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  • 8 89th
    28 Sept 2022, 00:46

    @Doctor-Phibes yeah that’s annoying. But, hopefully minor and temporary. Hope the new place is rewarding to fix and make your own

    @Horace When is the updated appraisal expected?

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    Doctor Phibes
    wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 01:13 last edited by Doctor Phibes
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    @89th said in Bad timing:

    Hope the new place is rewarding to fix and make your own

    I'm actually really enjoying it, although it's been a lot of work. The previous owners appear to have been absolute slobs, but the fundamentals are good.

    On Sunday I removed this absolutely horrifically colored, and very dirty, bright pink carpet from one of the bedrooms, uncovering a pretty much pristine hardwood floor underneath. It appears to have been untouched since about 1980. So there are some nice surprises, along with the less nice ones. I have found and disposed of more discarded dental-floss applicators than I care to think about. After a while you stop pulling a face over the discovery.

    I was only joking

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      Horace
      wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 02:29 last edited by Horace
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      According to the closing sheet, our agent is getting 3% commission. That will be a topic of conversation if it is ever suggested that I pony up the 1%. I am sure he will jump at the chance to finally make himself useful, beyond doing MLS searches we could have done ourselves.

      Education is extremely important.

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      • H Horace
        28 Sept 2022, 02:29

        According to the closing sheet, our agent is getting 3% commission. That will be a topic of conversation if it is ever suggested that I pony up the 1%. I am sure he will jump at the chance to finally make himself useful, beyond doing MLS searches we could have done ourselves.

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        89th
        wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 11:37 last edited by
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        @Horace boom, roasted

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        • D Doctor Phibes
          28 Sept 2022, 01:13

          @89th said in Bad timing:

          Hope the new place is rewarding to fix and make your own

          I'm actually really enjoying it, although it's been a lot of work. The previous owners appear to have been absolute slobs, but the fundamentals are good.

          On Sunday I removed this absolutely horrifically colored, and very dirty, bright pink carpet from one of the bedrooms, uncovering a pretty much pristine hardwood floor underneath. It appears to have been untouched since about 1980. So there are some nice surprises, along with the less nice ones. I have found and disposed of more discarded dental-floss applicators than I care to think about. After a while you stop pulling a face over the discovery.

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          89th
          wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 11:39 last edited by
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          @Doctor-Phibes said in Bad timing:

          @89th said in Bad timing:

          Hope the new place is rewarding to fix and make your own

          I'm actually really enjoying it, although it's been a lot of work. The previous owners appear to have been absolute slobs, but the fundamentals are good.

          On Sunday I removed this absolutely horrifically colored, and very dirty, bright pink carpet from one of the bedrooms, uncovering a pretty much pristine hardwood floor underneath. It appears to have been untouched since about 1980. So there are some nice surprises, along with the less nice ones. I have found and disposed of more discarded dental-floss applicators than I care to think about. After a while you stop pulling a face over the discovery.

          That is a nice surprise (the floor, not the floss). Our previous owners also had a few areas they didn't maintain, so it's been nice to fix and refresh areas that we can make our own. They also really had a style that resulted in many very heavy (literally) and dark window dressings. It was fun (and dusty, and spider-y) to remove those to expose the really nice, bright, and wood-trimmed windows in a few rooms.

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            Horace
            wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 13:54 last edited by
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            Closing rescheduled for Friday, which may or may not screw all our plans for moving stuff in on Friday. Depending on how lenient the builder would like to be with allowing a buyer to do stuff with the house before the close.

            Education is extremely important.

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            • H Horace
              28 Sept 2022, 13:54

              Closing rescheduled for Friday, which may or may not screw all our plans for moving stuff in on Friday. Depending on how lenient the builder would like to be with allowing a buyer to do stuff with the house before the close.

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              kluurs
              wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 15:48 last edited by
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              @Horace I hope that works - should make for an interesting day.

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                jon-nyc
                wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 15:53 last edited by
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                Makes for an exciting game of chicken on that 1%.

                You were warned.

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                  Horace
                  wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 16:02 last edited by
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                  I rescheduled the move for Monday. Now we wait to see if the appraiser changes his mind, and we can close Friday. If he doesn’t, the builder is still in the drivers seat with our abnormally large amount of earnest money and no contingencies. And the salesperson is off in her own righteous reality where she believes the price drop she has already allowed is generous to a fault. Never mind the appraisal that was lower. It’s just an absurd appraisal, according to her.

                  Education is extremely important.

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                  • H Horace
                    28 Sept 2022, 16:02

                    I rescheduled the move for Monday. Now we wait to see if the appraiser changes his mind, and we can close Friday. If he doesn’t, the builder is still in the drivers seat with our abnormally large amount of earnest money and no contingencies. And the salesperson is off in her own righteous reality where she believes the price drop she has already allowed is generous to a fault. Never mind the appraisal that was lower. It’s just an absurd appraisal, according to her.

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                    89th
                    wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 16:18 last edited by
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                    @Horace She sure likes exaggeration. Absurd would be like $300,000 low. Just as I'm sure any lower offer she's heard of in the past was "insulting". Insulting would be "I offer you $100, which you should recognize because it came from your mother last night!"

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                    • 8 89th
                      28 Sept 2022, 16:18

                      @Horace She sure likes exaggeration. Absurd would be like $300,000 low. Just as I'm sure any lower offer she's heard of in the past was "insulting". Insulting would be "I offer you $100, which you should recognize because it came from your mother last night!"

