The digital tip jar
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@Axtremus said in The digital tip jar:
@Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:
@Axtremus said in The digital tip jar:
@Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:
@taiwan_girl said in The digital tip jar:
I do not believe that tipping makes the service better.
Because you've never been a waitress in the U.S. So you don't know.
Most likely she has dined in US restaurants (where tipping is the norm) and in other restaurants (where tipping is not the norm). That should be sufficient for her to opine on whether tipping correlates to the quality of service, no?
The value of tipping lies in skills relating to social interaction and being receptive to the desires of others, ...
If the others' desires are to not have to deal with tipping at all, what then?
If you don't like tipping Ax, there's nothing preventing you from starting your own restaurant and forming your own tipping rules.
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@Copper said in The digital tip jar:
@George-K said in The digital tip jar:
If you aren't sure what to do, ask the worker if the store has a suggested tip amount.
If there was little or no service, I suggest zero.
Getting an ice cream cone at the ice cream shop is not a place for a tip.
Our local ice cream shop does show us the spin-around screen tip option, I hit the skip button.
I'm with you.
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@Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:
Also, just curious:
For those who don't believe in tipping all that much for restaurants, do you even know what good service is? What's the best you've ever been waited on? Bet I could top you.
I once got a blowjob between the soup and the main course.
He was surprisingly good at it for such a burly man.
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@Doctor-Phibes said in The digital tip jar:
@Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:
Also, just curious:
For those who don't believe in tipping all that much for restaurants, do you even know what good service is? What's the best you've ever been waited on? Bet I could top you.
I once got a blowjob between the soup and the main course.
He was surprisingly good at it for such a burly man.
See, you get it then! Can't get that kinda shit at your local Denny's!
(Actually that's precisely where you get that kinda shit. That and food poisoning.)
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@Doctor-Phibes said in The digital tip jar:
Link to videoI hate the whole tipping thing.
Today, I picked up my dry cleaning, and saw a tip jar. I reached into my wallet and pulled out a couple of bucks, dropped it into the basket, then realised I'd given them a $10 by mistake, and had to take it out, hopefully without looking as though I'd just stolen $10. Very embarrassing.
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@Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:
Also, just curious:
For those who don't believe in tipping all that much for restaurants, do you even know what good service is? What's the best you've ever been waited on? Bet I could top you.
Best? At a high end sports bar/restaurant in Orlando. Waitress brought me out the most disturbing looking ribs I have ever seen. As I tried to cut into them it was pure fat and gristle. Before I could even flag the waitress down she brings me over a steak and says, I hope you don’t mind but those ribs looked just wrong. I grabbed you a steak and we took the ribs off the bill. The steak is on the house.
What’s the percentage of a $30 tip on a $0 bill?
Me/rry/Christmas
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@LuFins-Dad said in The digital tip jar:
@Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:
Also, just curious:
For those who don't believe in tipping all that much for restaurants, do you even know what good service is? What's the best you've ever been waited on? Bet I could top you.
Best? At a high end sports bar/restaurant in Orlando. Waitress brought me out the most disturbing looking ribs I have ever seen. As I tried to cut into them it was pure fat and gristle. Before I could even flag the waitress down she brings me over a steak and says, I hope you don’t mind but those ribs looked just wrong. I grabbed you a steak and we took the ribs off the bill. The steak is on the house.
What’s the percentage of a $30 tip on a $0 bill?
What's the menu price of the ribs that you ordered originally? What's the menu price of the replacement steak?
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@Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:
Also, just curious:
For those who don't believe in tipping all that much for restaurants, do you even know what good service is? What's the best you've ever been waited on? Bet I could top you.
Yes. I love to leave large tips. It means I got what I came for - a great experience. A good server makes sure that happens.
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@Mik said in The digital tip jar:
@Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:
Also, just curious:
For those who don't believe in tipping all that much for restaurants, do you even know what good service is? What's the best you've ever been waited on? Bet I could top you.
