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More tipping insanity

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    jon-nyc
    wrote on 2 Dec 2024, 19:46 last edited by
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    I tipped the waitress that served our lunch on Thanksgiving day 33%.

    The place was packed, the only thing open for miles.

    "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
    -Cormac McCarthy

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      LuFins Dad
      wrote on 2 Dec 2024, 21:24 last edited by LuFins Dad 12 Feb 2024, 21:24
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      And that’s why certain servers and restaurants do better with the tipping model. There are a significant number of people that want to tip excellent service. They don’t want to feel compelled through higher prices, though, and they don’t want to see poor service compensated the same as good service.

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        blondie
        wrote on 2 Dec 2024, 21:41 last edited by
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        I just tip cash to the wait staff. What gets me are the high tip options for haircuts. Holy Guacamole.

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          taiwan_girl
          wrote on 17 Dec 2024, 14:40 last edited by
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          In speaking to a friend, he mentioned that Chicago has increased the minimum wage for waiters. It will increase until it equals the regular minimum wage.

          Would this change your tipping or the % that you tip?

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            17 Dec 2024, 14:40

            In speaking to a friend, he mentioned that Chicago has increased the minimum wage for waiters. It will increase until it equals the regular minimum wage.

            Would this change your tipping or the % that you tip?

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            LuFins Dad
            wrote on 17 Dec 2024, 14:55 last edited by
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            @taiwan_girl said in More tipping insanity:

            In speaking to a friend, he mentioned that Chicago has increased the minimum wage for waiters. It will increase until it equals the regular minimum wage.

            Would this change your tipping or the % that you tip?

            No.

            The Brad

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              LuFins Dad
              wrote on 17 Dec 2024, 14:56 last edited by
              #45

              But it will change others…

              The Brad

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                89th
                wrote on 17 Dec 2024, 17:51 last edited by
                #46

                Yeah I don't really care how much someone makes, waiter, haircut, cab, bartender, delivery driver... the scenarios where I tip.

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                  Mik
                  wrote on 17 Dec 2024, 19:27 last edited by
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                  If it’s great service, whatever they pay them is not enough.

                  “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                    George K
                    wrote on 17 Dec 2024, 22:15 last edited by
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                    Are you sure????

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                    "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                    The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                      17 Dec 2024, 17:51

                      Yeah I don't really care how much someone makes, waiter, haircut, cab, bartender, delivery driver... the scenarios where I tip.

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                      taiwan_girl
                      wrote on 18 Dec 2024, 16:19 last edited by
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                      @89th said in More tipping insanity:

                      Yeah I don't really care how much someone makes, waiter, haircut, cab, bartender, delivery driver... the scenarios where I tip.

                      How do you decide who to tip? Why pick those as oppose to dentist, car/bike mechanic, travel agent, anesthesiologist (LOL), etc.?

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                        89th
                        wrote on 19 Dec 2024, 14:09 last edited by
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                        Mostly tradition with what I grew up with. I know some professions (like waiters) are paid mostly in tips, so that makes sense whereas the others don't necessarily make sense I'll admit.

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                          jon-nyc
                          wrote on 19 Dec 2024, 14:32 last edited by
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                          Like any cultural practice you learn by observing those around you.

                          "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                          -Cormac McCarthy

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                            Mik
                            wrote on 9 Jan 2025, 13:08 last edited by
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                            “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                              89th
                              wrote on 9 Jan 2025, 14:16 last edited by
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                              Hahaha that is great. I'm surprised they didn't go for the knockout with a "Gen Z" pin on the employee's shirt.

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                                taiwan_girl
                                wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 15:13 last edited by taiwan_girl
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                                People are tipping less at restaurants than they have in at least six years, driven by fatigue over rising prices and growing prompts for tips at places where gratuities haven’t historically been expected.

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                                Restaurant servers know customers are annoyed about how often they’re now asked for tips. Payment systems on digital tablets prompt them to add gratuities, even at businesses like airport concessions and gas stations.

                                “I can see tipping culture in the U.S. cracking,” said Jenni Emmons, a server at an upscale Chicago restaurant. “People are being pressured to tip for things they didn’t used to, and I feel my income is under threat because of this.”

                                Some worker-advocacy groups maintain that servers, bartenders and other tip-earning workers rely too much on gratuities. They have taken aim at the tipped-wage system, in which many states permit restaurants and other businesses to pay tip-earning workers less than the minimum wage—so long as income from tips makes up the difference.

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                                Fritz Brogan, who co-owns five bars and restaurants in the city, said the higher payroll costs have led him to raise menu prices by around 10% and trim employee hours. His Mission Navy Yard now charges $15 for an espresso martini, according to the restaurant’s website, up from $13 in 2023, according to an archived version of the site.

                                He is considering adding service charges next July, when the minimum wage for service staff rises to $12 an hour. That would add some $400,000 in costs across his 350 hourly staff, he estimated.

                                Brogan said the fees can leave diners confused and wondering whether they should still tip. “The last thing people want is to be doing calculus at the end of the night,” he said.

                                (NOTE BY ME - then have the prices be "all inclusive (price + tip + tax)!!!)

                                Mohit Ganguly, a Washington resident, said it’s easy to miss the mandatory fees that most eateries in his area have tacked onto their menus. “Tipping 15% to 20% on top of that feels superfluous,” Ganguly said.

                                https://www.wsj.com/business/hospitality/restaurant-tip-fatigue-servers-covid-9e198567

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                                  jon-nyc
                                  wrote on 5 Feb 2025, 11:27 last edited by jon-nyc 2 May 2025, 11:27
                                  #55

                                  Not insanity but it seemed like the right thread.

                                  The conference had an open bar and buffet last night. I like to tip a little at these things. But I never have small bills.

                                  I would actually have appreciated a little tap and pay device that gave the options $1 $3 $5 other.

                                  Not that you had to press through to get your order, but just sitting on the side for you to use if you wanted to or ignore if not.

                                  "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                                  -Cormac McCarthy

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                                    5 Feb 2025, 11:27

                                    Not insanity but it seemed like the right thread.

                                    The conference had an open bar and buffet last night. I like to tip a little at these things. But I never have small bills.

                                    I would actually have appreciated a little tap and pay device that gave the options $1 $3 $5 other.

                                    Not that you had to press through to get your order, but just sitting on the side for you to use if you wanted to or ignore if not.

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                                    Doctor Phibes
                                    wrote on 5 Feb 2025, 11:44 last edited by
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                                    @jon-nyc said in More tipping insanity:

                                    I would actually have appreciated a little tap and pay device

                                    Aqua's sister wasn't there with you?

                                    I was only joking

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                                      89th
                                      wrote on 5 Feb 2025, 12:23 last edited by
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                                      Hi oh!!!!!!!

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                                        89th
                                        wrote on 5 Feb 2025, 12:25 last edited by
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                                        Smart idea Jon. I wonder if they did an experiment what would happen. Or at least a sign that says they can break big bills for change, I agree that's awkward when that happens and it's an open bar.

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                                          jon-nyc
                                          wrote on 18 Feb 2025, 14:32 last edited by
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                                          At self checkout buying overpriced snacks.

                                          They add 3% to help cover their staffing costs because the $7 liter of water doesn’t cover it.

                                          Needless to say it’s not optional

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                                          "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                                          -Cormac McCarthy

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