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First road rage casualty I knew

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  • George KG Offline
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    George K
    wrote on last edited by
    #6

    Whoa. That's scary AF. So sorry to read this.

    Any details you can share?

    "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

    The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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    • LuFins DadL Offline
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      LuFins Dad
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      #7

      Oh man. So sorry!

      The Brad

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      • JollyJ Offline
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        Jolly
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        #8

        Road rage ain't worth it. It's just not

        I'm too damn old to fight in the middle of the road. If some idiot wants to chase me down, there's fixing to be sad singing and slow walking, and it ain't gonna be me.

        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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        • MikM Offline
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          Mik
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          #9

          Andy was in his 50s, and a long hard life. He was mostly deaf at birth and went to St Rita’s school in Cincinnati. Later in life he got Cochlear implants, but his communication skills were always limited. He had a bad car accident with lingering injuries and became addicted to prescription opioids, having to quit cold turkey when the DEA started cracking down. On top of that he had bad psoriatic arthritis.

          Despite all that he had a heart of gold and helped a lot of people despite not having a lot of means himself.

          Not sure what started it, but apparently Andy left his truck and hit the guy in the other car pretty hard. He was rearing back to do it again when they guy shot him. He died at the hospital.

          Andy was instrumental in getting my local scholarship charity off the ground. But he was a big, rough looking guy and I could see him being scary if you didn’t know him.

          “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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          • CopperC Offline
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            Copper
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            #10

            There are no winners in that story.

            RIP

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            • RenaudaR Offline
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              Renauda
              wrote on last edited by
              #11

              No way to lose a friend. My condolences, Mik.

              Elbows up!

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              • MikM Offline
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                Mik
                wrote on last edited by
                #12

                Thanks all. What a senseless loss. Now two families have a lot of grief coming.

                “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                • LuFins DadL Offline
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                  LuFins Dad
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #13

                  I read the news story. It was the guy that shot him that called the police. It sounds like he was truly remorseful as well. This is nothing but pain for everyone.

                  The Brad

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                  • AxtremusA Offline
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                    Axtremus
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                    My condolences.

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                    • jon-nycJ Offline
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                      jon-nyc
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                      #15

                      My god. I’m sorry Mik.

                      "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                      -Cormac McCarthy

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                      • kluursK Offline
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                        kluurs
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #16

                        Very sorry to hear. Horrible way to lose a friend.

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                        • jon-nycJ Offline
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                          jon-nyc
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #17

                          There’s a lovely and kind woman who works for the foundation who’s ex-husband was incarcerated for a road rage incident. She ended up divorcing him in prison.

                          "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                          -Cormac McCarthy

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                          • HoraceH Offline
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                            Horace
                            wrote on last edited by Horace
                            #18

                            The credibility some give to physical altercations as a means to resolve conflict will never not be idiotic and absurd. The only "cool" fight is one where neither participant does any actual damage. Then maybe you get to talk about it afterwards as if it were cool.

                            Education is extremely important.

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                            • MikM Offline
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                              Mik
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                              #19

                              Thinking about it and knowing Andy pretty well, I suspect the guy pulled the gun first and then Andy struck him. I cannot see him just attacking the guy over a traffic issue.

                              “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                                89th
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                                Very sorry to hear of the tragedy. I’m not saying someone shouldn’t carry a gun but if you don’t have the gun you won’t think about using it. But of course it all depends on where you are and the threats you might encounter.

                                Anyway. Very sorry to hear of the death.

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                                • MikM Offline
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                                  Mik
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #21

                                  I didn’t think he was that old.

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                                  “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                                    89th
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                                    I wonder if any dashcam car footage will come about.... not likely, but there are cameras everywhere these days.

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                                    • JollyJ Offline
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                                      Jolly
                                      wrote on last edited by
                                      #23

                                      What a waste...

                                      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                        89th
                                        wrote on last edited by
                                        #24

                                        Just checked out the intersection on Google Maps street view... didn't see any cameras.

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                                        • RichR Offline
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                                          Rich
                                          wrote on last edited by
                                          #25

                                          Wow, sorry for your friend, Mik.

                                          Don't carry a weapon, but if I did, I'd like to think I could always keep in mind an obligation to try and de-escalate a situation...Even if I'm "right"

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