"I gave my dad a choice"
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@George-K said in "I gave my dad a choice":
@Aqua-Letifer said in "I gave my dad a choice":
@George-K said in "I gave my dad a choice":
@Aqua-Letifer said in "I gave my dad a choice":
they don't hate me for my white maleness
True, dat.
There are so many other reasons to hate you.
Right?? Like, things I'm actually guilty of, things I should actually be ashamed about!
"Should" but "aren't," amirite?
Really I'm not. At all.
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Something tells me the dad’s not too upset about this dick not visiting.
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@Friday said in "I gave my dad a choice":
But in his mind he is being a good father because he is protecting them from their grandfather's crazy.
Yeah, that's the problem. That's how it happens.
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@Horace said in "I gave my dad a choice":
Yes it’s why I believe righteousness becomes the most important human failing after laws and mores get rid of the more obviously selfish failings through legal punishment and shame.
I don't think it's just that. I think Peterson is right in that we literally see different realities from one another. There's considerable overlap but there are things people see that others don't. In other words, none of us is completely exempt from being delusional. That's why some things can't even be explained to others, let alone seen. It's a far deeper problem than righteousness.
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@Aqua-Letifer said in "I gave my dad a choice":
@Horace said in "I gave my dad a choice":
Yes it’s why I believe righteousness becomes the most important human failing after laws and mores get rid of the more obviously selfish failings through legal punishment and shame.
I don't think it's just that. I think Peterson is right in that we literally see different realities from one another. There's considerable overlap but there are things people see that others don't. In other words, none of us is completely exempt from being delusional. That's why some things can't even be explained to others, let alone seen. It's a far deeper problem than righteousness.
This. It's like two different worlds occupying the same time and space.
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Mrs. Phibes visits a Reddit place called 'Am I the asshole?', where people tell all kinds of stories of bizarre behaviour like this, and so ask the question in the title.
Sometimes the answer is 'hell, no!' and sometimes it's 'hell, yes!'.
This sort of thing isn't restricted to politics.
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@Doctor-Phibes said in "I gave my dad a choice":
Mrs. Phibes visits a Reddit place called 'Am I the asshole?',
Sounds like a ton of fun.
They probably have serious discussions about loading the toilet paper roll "over" or "under."
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@George-K said in "I gave my dad a choice":
@Doctor-Phibes said in "I gave my dad a choice":
Mrs. Phibes visits a Reddit place called 'Am I the asshole?',
Sounds like a ton of fun.
They probably have serious discussions about loading the toilet paper roll "over" or "under."
There's a lot of stupid family stuff - it's a window into humanity.
https://lifehacker.com/the-greatest-stories-from-the-am-i-the-asshole-subredd-1837987235
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@George-K said in "I gave my dad a choice":
Due to the signs in the yard, the kids and I will not be down. The current occupant of the White House is preaching hate and violence, endangering the lives and safety of many of my friends. This is not acceptable to me at all. There is a complete disregard for women, minorities, science, ethics, and morality. Please consider if you support Trump that much. Because I hate him that much. I wanted to be upfront and honest about my feelings.
Calm down, bro.
Stop and think if Trump really has an impact on you or your friends/family. Most likely not at all. Stop getting sucked into the Hollywood/MSM narrative.
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Let’s try a more extreme case:
Suppose an Aryan child took a Jew for a spouse and produced half-Jewish children, and the Aryan child’s parent (the half-Jewish children’s grandparent) professes to support Adolf Hitler along with Hitler’s professed policy to exterminate all Jews, would the Aryan child be right to gave the half-Jewish children’s grandparent a choice to either supporting Hitler or never see the half-Jewish grandchildren again?
(Note the irony that Hitler’s policy will make it a reality that the Aryan grandparent will not be able to see the half-Jewish grandchildren again.)
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Yeah, I forgot about all of those Trans/Hispanic/Black/Chinese concentration camps that Trump has built. Bastard.
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@Aqua-Letifer said in "I gave my dad a choice":
@Horace said in "I gave my dad a choice":
Yes it’s why I believe righteousness becomes the most important human failing after laws and mores get rid of the more obviously selfish failings through legal punishment and shame.
I don't think it's just that. I think Peterson is right in that we literally see different realities from one another. There's considerable overlap but there are things people see that others don't. In other words, none of us is completely exempt from being delusional. That's why some things can't even be explained to others, let alone seen. It's a far deeper problem than righteousness.
I dislike the notion that certain things can be understood by some but never communicated to others. I recognize the idea from the left's playbook as they rhetorically defend all the systemic racism/oppression stuff. Sooner or later you'll hear that the experiences of the oppressed cannot be explained to a white male like you. So your choices become to shut up, know your place as an observer but not actor in the culture, or be evil, by continuing to talk about your own opinions as if they are informed.
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I thought we were already hearing that?
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Yes I mean in any given conversation with any given lefty, sooner or later that religious idea will be presented. I sometimes test my conception of reality by engaging over at WTF and am never disappointed by certain particularly zealous zealots over there.
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@Horace said in "I gave my dad a choice":
I dislike the notion that certain things can be understood by some but never communicated to others.
Well, it's not "never"; we have the capacity for abstract thought and so we can understand each other. It's just that the baseline is, sometimes we literally can't "see" what someone's talking about. So it takes a lot more work to get at understanding.
It's not that you simply have to explain things better to TDS Dad in this example. The first step is that he needs to accept the premise on a matter of total faith that a world could exist in which his response is an over-reaction. It's not that he values self-righteousness more, it's that he honestly sees his dad as some kind of detriment to his kids. That's a more fundamental problem.
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@Axtremus said in "I gave my dad a choice":
Let’s try a more extreme case:
Suppose an Aryan child took a Jew for a spouse and produced half-Jewish children, and the Aryan child’s parent (the half-Jewish children’s grandparent) professes to support Adolf Hitler along with Hitler’s professed policy to exterminate all Jews, would the Aryan child be right to gave the half-Jewish children’s grandparent a choice to either supporting Hitler or never see the half-Jewish grandchildren again?
(Note the irony that Hitler’s policy will make it a reality that the Aryan grandparent will not be able to see the half-Jewish grandchildren again.)
Good Ax.
OK, but how tall are the children, and do they like fish?