Yes. I love to leave large tips. It means I got what I came for - a great experience. A good server makes sure that happens.
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I personally enjoy tipping, too, but it’s gotten weird.
When we went to Universal Orlando, we were told there was no topping at any of the concessions except beer and wine.
I love tipping a bartender. I don’t run a tab for the first drink, instead paying upfront with a nice cash tip. Then I open a tab if necessary. I tip for prompt service and perhaps good conversation… At least being made to feel comfortable and welcome.
So at Universal, these aren’t bars. You stand in a queue, order your drink, they dispense from the tap, and you pay and get out of the way. Why am I tipping that service if I’m not tipping the guy pouring the soda? It’s the same service…
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@Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:
@taiwan_girl said in The digital tip jar:
I do not believe that tipping makes the service better.
Because you've never been a waitress in the U.S. So you don't know.
Say you are and you have 2 tables. Table A you've had before. They never tip well. Absolutely never. No matter what you do for them. Table B tips variably between good and excellently, depending on the service.
If you're in any way a decent waitress, what you're going to do is provide bare minimum coverage for Table A and put all your effort in Table B. Table A still gets their food, no one's getting scammed. But both parties get exactly what they pay for. And in the end, you make a shitload more money for an hour's worth if work. You win, Table B wins, and Table A doesn't have to pay extra for services it clearly doesn't value.
If you "just pay the poor servers the same decent wage" then everybody gets the same mediocre service. You don't go above and beyond for great customers, you have to put up with assholes, and there's no incentive to go the extra mile with anyone.
I guess we will agree to disagree.
I take my car or bike to the shop to be fixed? Should I tip the guy?
I go to the dentist and he does a good job cleaning my teeth? Should I tip him?
I am standing in long line at the grocery store with only a few items. A worker motions me to come over to a empty cash machine and opens it up so I can check out faster. Should I tip her?
I take some reports down to the mail room to get copies made and put into a nice binder for distribution. They are super busy, but when I ask them to rush this one through, they do. Should I tip them?
etc
My point is that almost every job can be considered a service job. Why single out waitresses, bartender, etc?
I believe most people tip pretty much the same, regardless of service. And in the US, the expected %tip is seeming to slow increase. 15% seems to have increased to 20%
And I really dont think that tipping drives good service. Good waitresses are good waitresses. If tipping really changed behavior, then over time, there would be no bad waitresses. Only extradordinary ones.
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@taiwan_girl said in The digital tip jar:
@Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:
@taiwan_girl said in The digital tip jar:
I do not believe that tipping makes the service better.
Because you've never been a waitress in the U.S. So you don't know.
Say you are and you have 2 tables. Table A you've had before. They never tip well. Absolutely never. No matter what you do for them. Table B tips variably between good and excellently, depending on the service.
If you're in any way a decent waitress, what you're going to do is provide bare minimum coverage for Table A and put all your effort in Table B. Table A still gets their food, no one's getting scammed. But both parties get exactly what they pay for. And in the end, you make a shitload more money for an hour's worth if work. You win, Table B wins, and Table A doesn't have to pay extra for services it clearly doesn't value.
If you "just pay the poor servers the same decent wage" then everybody gets the same mediocre service. You don't go above and beyond for great customers, you have to put up with assholes, and there's no incentive to go the extra mile with anyone.
I guess we will agree to disagree.
I take my car or bike to the shop to be fixed? Should I tip the guy?
That's not the same service.
I go to the dentist and he does a good job cleaning my teeth? Should I tip him?
That's not the same service.
I am standing in long line at the grocery store with only a few items. A worker motions me to come over to a empty cash machine and opens it up so I can check out faster. Should I tip her?
That's not the same service.
I take some reports down to the mail room to get copies made and put into a nice binder for distribution. They are super busy, but when I ask them to rush this one through, they do. Should I tip them?
Can you really not tell the difference between a restaurant experience and a grocery store experience?
I believe most people tip pretty much the same, regardless of service.