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                      Horace
                      wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 17:02 last edited by
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                      @89th said in Bad timing:

                      @Horace She sure likes exaggeration. Absurd would be like $300,000 low. Just as I'm sure any lower offer she's heard of in the past was "insulting". Insulting would be "I offer you $100, which you should recognize because it came from your mother last night!"

                      Stealing that one for use in future negotiations. Thanks.

                      Education is extremely important.

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                      • J jon-nyc
                        28 Sept 2022, 15:53

                        Makes for an exciting game of chicken on that 1%.

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                        Horace
                        wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 17:13 last edited by
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                        @jon-nyc said in Bad timing:

                        Makes for an exciting game of chicken on that 1%.

                        The wild card is that my wife doesn't like the house to begin with. The builder and our agent don't truly understand how precarious this deal is, even given the earnest money is at peril.

                        Education is extremely important.

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                          George K
                          wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 17:52 last edited by
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                          Link to video

                          "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                          The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                          • G George K
                            28 Sept 2022, 17:52

                            Link to video

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                            Horace
                            wrote on 28 Sept 2022, 19:18 last edited by
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                            @George-K said in Bad timing:

                            Link to video

                            It's all good no matter what happens. If we walk away rather than make a small financial sacrifice, I score points and she is happy that the horizon is clear to pursue her dream house. If the appraisal is adjusted, we go forward with the current deal. If the agent and builder chip in to make up the 1% difference with the current appraisal, we got a slightly better deal and she feels like she won this small battle with the builder.

                            Education is extremely important.

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                            • H Horace
                              28 Sept 2022, 19:18

                              @George-K said in Bad timing:

                              Link to video

                              It's all good no matter what happens. If we walk away rather than make a small financial sacrifice, I score points and she is happy that the horizon is clear to pursue her dream house. If the appraisal is adjusted, we go forward with the current deal. If the agent and builder chip in to make up the 1% difference with the current appraisal, we got a slightly better deal and she feels like she won this small battle with the builder.

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                              89th
                              wrote on 30 Sept 2022, 14:41 last edited by
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                              @Horace I require 1x updates today

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                                30 Sept 2022, 14:41

                                @Horace I require 1x updates today

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                                Horace
                                wrote on 30 Sept 2022, 15:07 last edited by
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                                @89th said in Bad timing:

                                @Horace I require 1x updates today

                                Me too. I’m just waiting in fascination at the lack of updates from the builder. Close is scheduled for 5 hours from now. Lacking further updates, I will bring a cashiers check which will be insufficient by the 1% at play. I expect an update within the next few hours though.

                                Update as I wrote this, the builder salesperson is confident the appraisal will be raised. She says the dirty Puerto Rican appraiser was late and did a bad job but his supervisor is cooperative.

                                So that sucks for us. It means we sacrificed our moving weekend plans just to allow the builder to charge us more.

                                Education is extremely important.

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                                • H Horace
                                  30 Sept 2022, 15:07

                                  @89th said in Bad timing:

                                  @Horace I require 1x updates today

                                  Me too. I’m just waiting in fascination at the lack of updates from the builder. Close is scheduled for 5 hours from now. Lacking further updates, I will bring a cashiers check which will be insufficient by the 1% at play. I expect an update within the next few hours though.

                                  Update as I wrote this, the builder salesperson is confident the appraisal will be raised. She says the dirty Puerto Rican appraiser was late and did a bad job but his supervisor is cooperative.

                                  So that sucks for us. It means we sacrificed our moving weekend plans just to allow the builder to charge us more.

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                                  89th
                                  wrote on 30 Sept 2022, 18:58 last edited by
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                                  @Horace Yeah that sucks

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                                    Horace
                                    wrote on 1 Oct 2022, 00:00 last edited by
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                                    Closed this afternoon. Appraisal was raised to exactly our contract price. What a coincidence.

                                    Education is extremely important.

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                                    • H Horace
                                      1 Oct 2022, 00:00

                                      Closed this afternoon. Appraisal was raised to exactly our contract price. What a coincidence.

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                                      George K
                                      wrote on 1 Oct 2022, 00:45 last edited by
                                      #207

                                      @Horace said in Bad timing:

                                      Closed this afternoon. Appraisal was raised to exactly our contract price. What a coincidence.

                                      At long last, our national nightmare is over.

                                      Now, all you have to do is convince the spousal unit that the place will be OK.

                                      "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                                      The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                                      • G George K
                                        1 Oct 2022, 00:45

                                        @Horace said in Bad timing:

                                        Closed this afternoon. Appraisal was raised to exactly our contract price. What a coincidence.

                                        At long last, our national nightmare is over.

                                        Now, all you have to do is convince the spousal unit that the place will be OK.

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                                        Horace
                                        wrote on 1 Oct 2022, 00:53 last edited by
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                                        @George-K said in Bad timing:

                                        @Horace said in Bad timing:

                                        Closed this afternoon. Appraisal was raised to exactly our contract price. What a coincidence.

                                        At long last, our national nightmare is over.

                                        Now, all you have to do is convince the spousal unit that the place will be OK.

                                        Have to wait this one out. For now it’s my job to share in some sadness.

                                        Education is extremely important.

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                                          Copper
                                          wrote on 1 Oct 2022, 01:15 last edited by
                                          #209

                                          Now, it's all easy.

                                          Just move in.

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