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  • LuFins DadL Offline
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    LuFins Dad
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    #1

    I am in Beervana Pourhouse… A beer joint where you pour your own beer. I am settling the tab, and it’s asking how much I would like to tip….

    The Brad

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    • MikM Away
      MikM Away
      Mik
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      #2

      $.00. I've been in one of those places. A tip is for services received, not just because you man the cash register. Every business does that.

      And I like to tip.

      “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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      • MikM Mik

        $.00. I've been in one of those places. A tip is for services received, not just because you man the cash register. Every business does that.

        And I like to tip.

        LuFins DadL Offline
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        LuFins Dad
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        #3

        @Mik said in Tipping Question…:

        $.00

        Right? I’m kind of pissed they are even asking/suggesting…

        Of course, I look like I’m in a mumu, so I probably shouldn’t make too much of a fuss…

        The Brad

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        • MikM Away
          MikM Away
          Mik
          wrote on last edited by
          #4

          Just don't wear the same outfit back again. With that on it won't be your face they remember.

          “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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          • MikM Mik

            $.00. I've been in one of those places. A tip is for services received, not just because you man the cash register. Every business does that.

            And I like to tip.

            George KG Offline
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            George K
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            #5

            @Mik said in Tipping Question…:

            $.00. I've been in one of those places. A tip is for services received, not just because you man the cash register. Every business does that.

            And I like to tip.

            Exactly. It's like the place where you order to-go food. They spin the iPad around and you're guilted into entering a tip.

            I mean, all you did was bring the food to the counter. You didn't serve it. You didn't clean the table afterward. You put it in a FUCKING bag for me to walk out with.

            I'll tip in sit-down places and delivery. Otherwise, nope.

            "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

            The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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            • MikM Away
              MikM Away
              Mik
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              #6

              I tip for takeout because they have to do almost as much work as serving you, and sometimes putting it together to go, more.

              But I’m pouring my own beer and all you are doing is reading my card for how much I rang up? No tip.

              “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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              • MikM Mik

                I tip for takeout because they have to do almost as much work as serving you, and sometimes putting it together to go, more.

                But I’m pouring my own beer and all you are doing is reading my card for how much I rang up? No tip.

                George KG Offline
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                George K
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                @Mik said in Tipping Question…:

                I tip for takeout because they have to do almost as much work as serving you, and sometimes putting it together to go, more.

                No. They put it in a bag. That's practically no different than just putting it on a plate. And the bag doesn't have to be washed.

                No table service, no cleanup afterward, no "would you like more coffee?"

                How much do you tip? 20%?

                "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                • Doctor PhibesD Online
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                  Doctor Phibes
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                  #8

                  Isn't the point of tipping to allow the people who work in the place to get a reasonable wage rather than to reward wonderful service?

                  If they're getting paid next to nothing, then not tipping is giving them the shaft, or at least allowing their employer to do so.

                  I was only joking

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                  • George KG George K

                    @Mik said in Tipping Question…:

                    I tip for takeout because they have to do almost as much work as serving you, and sometimes putting it together to go, more.

                    No. They put it in a bag. That's practically no different than just putting it on a plate. And the bag doesn't have to be washed.

                    No table service, no cleanup afterward, no "would you like more coffee?"

                    How much do you tip? 20%?

                    MikM Away
                    MikM Away
                    Mik
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                    @George-K said in Tipping Question…:

                    @Mik said in Tipping Question…:

                    I tip for takeout because they have to do almost as much work as serving you, and sometimes putting it together to go, more.

                    No. They put it in a bag. That's practically no different than just putting it on a plate. And the bag doesn't have to be washed.

                    No table service, no cleanup afterward, no "would you like more coffee?"

                    How much do you tip? 20%?

                    Generally 10 to 15%

                    “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                    • George KG Offline
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                      I don't know the intricacies or differences between these "one-of" places and a chain, say Mickey-D's with regard to the wage they earn.

                      We don't tip at Taco Bell, do we?

                      "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                      The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                      • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

                        Isn't the point of tipping to allow the people who work in the place to get a reasonable wage rather than to reward wonderful service?

                        If they're getting paid next to nothing, then not tipping is giving them the shaft, or at least allowing their employer to do so.

                        MikM Away
                        MikM Away
                        Mik
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                        #11

                        @Doctor-Phibes said in Tipping Question…:

                        Isn't the point of tipping to allow the people who work in the place to get a reasonable wage rather than to reward wonderful service?

                        If they're getting paid next to nothing, then not tipping is giving them the shaft, or at least allowing their employer to do so.

                        Not without the accompanying service, no. The tip is incentive for good service, period. They know the deal and most do pretty well. My daughter generally made $20 to $30 an hour.

