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RIP Larry

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  • George KG George K

    @Jolly said in RIP Larry:

    the posted obit is only as good as what the immediate family insists on

    Right. So, in this case, who is "immediate family?" Obviously, his brother and mother, but not spouse?

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    jon-nyc
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    #100

    @George-K said in RIP Larry:

    @Jolly said in RIP Larry:

    the posted obit is only as good as what the immediate family insists on

    Right. So, in this case, who is "immediate family?" Obviously, his brother and mother, but not spouse?

    They would take the spouse’s direction not the 90 year old mother.

    Only non-witches get due process.

    • Cotton Mather, Salem Massachusetts, 1692
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    • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

      @George-K said in RIP Larry:

      @Jolly said in RIP Larry:

      the posted obit is only as good as what the immediate family insists on

      Right. So, in this case, who is "immediate family?" Obviously, his brother and mother, but not spouse?

      They would take the spouse’s direction not the 90 year old mother.

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      George K
      wrote on last edited by George K
      #101

      @jon-nyc said in RIP Larry:

      @George-K said in RIP Larry:

      @Jolly said in RIP Larry:

      the posted obit is only as good as what the immediate family insists on

      Right. So, in this case, who is "immediate family?" Obviously, his brother and mother, but not spouse?

      They would take the spouse’s direction not the 90 year old mother.

      That, indirectly, is my point.

      "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

      The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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        Klaus
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        #102

        Is it a possibility that his wife / his mother's caregiver doesn't have the paperwork to live in the US legally and hence they didn't mention her? Pure speculuation...

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          jon-nyc
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          #103

          I think it’s just another aspect of his life online that he made up out of whole cloth.

          That too is speculation, of course. But I think her non-existence is the most parsimonious explanation of the lack of mention in the obit.

          Only non-witches get due process.

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            Jolly
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            #104

            Can I say, I don't much care?

            We are what we bring to the media.

            “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

            Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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              Horace
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              #105

              I always assumed his wife was real. If she's not, it certainly puts a sadder note on his posts.

              Education is extremely important.

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                Mik
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                #106

                I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.

                “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                • MikM Mik

                  I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.

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                  Jolly
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #107

                  @Mik said in RIP Larry:

                  I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.

                  Actually, probably worse. At least Dwain Lee has his personal ax to grind.

                  “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                  Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                  • MikM Mik

                    I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.

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                    blondie
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #108

                    @Mik said in RIP Larry:

                    I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.

                    You know, yup, you’re right.

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                    • MikM Mik

                      I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.

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                      jon-nyc
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                      #109

                      @Mik said in RIP Larry:

                      I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.

                      Meh. Funeral was the 3rd.

                      Only non-witches get due process.

                      • Cotton Mather, Salem Massachusetts, 1692
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                      • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                        @Mik said in RIP Larry:

                        I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.

                        Meh. Funeral was the 3rd.

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                        Jolly
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #110

                        @jon-nyc said in RIP Larry:

                        @Mik said in RIP Larry:

                        I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.

                        Meh. Funeral was the 3rd.

                        Stay classy, y'hear?

                        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                          Horace
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #111

                          Pretty clear Trumpification of Jon’s posts.

                          Education is extremely important.

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                            kluurs
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                            #112

                            I don't think Sarah was a Larry creation though his relationship to her may have been enhanced without the benefit of recognition by the state. His passing with such rapidity could leave a bit of a mess for his relations. I hope he had a good lawyer do his planning for him.

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                            • JollyJ Jolly

                              @jon-nyc said in RIP Larry:

                              @Mik said in RIP Larry:

                              I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.

                              Meh. Funeral was the 3rd.

                              Stay classy, y'hear?

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                              Catseye3
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                              #113

                              @jon-nyc said in RIP Larry:

                              Jon: Meh. Funeral was the 3rd.

                              Jolly: Stay classy, y'hear?

                              Yep, Larry's service was over two days ago. Five days is long enough for this uncharacteristic sweetness and light. Time to get back to our customary malignant acrimony.

                              Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

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                              • kluursK kluurs

                                I don't think Sarah was a Larry creation though his relationship to her may have been enhanced without the benefit of recognition by the state. His passing with such rapidity could leave a bit of a mess for his relations. I hope he had a good lawyer do his planning for him.

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                                Horace
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #114

                                @kluurs said in RIP Larry:

                                I don't think Sarah was a Larry creation though his relationship to her may have been enhanced without the benefit of recognition by the state.

                                Seems more likely.

                                Education is extremely important.

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                                  89th
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                                  #115

                                  The kids names were Spyder, Wednesday, and Dagger? I remember his mention of Spyder many years ago...the kid is probably 15 by now?

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                                  • 89th8 89th

                                    The kids names were Spyder, Wednesday, and Dagger? I remember his mention of Spyder many years ago...the kid is probably 15 by now?

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                                    kluurs
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                                    #116

                                    Spyder Fletcher grave

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                                    • kluursK kluurs

                                      Spyder Fletcher grave

                                      e1b0cb95-f1c0-4556-9618-b9593dff42fa-image.png

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                                      LuFins Dad
                                      wrote on last edited by
                                      #117

                                      @kluurs said in RIP Larry:

                                      Spyder Fletcher grave

                                      e1b0cb95-f1c0-4556-9618-b9593dff42fa-image.png

                                      Cat?

                                      The Brad

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                                      • kluursK kluurs

                                        I don't think Sarah was a Larry creation though his relationship to her may have been enhanced without the benefit of recognition by the state. His passing with such rapidity could leave a bit of a mess for his relations. I hope he had a good lawyer do his planning for him.

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                                        Renauda
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                                        #118

                                        @kluurs

                                        I don't think Sarah was a Larry creation though his relationship to her may have been enhanced without the benefit of recognition by the state.

                                        Nor do I. In fact, Larry’s marriage to Sarah was very real. I have always maintained that marriage between two people is a state of mind that is expressed through the heart. They were undoubtedly husband and wife even if it was by common law. Nothing at all wrong with it.

                                        Driving back home from BC earlier today the following came up on my iPod playlist in the truck. Immediately made me think of Larry:

                                        Link to video

                                        Am sure he’d appreciate it.

                                        Elbows up!

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                                        • AxtremusA Axtremus

                                          Condolences to Larry’s family and loved ones.

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                                          Moonbat
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                                          #119

                                          Just saw this. Condolences to his loved ones.

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