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  • X xenon

    @LuFins-Dad I’ll go as far as my WhatsApp extended family group.

    That’s the worst part of all this.

    I want to say stupid and wrong things and be corrected, not cancelled.

    I want to try and persuade others without my motives coming into question.

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    @xenon even posting a sincere statistical analysis showing that per criminal arrest that African Americans are no more likely to have a violent encounter with police than other races will cost you an awful lot.

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      We had military marches playing as we marched into and out of our elementary school.

      We weren't very far removed from WW II. Most parents of this generation had served.

      We understood that the military of our country protected us from those who would do us harm.

      Those who reject the ritual of the anthem probably never had to worry about the need for protection or the idea of recognizing those who gave us that protection.

      There are still real threats to life and liberty. A strong military and respect for it will give us some protection.

      A bit of respect is a small price to pay.

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      • CopperC Copper

        We had military marches playing as we marched into and out of our elementary school.

        We weren't very far removed from WW II. Most parents of this generation had served.

        We understood that the military of our country protected us from those who would do us harm.

        Those who reject the ritual of the anthem probably never had to worry about the need for protection or the idea of recognizing those who gave us that protection.

        There are still real threats to life and liberty. A strong military and respect for it will give us some protection.

        A bit of respect is a small price to pay.

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        #14

        @Copper Amen, brother. It is especially apt to remember on this day.

        “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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        • X xenon

          Forced etiquette for national anthems or other patriotic signals have always rubbed me the wrong way.

          I think it comes from knowing a bunch of religious people growing up that “went through the motions” and signaled piety - but acted very obviously against basics ethos and teachings of the religion when there wasn’t a “prescribed motion” available.

          I feel very strong about the role of civics in society - but not a huge fan of signaling piety, patriotism, virtue through rituals.

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          @xenon said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

          Forced etiquette for national anthems or other patriotic signals have always rubbed me the wrong way.

          I think it comes from knowing a bunch of religious people growing up that “went through the motions” and signaled piety - but acted very obviously against basics ethos and teachings of the religion when there wasn’t a “prescribed motion” available.

          I feel very strong about the role of civics in society - but not a huge fan of signaling piety, patriotism, virtue through rituals.

          That really sounds like the classic spoiled millennial.

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          • CopperC Copper

            @xenon said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

            Forced etiquette for national anthems or other patriotic signals have always rubbed me the wrong way.

            I think it comes from knowing a bunch of religious people growing up that “went through the motions” and signaled piety - but acted very obviously against basics ethos and teachings of the religion when there wasn’t a “prescribed motion” available.

            I feel very strong about the role of civics in society - but not a huge fan of signaling piety, patriotism, virtue through rituals.

            That really sounds like the classic spoiled millennial.

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            @Copper With all due respect, Copper - I don’t think you have a clue what you’re talking about.

            My family history is littered with people who have been on the losing side national wars. I’ve had extended family members simply disappear because of the state (within the past 30 years). I have an appreciation of the actual cost of living under illiberal regimes.

            It’s a privilege to even have a country to fight for.

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              I know exactly what I am talking about, I am commenting on your behavior.

              I know nothing about your family.

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              • CopperC Copper

                We had military marches playing as we marched into and out of our elementary school.

                We weren't very far removed from WW II. Most parents of this generation had served.

                We understood that the military of our country protected us from those who would do us harm.

                Those who reject the ritual of the anthem probably never had to worry about the need for protection or the idea of recognizing those who gave us that protection.

                There are still real threats to life and liberty. A strong military and respect for it will give us some protection.

                A bit of respect is a small price to pay.

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                @Copper

                @Copper said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

                We had military marches playing as we marched into and out of our elementary school.

                We weren't very far removed from WW II. Most parents of this generation had served.

                We understood that the military of our country protected us from those who would do us harm.

                Those who reject the ritual of the anthem probably never had to worry about the need for protection or the idea of recognizing those who gave us that protection.

                There are still real threats to life and liberty. A strong military and respect for it will give us some protection.

                A bit of respect is a small price to pay.

                I absolutely agree with giving respect to our Military and our Veterans. I've played Amazing Grace at Vets funerals, Karla has played Taps at funerals and Memorial Day Services. I've arranged for and performed with small bands playing the various Military Marches for Veterans Groups and Holiday Parades. Every single person I meet in uniform, I thank for their service. I also thank every Vet that I meet.

                I do not, however, equate the US Flag and Anthem to the military. Those are representative of all of us and our predecessors. It is about the ideals and values this nation holds true. The Military are a part of that, but so is everybody else. To only equate the Flag and the Anthem to the military belittles both. Our country is more than the military.

                The Brad

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                • CopperC Copper

                  I know exactly what I am talking about, I am commenting on your behavior.

                  I know nothing about your family.

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                  @Copper you know nothing about my behavior either.

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                    I would choose to stay home and live off of my CARES act payments for four months.

                    Only non-witches get due process.

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                    • X xenon

                      @Copper you know nothing about my behavior either.

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                      @xenon said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

                      @Copper you know nothing about my behavior either.

                      It is quoted above, go take a look.

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                      • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad

                        @Copper

                        @Copper said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

                        We had military marches playing as we marched into and out of our elementary school.

                        We weren't very far removed from WW II. Most parents of this generation had served.

                        We understood that the military of our country protected us from those who would do us harm.

                        Those who reject the ritual of the anthem probably never had to worry about the need for protection or the idea of recognizing those who gave us that protection.

                        There are still real threats to life and liberty. A strong military and respect for it will give us some protection.