                        “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                        • George KG George K

                          I don't know the intricacies or differences between these "one-of" places and a chain, say Mickey-D's with regard to the wage they earn.

                          We don't tip at Taco Bell, do we?

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                          Doctor Phibes
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                          #12

                          @George-K said in Tipping Question…:

                          We don't tip at Taco Bell, do we?

                          Which is tad ironic, considering what you're probably eating there.

                          I was only joking

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                          • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

                            @George-K said in Tipping Question…:

                            We don't tip at Taco Bell, do we?

                            Which is tad ironic, considering what you're probably eating there.

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                            George K
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                            #13

                            @Doctor-Phibes said in Tipping Question…:

                            @George-K said in Tipping Question…:

                            We don't tip at Taco Bell, do we?

                            Which is tad ironic, considering what you're probably eating there.

                            Just for the sake of full disclosure, it's been more than 10 years since I ate at Taco Bell. Probably more than 15, when I was young and naive.

                            "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                            The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                            • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

                              Isn't the point of tipping to allow the people who work in the place to get a reasonable wage rather than to reward wonderful service?

                              If they're getting paid next to nothing, then not tipping is giving them the shaft, or at least allowing their employer to do so.

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                              Catseye3
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                              @Doctor-Phibes said in Tipping Question…:

                              Isn't the point of tipping to allow the people who work in the place to get a reasonable wage rather than to reward wonderful service?

                              I don't agree with this. I don't love that waitstaff make lousy wages, but that is also not my fault or my responsibility to fix. As a lifelong tipper, I am pleased to tip generously when s/he has given me good service, and have no problem leaving a chintzy tip to Ms/Mr. Attitude.

                              (I never stiff waitstaff. You don't know what troubles are burdening them that evening or whether they're working their second shift and their back/feet are killing them, or whatever. They haven't earned a good tip, but I'd rather not leave them nothing at all.)

                              Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

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                                Axtremus
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                                Try this:

                                1. Make it known to the manager/owner that you object to being asked to tip without commensurate service.
                                2. Vote with your feet and don’t go back to that establishment if you are not satisfied with the owner/manager’s response.
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                                • George KG George K

                                  @Doctor-Phibes said in Tipping Question…:

                                  @George-K said in Tipping Question…:

                                  We don't tip at Taco Bell, do we?

                                  Which is tad ironic, considering what you're probably eating there.

                                  Just for the sake of full disclosure, it's been more than 10 years since I ate at Taco Bell. Probably more than 15, when I was young and naive.

                                  Doctor PhibesD Online
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                                  Doctor Phibes
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                                  #16

                                  @George-K said in Tipping Question…:

                                  @Doctor-Phibes said in Tipping Question…:

                                  @George-K said in Tipping Question…:

                                  We don't tip at Taco Bell, do we?

                                  Which is tad ironic, considering what you're probably eating there.

                                  Just for the sake of full disclosure, it's been more than 10 years since I ate at Taco Bell. Probably more than 15, when I was young and naive.

                                  A restaurant unique in that it’s the customers that get the tip. And the rest of it if you’re really lucky.

                                  I was only joking

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                                    I know we have discussed before, but I wish the US (and the places) would get rid of tipping. Not only in restaurants, but in the US, there seems to be a trend to tip in multiple places - hair cut place, piano tuners (I remember discussing this before), etc. Seems like a lot of service industry places now it is acceptable or even expected to tip.

                                    And I am a believer that tipping does not really change the attitude or service of the person.

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                                    • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

                                      Isn't the point of tipping to allow the people who work in the place to get a reasonable wage rather than to reward wonderful service?

                                      If they're getting paid next to nothing, then not tipping is giving them the shaft, or at least allowing their employer to do so.

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                                      #18

                                      @Doctor-Phibes said in Tipping Question…:

                                      Isn't the point of tipping to allow the people who work in the place to get a reasonable wage rather than to reward wonderful service?

                                      Pre pandemic? No.

                                      During pandemic? Yes.

                                      Post pandemic? Yes and no.

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                                        Doctor Phibes
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                                        @89th said in Tipping Question…:

                                        Pre pandemic? No.
                                        During pandemic? Yes.
                                        Post pandemic? Yes and no.

                                        You should have seen the tip I gave the guy who brought the booze round to the house mid-2020.

                                        I was only joking

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                                          I just ordered online from a chinese fast food place, for pickup, and their system makes you jump through some hoops to not tip. They offer you four tip choices, starting at 15%, through 25%, and a 'custom' button, where you have to enter 0, if you want not to tip. There is no bypassing that piece of the order process. I thought that was pretty aggressive for a pickup order.

                                          Education is extremely important.

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