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  • MikM Mik

    @axtremus said in Vaccination etiquette question:

    @mik said in Vaccination etiquette question:

    Why in God's name would I allow a relatively disinterested party to make that decision?

    Because you make use of that party’s property, they get to make the rule. Your decision is whether you want to make use of that party’s property. If you want complete control, host it on your own property.

    Not nuanced. Not helpful, but not nuanced.

    Doctor PhibesD Online
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    Doctor Phibes
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    @mik said in Vaccination etiquette question:

    Not nuanced. Not helpful, but not nuanced.

    Competing t-shirts.

    I was only joking

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    • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

      @mik said in Vaccination etiquette question:

      Not nuanced. Not helpful, but not nuanced.

      Competing t-shirts.

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      Mik
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      #21

      @doctor-phibes said in Vaccination etiquette question:

      @mik said in Vaccination etiquette question:

      Not nuanced. Not helpful, but not nuanced.

      Competing t-shirts.

      We are missing a great opportunity.

      “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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      • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad

        You’re right in making it a group decision. And @jodi brought up an important point about this being an at this time decision.Things may look very different in just a few weeks.

        I do wonder though about some people’s anger and fear though.

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        Doctor Phibes
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        @lufins-dad said in Vaccination etiquette question:

        I do wonder though about some people’s anger and fear though.

        There's plenty of anger and fear on both sides. If you read the kind of rubbish some (but not all) anti-vaccers come out with, and have been coming out with, it gets pretty scary.

        First - the disease isn't all that serious. I know this guy who knows somebody who had it and he's actually healthier now. It's nothing. The nurses were all partying in the hospitals because they had nothing to do once they were locked down (I actually saw that claim about a year ago, with an accompanying video). More people are dying from the vaccination than from the disease.

        I think getting angry with this kind of rubbish is a perfectly reasonable reaction.

        I was only joking

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          Renauda
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          No, not at this time.

          Elbows up!

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          • MikM Offline
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            Mik
            wrote on last edited by Mik
            #24

            The anger seems to be coming from both sides. I know several people who ridicule the vaccinated as sheep/lemmings/drones. The one who first brought it up is particularly derisive on the subject. But she lives in Texas and won't be coming anyway, so I suppose she just brought it up to get on her high horse. She has a lot of health problems, so I hope the horse doesn't kill her.

            But yeah, at this time is important to remember.

            “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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            • MikM Mik

              The anger seems to be coming from both sides. I know several people who ridicule the vaccinated as sheep/lemmings/drones. The one who first brought it up is particularly derisive on the subject. But she lives in Texas and won't be coming anyway, so I suppose she just brought it up to get on her high horse. She has a lot of health problems, so I hope the horse doesn't kill her.

              But yeah, at this time is important to remember.

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              Aqua Letifer
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              @mik said in Vaccination etiquette question:

              I know several people who ridicule the vaccinated as sheep/lemmings/drones. The one who first brought it up is particularly derisive on the subject.

              Can you just disinvite that person on account of being an insufferable ass?

              Please love yourself.

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                Copper
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                #26

                If you are willing to go if everyone in the group is vaccinated, you are saying that you trust the vaccine to protect you.

                If you then say that you will not go with unvaccinated people then you are saying you do not trust the vaccine.

                Trust it or don't trust it.

                The logic fails if you don't.

                If you base the decision on an assumption that the vaccine helps, but isn't perfect, then at what point does it become an acceptable risk? Without real numbers (which don't exist) the decision is purely emotional.

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                • CopperC Copper

                  If you are willing to go if everyone in the group is vaccinated, you are saying that you trust the vaccine to protect you.

                  If you then say that you will not go with unvaccinated people then you are saying you do not trust the vaccine.

                  Trust it or don't trust it.

                  The logic fails if you don't.

                  If you base the decision on an assumption that the vaccine helps, but isn't perfect, then at what point does it become an acceptable risk? Without real numbers (which don't exist) the decision is purely emotional.

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                  @copper I like your logic. But there's another factor. Meeting with vaccinated people vs. non-vaccinated alters the degree of desire he's experiencing to see the people. Maybe he's playing the odds -- taking a chance that having the vaccine on board lessens his likelihood of getting sick enough that he's willing to risk it.

                  Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

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                  • MikM Mik

                    The anger seems to be coming from both sides. I know several people who ridicule the vaccinated as sheep/lemmings/drones. The one who first brought it up is particularly derisive on the subject. But she lives in Texas and won't be coming anyway, so I suppose she just brought it up to get on her high horse. She has a lot of health problems, so I hope the horse doesn't kill her.

                    But yeah, at this time is important to remember.

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                    Doctor Phibes
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                    #28

                    @mik said in Vaccination etiquette question:

                    I know several people who ridicule the vaccinated as sheep/lemmings/drones.

                    At the risk of being Ax, you could point out that lemmings have been completely unfairly represented in the media for decades based on a very bad wildlife documentary, and drones are used to bomb the shit out of bad people by 'murrica! You can say what you like about sheep of course, but if you want to keep it clean, mention that Jesus was called the lamb of God.

                    I was only joking

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                      Loki
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                      #29

                      Reading this thread I see why the GOP is losing the collar counties on big cities.

                      Suburban GOP voters are going bye bye.

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                      • L Loki

                        Reading this thread I see why the GOP is losing the collar counties on big cities.

