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Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?

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    Copper
    wrote on 9 Sept 2024, 20:32 last edited by
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    Freeze

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      LuFins Dad
      wrote on 9 Sept 2024, 20:57 last edited by
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      I understand that in Canada it’s a solid 15% chance that your daughter will become a fine young man…

      The Brad

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        9 Sept 2024, 20:57

        I understand that in Canada it’s a solid 15% chance that your daughter will become a fine young man…

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        Renauda
        wrote on 9 Sept 2024, 21:57 last edited by Renauda 9 Sept 2024, 21:59
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        @LuFins-Dad said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

        I understand that in Canada it’s a solid 15% chance that your daughter will become a fine young man…

        Not if she attends a Catholic school in Alberta or Quebec. In any event, Canada would be a good choice as well so long as it would be in a publically funded Catholic school. Better teachers and better administered.

        Elbows up!

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          LW
          wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 01:10 last edited by
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          I can understand wanting the novelty of it, but I'd suggest a summer trip for a few weeks instead, especially if she's more interested in the culture of being an American teen. Perhaps there are programs available in a particular area of study she's interested in? I started my HS education in an excellent school in England and ended it at a fairly decent school not far from Washington, DC. The amount of (what felt like) dumbing down I came across was shocking. I came back to the US mid-9th grade. Social opportunities will be abundant. The opportunity to travel and see new things will be amazing! But the education itself will most likely be lacking.

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          • L LW
            10 Sept 2024, 01:10

            I can understand wanting the novelty of it, but I'd suggest a summer trip for a few weeks instead, especially if she's more interested in the culture of being an American teen. Perhaps there are programs available in a particular area of study she's interested in? I started my HS education in an excellent school in England and ended it at a fairly decent school not far from Washington, DC. The amount of (what felt like) dumbing down I came across was shocking. I came back to the US mid-9th grade. Social opportunities will be abundant. The opportunity to travel and see new things will be amazing! But the education itself will most likely be lacking.

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            89th
            wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 01:21 last edited by
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            @LW oh hai!!!!

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              10 Sept 2024, 01:21

              @LW oh hai!!!!

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              LW
              wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 01:40 last edited by
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              @89th why, hai there! I keep thinking of this gang and how I miss everyone so thought I'd drop in! Maybe I'll actually check in more than once every 2 or 3 years.

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                Jolly
                wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 01:49 last edited by
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                Please do.

                “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                  Mik
                  wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 02:04 last edited by
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                  How’s the little one, LW?

                  "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                    blondie
                    wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 05:28 last edited by
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                    @LW So great you posted!

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                      jon-nyc
                      wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 08:26 last edited by
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                      I would offer, we have great public schools and she’d have easy access to NYC. The problem is I travel 20 times a year.

                      Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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                        Klaus
                        wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 08:33 last edited by
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                        That would of course have been a quite tempting option, too! Thanks for considering it, Jon!

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                          jon-nyc
                          wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 08:45 last edited by
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                          Plus my son would probably consider her game.

                          Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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                            Klaus
                            wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 08:54 last edited by Klaus 9 Oct 2024, 08:55
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                            Uh 😂 😂

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                              10 Sept 2024, 02:04

                              How’s the little one, LW?

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                              LW
                              wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 13:41 last edited by
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                              @Mik healthy and cute as ever. He has his 2 1/2 year checkup tomorrow. Took his first poop on the potty this past weekend, but last night took a dump in his undies followed immediately by peeing on the bedroom carpet. At least that was before his bath. So ...yeah. toddler life.

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                                Mik
                                wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 13:43 last edited by
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                                Bribes. We used little plastic dinosaurs which she loved.

                                "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                                  10 Sept 2024, 08:45

                                  Plus my son would probably consider her game.

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                                  Mik
                                  wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 13:44 last edited by
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                                  @jon-nyc said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

                                  Plus my son would probably consider her game.

                                  Jon's house is out.

                                  She could come here, but Cincinnati is such a German influenced city anyway.

                                  "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                                    jon-nyc
                                    wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 13:54 last edited by
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                                    But it’s a nice scale. And still very American.

                                    Klaus - if this happens let’s have her come to my house for a week or so before it all starts. She can explore the city a bit. Then I’ll ship her off to wherever her final destination is. She’s almost certainly fly via NY anyway.

                                    Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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                                      Klaus
                                      wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 14:02 last edited by Klaus 9 Oct 2024, 14:02
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                                      Thanks for this great offer! Would you consider it safe for a 15 year old female teenager to explore NYC on her own?

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                                        jon-nyc
                                        wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 14:13 last edited by jon-nyc 9 Oct 2024, 14:16
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                                        During the day and not for her first visit I’d trust a 15 year old walking around Manhattan. Though it could be a bridge too far for her. Even the boy was a little intimidated in May, a month before he turned 15, when he left me and some friends in Manhattan to walk to Grand Central and go home by himself. And he was born in Manhattan.

                                        But that’s moot. I’m 100% sure Mayla would accompany her every day.

                                        Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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                                          Klaus
                                          wrote on 10 Sept 2024, 14:30 last edited by
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                                          Oh that's cool 😎

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