                        A bit of respect is a small price to pay.

                        I absolutely agree with giving respect to our Military and our Veterans. I've played Amazing Grace at Vets funerals, Karla has played Taps at funerals and Memorial Day Services. I've arranged for and performed with small bands playing the various Military Marches for Veterans Groups and Holiday Parades. Every single person I meet in uniform, I thank for their service. I also thank every Vet that I meet.

                        I do not, however, equate the US Flag and Anthem to the military. Those are representative of all of us and our predecessors. It is about the ideals and values this nation holds true. The Military are a part of that, but so is everybody else. To only equate the Flag and the Anthem to the military belittles both. Our country is more than the military.

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                        @LuFins-Dad said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

                        @Copper

                        @Copper said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

                        We had military marches playing as we marched into and out of our elementary school.

                        We weren't very far removed from WW II. Most parents of this generation had served.

                        We understood that the military of our country protected us from those who would do us harm.

                        Those who reject the ritual of the anthem probably never had to worry about the need for protection or the idea of recognizing those who gave us that protection.

                        There are still real threats to life and liberty. A strong military and respect for it will give us some protection.

                        A bit of respect is a small price to pay.

                        I absolutely agree with giving respect to our Military and our Veterans. I've played Amazing Grace at Vets funerals, Karla has played Taps at funerals and Memorial Day Services. I've arranged for and performed with small bands playing the various Military Marches for Veterans Groups and Holiday Parades. Every single person I meet in uniform, I thank for their service. I also thank every Vet that I meet.

                        I do not, however, equate the US Flag and Anthem to the military. Those are representative of all of us and our predecessors. It is about the ideals and values this nation holds true. The Military are a part of that, but so is everybody else. To only equate the Flag and the Anthem to the military belittles both. Our country is more than the military.

                        The flag, the anthem and the military are different things, of course they are not equated.

                        They all represent and are symbols of the same thing, us, our country. And for that reason deserve respect.

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                        • CopperC Copper

                          @xenon said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

                          @Copper you know nothing about my behavior either.

                          It is quoted above, go take a look.

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                          @Copper it’s not.

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                          • X xenon

                            @Copper it’s not.

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                            @xenon it is

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                            • CopperC Copper

                              @xenon it is

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                              @Copper said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

                              @xenon it is

                              This is silly. Quote it

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                                @Copper said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

                                You wrote it
                                and I did quoted it

                                it begins with

                                Forced etiquette

                                and ends with

                                rituals

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                                • CopperC Copper

                                  @Copper said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

                                  You wrote it
                                  and I did quoted it

                                  it begins with

                                  Forced etiquette

                                  and ends with

                                  rituals

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                                  xenon
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                                  @Copper those are my thoughts. Do you know what I do when a national anthem plays?

                                  Do you feel it’s important to agree 100% with every social norm you participate in?

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                                    @Copper said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

                                    That really sounds like the classic spoiled millennial.

                                    I said what I feel in the original post on this subject.

                                    That really sounds like the classic spoiled millennial.

                                    That is exactly what your post sounded like, the classic spoiled millennial.

                                    What you do during the playing of the national anthem has nothing to do with it.

                                    That has nothing to do with whether either of us participate in any social norms.

                                    You really have trouble following a topic.

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                                    • CopperC Copper

                                      @Copper said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

                                      That really sounds like the classic spoiled millennial.

                                      I said what I feel in the original post on this subject.

                                      That really sounds like the classic spoiled millennial.

                                      That is exactly what your post sounded like, the classic spoiled millennial.

                                      What you do during the playing of the national anthem has nothing to do with it.

                                      That has nothing to do with whether either of us participate in any social norms.

                                      You really have trouble following a topic.

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                                      xenon
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                                      @Copper well, thanks for sharing your perspective.

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                                      • X xenon

                                        Forced etiquette for national anthems or other patriotic signals have always rubbed me the wrong way.

                                        I think it comes from knowing a bunch of religious people growing up that “went through the motions” and signaled piety - but acted very obviously against basics ethos and teachings of the religion when there wasn’t a “prescribed motion” available.

                                        I feel very strong about the role of civics in society - but not a huge fan of signaling piety, patriotism, virtue through rituals.

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                                        @xenon said in If you had a job where they played the anthem at the start of the work day:

                                        Forced etiquette for national anthems or other patriotic signals have always rubbed me the wrong way.

                                        I think it comes from knowing a bunch of religious people growing up that “went through the motions” and signaled piety - but acted very obviously against basics ethos and teachings of the religion when there wasn’t a “prescribed motion” available.

                                        I feel very strong about the role of civics in society - but not a huge fan of signaling piety, patriotism, virtue through rituals.

                                        It's not a "patriotic signal". Its a matter of respect. The national anthem and our flag stand because tens of thousands of men and women left their families and sacrificed their lives so that we would continue to enjoy the rights and freedoms we enjoy. All you've been asked to do is honor their memory for a couple of minutes as a show of respect. Where I come from, people are very polite. But if you don't stand for the national anthem, if you don't stand for the pledge to our flag, someone will likely politely kick your ass.

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                                          Also, if I'm in another cou try and am somewhere where that cou Grey's national anthem is played or their flag is being paid respect to, I'm going to show my respect in the same way the citizens do. Thats because they too are honoring those who sacrificed themselves for the good of their nation. If i am so self righteous and self centered that i cant be bothered with showing that respect, i deser e to get my ass kicked out of their country. Likewise, anyone too self centered to be bothered with showing respect for our flag or national anthem can get the hell out from here as well.

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