That's the best proof provided yet that you're talking about things you don't understand. You couldn't possibly be more wrong about that.
How many tips have you ever received that you're basing this on? I've received about 10k.
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And that's just one weekend...
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I'm with @taiwan_girl mostly on this. Tips are asked for at more places than before (e.g., coffee shop) whereas short term transactions are found in many places where the quality of service varies, the product often doesn't, but tips are or aren't requested.
Anyway, for me it's almost come down to an "appreciation that you're even doing the job" mentality given the worker shortage we saw and felt in 2020. For example, the pizza delivery guy, the coffee shop worker, the sandwich shop worker... if they ask for a tip, I'll usually quickly select the 10 or 15 percent option. An extra buck here and there isn't much but I know it adds up on their end.
Now...should a coffee shop worker be tipped, but not the McDonald's drive-thru worker? Doesn't make sense, but whatever.
That being said, there are cases, such as a ballpark concessions stand where the transaction is so ridiculously quick and careless that I'll often select "No" on the tip screen. Thanks for the pretzel.
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@Jolly said in The digital tip jar:
And that's just one weekend...
Yeah no that's not $10k, that's 10k number of tips.
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@89th said in The digital tip jar:
I'm with @taiwan_girl mostly on this. Tips are asked for at more places than before (e.g., coffee shop) whereas short term transactions are found in many places where the quality of service varies, the product often doesn't, but tips are or aren't requested.
Anyway, for me it's almost come down to an "appreciation that you're even doing the job" mentality given the worker shortage we saw and felt in 2020. For example, the pizza delivery guy, the coffee shop worker, the sandwich shop worker... if they ask for a tip, I'll usually quickly select the 10 or 15 percent option. An extra buck here and there isn't much but I know it adds up on their end.
Now...should a coffee shop worker be tipped, but not the McDonald's drive-thru worker? Doesn't make sense, but whatever.
That being said, there are cases, such as a ballpark concessions stand where the transaction is so ridiculously quick and careless that I'll often select "No" on the tip screen. Thanks for the pretzel.
You also used to snap your fingers at waiters until it was pointed out to you that isn't okay.
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Aqua, you're basically saying anybody who doesn't agree with you doesn't understand how awesome tipping is. Sure, they've lived in countries without the system and it apparently works fine, but it can't possibly be as amazing as here, right?
Maybe you're so ingrained in it that you don't understand how bizarre the rules are?
Meanwhile, restaurants apparently continue to struggle to find people willing to work....
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@Doctor-Phibes said in The digital tip jar:
Aqua, you're basically saying anybody who doesn't agree with you doesn't understand how awesome tipping is.
Tipping isn't "awesome," it's something we do here and it works in certain contexts. I already said that with your moving example, that's not really the best application. I don't think it works just anywhere.
(I still do it, though. Because I know it's not the fault of the guy driving the truck and don't take it out on him.)
Maybe you're so ingrained in it that you don't understand how bizarre the rules are?
I never said it wasn't weird. Really how I feel about it is that it is strange, but it also helps to balance out difficult jobs which could use some balancing out.
Inflation is up, and a recession is well in swing. While the rest of us are sitting on our ass, pontificating about how hard our life is to be asked by a tablet screen to give 2 extra fucking dollars for our seasonal latté, the motherfucker making that latté is going to put in 60 to 80 hours during the most stressful week out of the year. He's going to deal with Karen smearing shit on the bathroom walls because she didn't like the consistency of her topping. So yeah I pay the two fucking dollars.
Meanwhile, restaurants apparently continue to struggle to find people willing to work....
It's because they keep hiring stupid people who deserve to be stiffed on Christmas because they didn't get an MBA.
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@Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:
You also used to snap your fingers at waiters until it was pointed out to you that isn't okay.
Did I? I do remember one time in IHOP like 20 years ago I did that as the waiter was walking by and we were trying to grab his attention after finishing a delicious rooty tooty fresh 'n fruity. Literally the only time I can recall, unless my old man brain is forgetting other stories?
