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  • CopperC Copper

    @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

    Also read that they are disproportionately obtained by black women.

    So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

    I'm guessing more black women will simply keep their pants on

    No more single moms struggling to get by

    No more broken families

    No more deadbeat dads

    More dignity and self sufficiency

    This will usher in the golden age of not-aborted black people

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    @Copper said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

    I'm guessing more black women will simply keep their pants on

    No more single moms struggling to get by

    No more broken families

    No more deadbeat dads

    More dignity and self sufficiency

    This will usher in the golden age of not-aborted black people

    Half-full today. Good on ya, @copper!

    "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

    The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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    • George KG George K

      @Copper said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

      I'm guessing more black women will simply keep their pants on

      No more single moms struggling to get by

      No more broken families

      No more deadbeat dads

      More dignity and self sufficiency

      This will usher in the golden age of not-aborted black people

      Half-full today. Good on ya, @copper!

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      @George-K said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

      @Copper said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

      I'm guessing more black women will simply keep their pants on

      No more single moms struggling to get by

      No more broken families

      No more deadbeat dads

      More dignity and self sufficiency

      This will usher in the golden age of not-aborted black people

      Half-full today. Good on ya, @copper!

      Half full of what, though?

      I was only joking

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        jon-nyc
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        #30

        Someone once wrote that, at first approximation, middle+ class use birth control, working class use abortion, and the poor use the crib.

        "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
        -Cormac McCarthy

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        • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

          Someone once wrote that, at first approximation, middle+ class use birth control, working class use abortion, and the poor use the crib.

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          @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

          Someone once wrote that, at first approximation, middle+ class use birth control, working class use abortion, and the poor use the crib.

          Gasp, nobody uses abstinence!?

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            When we went through IVF I'm not sure if freezing was an option.

            IVF was still kind of new.

            And for what we paid, I used to tell them that my name should be over the door.

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              Wasnt it Freaknomics that had something like:

              "Decrease in crime can be related to increase in abortion, because more abortions were done by people in poorer areas?"

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              • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                @89th imagine if they had to do one at a time to avoid creating one that later would not be implanted.

                Sounds like it would be a lot of sessions in many cases and even less affordable.

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                @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                @89th imagine if they had to do one at a time to avoid creating one that later would not be implanted.

                Sounds like it would be a lot of sessions in many cases and even less affordable.

                What you're referencing is called the "retrieval" part of the process, basically. It usually ends up with the woman providing a number of eggs (usually between 5-20, IIRC) to which the male's sperm is then exposed in a lab environment, resulting in a number of fertilized zygotes which then become blastocysts/embryos (of which usually half show a mitosis strong enough to be considered a candidate for IVF transfer).

                To keep it simple, the process basically goes like this:

                • Retrieve 20 eggs
                • 10 are fertilized
                • 5 become "transfer-worthy" embryos
                • IVF has about a 30% success rate, so usually 2-4 IVF rounds are needed

                Depending on where you go, off the top of my head the retrieval/fertilization part is like $10k, and each IVF round is like $5k.

                So yes, trying to start and end that whole process with just 1 embryo is nearly impractical. Not to mention the cost for the services, the HUNDREDS of doctor visits involved (we probably had 200-300 visits over 24 months before we had our first kid, no joke), the numerous daily shots you have to give the woman, and the emotional stress of the whole thing.

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                  It seems like it will close that option for many families. Even if you can afford to go out of state for it, it just isn’t practical given the number of visits unless you live close to the border.

                  Like St Louis folks can go to IL but the Kansas City folks will probably have no options.

                  "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                  -Cormac McCarthy

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                    #36

                    People can move here and have it all covered by national health insurance

                    https://www.health.gov.il/English/Topics/fertility/Pages/ivf.aspx

                    IVF IN ISRAEL.
                    The country has the highest IVF rate per capita worldwide.

                    Where Families Are Prized, Help Is Free
                    https://www.nytimes.com/2011/07/18/world/middleeast/18israel.html

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                    • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                      I’ve seen estimates that the number of abortions will decrease only by about 10-15% since abortion is more common in states that are abortion friendly.

                      Also read that they are disproportionately obtained by black women.