                        Suburban GOP voters are going bye bye.

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                        @loki said in Vaccination etiquette question:

                        Reading this thread I see why the GOP is losing the collar counties on big cities.

                        Suburban GOP voters are going bye bye.

                        🙄

                        The Brad

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                        • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad

                          @loki said in Vaccination etiquette question:

                          Reading this thread I see why the GOP is losing the collar counties on big cities.

                          Suburban GOP voters are going bye bye.

                          🙄

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                          @lufins-dad said in Vaccination etiquette question:

                          @loki said in Vaccination etiquette question:

                          Reading this thread I see why the GOP is losing the collar counties on big cities.

                          Suburban GOP voters are going bye bye.

                          🙄

                          Check out the latest Gallup poll on party identification. It has a long track record.

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                            LuFins Dad
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                            @Loki

                            Have you missed the part where Copper is a retired white collar worker that lived in the burbs before retiring? Have you missed the fact that he has been vaccinated?

                            Have you missed the part where Horace is a white collar worker living in an extremely urban area?

                            Have you missed the part where I would generally be considered white collar, live in the burbs, and am planning on being vaccinated as well?

                            The Brad

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                              Doctor Phibes
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                              #33

                              Well, that's three of you against the massed ranks of something-or-other.

                              Galluping towards liberalism!

                              I was only joking

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                                Jolly
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                                No brainer.

                                Let the group vote. If they vote for everybody to attend, insist on some basic infection control stuff...

                                1. Temp checks at the door.
                                2. Social distancing, as much as possible.
                                3. No buffet.
                                4. Masking, as much as possible.
                                5. Frequent hand sanitization.

                                At this time next year, there exists a likelihood one of your class will be dead. How bad do y'all want to see each other?

                                “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad

                                  @Loki

                                  Have you missed the part where Copper is a retired white collar worker that lived in the burbs before retiring? Have you missed the fact that he has been vaccinated?

                                  Have you missed the part where Horace is a white collar worker living in an extremely urban area?

                                  Have you missed the part where I would generally be considered white collar, live in the burbs, and am planning on being vaccinated as well?

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                                  Loki
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                                  @lufins-dad said in Vaccination etiquette question:

                                  @Loki

                                  Have you missed the part where Copper is a retired white collar worker that lived in the burbs before retiring? Have you missed the fact that he has been vaccinated?

                                  Have you missed the part where Horace is a white collar worker living in an extremely urban area?

                                  Have you missed the part where I would generally be considered white collar, live in the burbs, and am planning on being vaccinated as well?

                                  I see your point now. I wasn’t accusing anyone on this thread of such. I was saying that the party messaging on many topics is so out of touch it is being reflected in voting patterns and now even party identification.

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                                  • L Loki

                                    @lufins-dad said in Vaccination etiquette question:

                                    @Loki

                                    Have you missed the part where Copper is a retired white collar worker that lived in the burbs before retiring? Have you missed the fact that he has been vaccinated?

                                    Have you missed the part where Horace is a white collar worker living in an extremely urban area?

                                    Have you missed the part where I would generally be considered white collar, live in the burbs, and am planning on being vaccinated as well?

                                    I see your point now. I wasn’t accusing anyone on this thread of such. I was saying that the party messaging on many topics is so out of touch it is being reflected in voting patterns and now even party identification.

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                                    Jolly
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                                    @loki Right now, I see very little masking in the rural areas and not much more in the city. Older folks do mask more, younger people almost none at all.

                                    Either through infection, vaccination or just plain don't give a damn, people have voted with their feet to get on with life. They look at the numbers between open states and more restrictive states, and don't see the numbers that make sense to continue extraordinary measures.

                                    “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                    Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                    • JollyJ Jolly

                                      @loki Right now, I see very little masking in the rural areas and not much more in the city. Older folks do mask more, younger people almost none at all.

                                      Either through infection, vaccination or just plain don't give a damn, people have voted with their feet to get on with life. They look at the numbers between open states and more restrictive states, and don't see the numbers that make sense to continue extraordinary measures.

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                                      Aqua Letifer
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                                      @jolly said in Vaccination etiquette question:

                                      They look at the numbers between open states and more restrictive states, and don't see the numbers that make sense to continue extraordinary measures.

                                      There are different "they"s. Some areas have more thoughtful communities than others.

                                      Please love yourself.

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                                      • Aqua LetiferA Aqua Letifer

                                        @jolly said in Vaccination etiquette question:

                                        They look at the numbers between open states and more restrictive states, and don't see the numbers that make sense to continue extraordinary measures.

                                        There are different "they"s. Some areas have more thoughtful communities than others.

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                                        Jolly
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                                        @aqua-letifer said in Vaccination etiquette question:

                                        @jolly said in Vaccination etiquette question:

                                        They look at the numbers between open states and more restrictive states, and don't see the numbers that make sense to continue extraordinary measures.

                                        There are different "they"s. Some areas have more thoughtful communities than others.

                                        Good. You live in the most thoughtful community of assholes in the world.😛

                                        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                        • Doctor PhibesD Online
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                                          Doctor Phibes
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                                          #39

                                          You still see lots of masks here. Nobody goes into the supermarket without a mask on, and people wear them outside, which I generally don't bother with unless I'm likely to meet other people - the number of people around here who actually walk anywhere is vanishingly small (in numbers, not stature), so it typically isn't an issue.

                                          I was only joking

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