilet freaking out searching youtube for cartoon poop songs... that actually helped keep him on the potty until nature released...)

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          Welcome back LW!

          Education is extremely important.

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            George K
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            @LW LW - see PM...

            "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

            The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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              👋 Hi LW! Sounds like you’re doing great, nice to "see" you

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                Thanks guys! It's nice to be back. I'm definitely out of my element with the new tech here. Dragging images?? Oh, that's just too fancy. 🎩🧐

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                • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                  So cool to see you here. Welcome to parenthood. I’m in the part where it gets easier physically and logistically.

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                  @jon-nyc said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

                  So cool to see you here. Welcome to parenthood. I’m in the part where it gets easier physically and logistically.

                  Yeah, but that's the scary part in that you lose more control. I won't always know where he is at that age 😭 I am looking forward to having conversations with him and going more places. Learning what his interests are. Yeah, it's going to be a good time. For now I love watching him at the playground and laugh at poop with him.

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                  • LWL LW

                    Thanks guys! It's nice to be back. I'm definitely out of my element with the new tech here. Dragging images?? Oh, that's just too fancy. 🎩🧐

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                    George K
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                    @LW said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

                    I'm definitely out of my element with the new tech here.

                    LOL.

                    Remember "No hot linking?"

                    Remember ImageShack, Photobucket?

                    So much better here. @Klaus has done a great job finding this software and setting up and maintaining.

                    "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                    The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                      Good to see you around LW (I’d been ctpianotech prior to switching to this forum)

                      Looks like 89 has you covered on the potty tips, and sounds like you’re doing great with the little one!

                      As for me, I can’t update the avatar without windows paint, but earlier this year got a new title…grandpa 🙂

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                        Wow! Congrats Rich!

                        Only non-witches get due process.

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                        • RichR Rich

                          Good to see you around LW (I’d been ctpianotech prior to switching to this forum)

                          Looks like 89 has you covered on the potty tips, and sounds like you’re doing great with the little one!

                          As for me, I can’t update the avatar without windows paint, but earlier this year got a new title…grandpa 🙂

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                          @Rich said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

                          this year got a new title…grandpa

                          Gratz, Gramps!

                          "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                          The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                            Congrats, Rich!!

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                            • George KG George K

                              @LW said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

                              I'm definitely out of my element with the new tech here.

                              LOL.

                              Remember "No hot linking?"

                              Remember ImageShack, Photobucket?

                              So much better here. @Klaus has done a great job finding this software and setting up and maintaining.

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                              @George-K said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

                              @LW said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

                              I'm definitely out of my element with the new tech here.

                              LOL.

                              Remember "No hot linking?"

                              Remember ImageShack, Photobucket?

                              So much better here. @Klaus has done a great job finding this software and setting up and maintaining.

                              What memories...
                              He really has done a fantastic job! Thank you, @Klaus!

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                              • LWL LW

                                @jon-nyc said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

                                So cool to see you here. Welcome to parenthood. I’m in the part where it gets easier physically and logistically.

                                Yeah, but that's the scary part in that you lose more control. I won't always know where he is at that age 😭 I am looking forward to having conversations with him and going more places. Learning what his interests are. Yeah, it's going to be a good time. For now I love watching him at the playground and laugh at poop with him.

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                                @LW said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

                                @jon-nyc said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

                                So cool to see you here. Welcome to parenthood. I’m in the part where it gets easier physically and logistically.

                                Yeah, but that's the scary part in that you lose more control. I won't always know where he is at that age 😭 I am looking forward to having conversations with him and going more places. Learning what his interests are. Yeah, it's going to be a good time. For now I love watching him at the playground and laugh at poop with him.

                                How old is he again?

                                Every age brings pros and cons, mostly pros... I found the ages 3 and 4 to be the best, if I had to pick. Old enough to learn things and talk, even ride a scooter, but not old enough to be in school yet.

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                                  Glad all’s well with you LW. Sounds like you’re enjoying the joys of managing parenting toddlerhood.

                                  Wait until they’re teenagers…

                                  Hope you are still doing some music?

                                  Elbows up!

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                                  • RichR Rich

                                    Good to see you around LW (I’d been ctpianotech prior to switching to this forum)

                                    Looks like 89 has you covered on the potty tips, and sounds like you’re doing great with the little one!

                                    As for me, I can’t update the avatar without windows paint, but earlier this year got a new title…grandpa 🙂

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                                    @Rich said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

                                    Good to see you around LW (I’d been ctpianotech prior to switching to this forum)

                                    Looks like 89 has you covered on the potty tips, and sounds like you’re doing great with the little one!

                                    As for me, I can’t update the avatar without windows paint, but earlier this year got a new title…grandpa 🙂

                                    You're in for some wonderful times.

                                    “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                    Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                    • RichR Rich

                                      Good to see you around LW (I’d been ctpianotech prior to switching to this forum)

                                      Looks like 89 has you covered on the potty tips, and sounds like you’re doing great with the little one!

                                      As for me, I can’t update the avatar without windows paint, but earlier this year got a new title…grandpa 🙂

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                                      @Rich said in O hai!! How y'all been?:

                                      Good to see you around LW (I’d been ctpianotech prior to switching to this forum)

                                      Looks like 89 has you covered on the potty tips, and sounds like you’re doing great with the little one!

                                      As for me, I can’t update the avatar without windows paint, but earlier this year got a new title…grandpa 🙂

                                      Congratulations!

                                      The Brad

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                                        @LW good to have you here! Don't worry, the human race generally has very high success rates for potty training. The adult population is estimated to only have 1.5% to 3% continuing to experience nocturnal enuresis [cite]. The odds are heavily in your favor!

                                        @Rich congratulations on becoming a grandparent!

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                                          @Rich

                                          Congrats!!!!!

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