                      So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

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                      @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                      I’ve seen estimates that the number of abortions will decrease only by about 10-15% since abortion is more common in states that are abortion friendly.

                      Also read that they are disproportionately obtained by black women.

                      So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

                      Interesting side note... I've seen where if there were no abortion, the percentage of black people in America would be doubled.

                      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                      • MikM Mik

                        Off topic somewhat, but I would like to see a simultaneous push to expand and streamline our adoption machinery in this country. There will be a lot of babies born that are not wanted.

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                        @Mik said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                        Off topic somewhat, but I would like to see a simultaneous push to expand and streamline our adoption machinery in this country. There will be a lot of babies born that are not wanted.

                        Sidenote...IIRC, the trigger law in Texas contains $100M for pregnancy assistance, including adoption, in the event of R v W overturn.

                        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                          Standard IVF practice usually fertilize more eggs than will be implanted into a womb, so if the law defines “life begins at conception” and “conception” is synonymous to “fertilization,” then wouldn’t the standard IVF practice be “premeditated murder” — creating more “lives” than the practitioners know well ahead of time that some will be “die” because a greater-than-zero number of these “lives” will never be implanted?

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                          • JollyJ Jolly

                            @Mik said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                            Off topic somewhat, but I would like to see a simultaneous push to expand and streamline our adoption machinery in this country. There will be a lot of babies born that are not wanted.

                            Sidenote...IIRC, the trigger law in Texas contains $100M for pregnancy assistance, including adoption, in the event of R v W overturn.

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                            @Jolly said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                            @Mik said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                            Off topic somewhat, but I would like to see a simultaneous push to expand and streamline our adoption machinery in this country. There will be a lot of babies born that are not wanted.

                            Sidenote...IIRC, the trigger law in Texas contains $100M for pregnancy assistance, including adoption, in the event of R v W overturn.

                            There were 55,000 abortions in Texas in 2017. So this would amount to about $3500 per person for pregnancy assistance.

                            Compassionate conservatism at work right here, folks!

                            Please love yourself.

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                              The Texas "pregnancy assistance" money only gets released upon triggering by SCOTUS' ruling on Roe v. Wade? Is "pregnancy assistance" not a good idea before SCOTUS rules on Roe v. Wade?

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                                The Texas "pregnancy assistance" money only gets released upon triggering by SCOTUS' ruling on Roe v. Wade? Is "pregnancy assistance" not a good idea before SCOTUS rules on Roe v. Wade?

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                                @Axtremus said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                                The Texas "pregnancy assistance" money only gets released upon triggering by SCOTUS' ruling on Roe v. Wade? Is "pregnancy assistance" not a good idea before SCOTUS rules on Roe v. Wade?

                                Where need is greater, assistance is greater. That’s how compassion works.

                                Education is extremely important.

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                                  There is no such fund in the Texas trigger law

                                  "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                                  -Cormac McCarthy

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                                    @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                                    I’ve seen estimates that the number of abortions will decrease only by about 10-15% since abortion is more common in states that are abortion friendly.

                                    Also read that they are disproportionately obtained by black women.

                                    So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

                                    Interesting side note... I've seen where if there were no abortion, the percentage of black people in America would be doubled.

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                                    @Jolly said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                                    Interesting side note... I've seen where if there were no abortion, the percentage of black people in America would be doubled.

                                    Democrats hate black people. They like the votes, but they really hate the people.

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                                    • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                                      There is no such fund in the Texas trigger law

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                                      @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                                      There is no such fund in the Texas trigger law

                                      Sorry, I said IIRC. In actuality, they're already spending it...

                                      https://www.lifenews.com/2021/09/01/texas-spends-100-million-to-help-pregnant-moms-while-it-protects-babies-from-abortion/

                                      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                      • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                                        Someone once wrote that, at first approximation, middle+ class use birth control, working class use abortion, and the poor use the crib.

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                                        @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                                        Someone once wrote that, at first approximation, middle+ class use birth control, working class use abortion, and the poor use the crib.

                                        (I don’t think her conclusion follows but I’m posting for the stats)

                                        "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                                        -Cormac McCarthy

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                                          So, babies are killed for convenience and money.

                                          Got it.

                                          “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                          Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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