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Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?

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  • J Online
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    jon-nyc
    wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 13:54 last edited by
    #40

    But it’s a nice scale. And still very American.

    Klaus - if this happens let’s have her come to my house for a week or so before it all starts. She can explore the city a bit. Then I’ll ship her off to wherever her final destination is. She’s almost certainly fly via NY anyway.

    Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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      Klaus
      wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 14:02 last edited by Klaus 9 Oct 2024, 14:02
      #41

      Thanks for this great offer! Would you consider it safe for a 15 year old female teenager to explore NYC on her own?

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        jon-nyc
        wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 14:13 last edited by jon-nyc 9 Oct 2024, 14:16
        #42

        During the day and not for her first visit I’d trust a 15 year old walking around Manhattan. Though it could be a bridge too far for her. Even the boy was a little intimidated in May, a month before he turned 15, when he left me and some friends in Manhattan to walk to Grand Central and go home by himself. And he was born in Manhattan.

        But that’s moot. I’m 100% sure Mayla would accompany her every day.

        Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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          Klaus
          wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 14:30 last edited by
          #43

          Oh that's cool 😎

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            LW
            wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 14:39 last edited by
            #44

            To get on the "I'll offer my home" train, we'll be moving to a safe area of Baltimore (not The Wire area) and I'd love to have her visit us. The train/metro into DC is very doable, and Baltimore has fun things to do too. We'd enjoy showing her around. She could experience some rural Maryland life and the eastern shore if interested. Wild ponies, an ocean-front boardwalk with questionable fun rides.... Experiences like all those listed above are why we're moving our family to the area. (And to be close to my family)

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              Mik
              wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 14:59 last edited by
              #45

              She'll get to meet all Dad's Imaginary Friends.

              "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                Klaus
                wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 15:07 last edited by
                #46

                Wow, this is all very cool! Thanks, @LW !

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                  jon-nyc
                  wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 15:11 last edited by
                  #47

                  If she comes in the summer she could spend several weeks with us. Foundation events end in June and start again in September. And if we do travel on vacation we’d take her with.

                  Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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                  • K Klaus
                    10 Sept 2024, 15:07

                    Wow, this is all very cool! Thanks, @LW !

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                    LW
                    wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 15:30 last edited by
                    #48

                    @Klaus said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

                    Wow, this is all very cool! Thanks, @LW !

                    You're welcome! If she finds herself around/in DC, I'd say if she sticks to the mall and touristy areas she'd be fine on her own during the day. At 15 I enjoyed visiting the Smithsonian museums/zoo (they're free!) and monuments with friends. We easily took the metro into DC and wandered around.

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                    • J jon-nyc
                      10 Sept 2024, 15:11

                      If she comes in the summer she could spend several weeks with us. Foundation events end in June and start again in September. And if we do travel on vacation we’d take her with.

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                      89th
                      wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 15:48 last edited by
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                      @jon-nyc said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

                      If she comes in the summer she could spend several weeks with us.

                      If she comes to Minnesota in the summer she could spend a few days with us. Summer lasts from about June 10 to June 13.

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                      • H Horace
                        8 Sept 2024, 19:46

                        based on our experience with foreign exchange programs, the host families generally do it for the money rather than for the opportunity to give an enriching home to a young student. I would take Ax up on his offer rather than get placed with a random host family.

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                        taiwan_girl
                        wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 16:10 last edited by
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                        @Horace said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

                        based on our experience with foreign exchange programs, the host families generally do it for the money rather than for the opportunity to give an enriching home to a young student. I would take Ax up on his offer rather than get placed with a random host family.

                        Have some friends that hosted students a number of times for the whole school year. At least for them, it was completely voluntary. It ended up costing them money because it was an extra person. But the student and their family had to pay a fairly steep amount. Not sure what it was, but I think it was between USD$5 - $10 thousand. I think part of that was to the host high school as otherwise I think a person has to prove guardianship to enroll a student that is not their own.

                        EDIT: Checked and they went through an organization called AFS

                        https://www.afsusa.org

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                          jon-nyc
                          wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 16:27 last edited by jon-nyc 9 Oct 2024, 16:27
                          #51

                          Meh. Send her for a summer it’ll only cost you her flights and a bit of spending money. No one here is charging you room and board.

                          Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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                            Klaus
                            wrote on 31 Jan 2025, 08:15 last edited by
                            #52

                            Update: The US wasn't far enough, apparently. Daughter is going to Australia this year.

                            T Aqua LetiferA 2 Replies Last reply 31 Jan 2025, 13:41
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                              LuFins Dad
                              wrote on 31 Jan 2025, 12:35 last edited by
                              #53

                              LOL! Just make sure that she doesn’t participate in illegal protests!

                              And you may want to have @Aqua-Letifer givevher some advice about the spiders…

                              The Brad

                              Doctor PhibesD 1 Reply Last reply 31 Jan 2025, 13:43
                              • K Klaus
                                31 Jan 2025, 08:15

                                Update: The US wasn't far enough, apparently. Daughter is going to Australia this year.

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                                taiwan_girl
                                wrote on 31 Jan 2025, 13:41 last edited by
                                #54

                                @Klaus Very cool! Sounds like an interesting and exciting time.

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                                • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad
                                  31 Jan 2025, 12:35

                                  LOL! Just make sure that she doesn’t participate in illegal protests!

                                  And you may want to have @Aqua-Letifer givevher some advice about the spiders…

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                                  Doctor Phibes
                                  wrote on 31 Jan 2025, 13:43 last edited by
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                                  @LuFins-Dad said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

                                  Just make sure that she doesn’t participate in illegal protests!

                                  We certainly wouldn't want any criminals in Australia. Sound advice.

                                  I was only joking

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                                  • K Klaus
                                    31 Jan 2025, 08:15

                                    Update: The US wasn't far enough, apparently. Daughter is going to Australia this year.

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                                    Aqua Letifer
                                    wrote on 31 Jan 2025, 14:34 last edited by
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                                    @Klaus said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

                                    Update: The US wasn't far enough, apparently. Daughter is going to Australia this year.

                                    Which part?

                                    Please love yourself.

                                    Doctor PhibesD K 2 Replies Last reply 31 Jan 2025, 16:17
                                    • Aqua LetiferA Aqua Letifer
                                      31 Jan 2025, 14:34

                                      @Klaus said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

                                      Update: The US wasn't far enough, apparently. Daughter is going to Australia this year.

                                      Which part?

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                                      Doctor Phibes
                                      wrote on 31 Jan 2025, 16:17 last edited by Doctor Phibes
                                      #57

                                      @Aqua-Letifer said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

                                      @Klaus said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

                                      Update: The US wasn't far enough, apparently. Daughter is going to Australia this year.

                                      Which part?

                                      The part with all the deadly animals and heavy drinking.

                                      Still, not to worry.

                                      I was only joking

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                                        Mik
                                        wrote on 31 Jan 2025, 17:13 last edited by
                                        #58

                                        That’s all of it.

                                        "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                                        • M Mik
                                          31 Jan 2025, 17:13

                                          That’s all of it.

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                                          Doctor Phibes
                                          wrote on 31 Jan 2025, 17:34 last edited by
                                          #59

                                          @Mik said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

                                          That’s all of it.

                                          Not true. Some of the bits in the middle are completely uninhabitable and would kill you in a matter of minutes.

                                          Still, not to worry.

                                          I was only joking

                                          Aqua LetiferA 1 Reply Last reply 31 Jan 2025, 17:42
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