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    mark
    wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 19:14 last edited by mark
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    My mother passed away this morning. 😢

    Survived by her six children, brother and many more extended family members, she assumed the role of Matriarch when her mother died at age 102.

    She just celebrated her 89th birthday.

    Mom survived cervical cancer which was diagnosed in her 50s. The treatment, while saving her life, and giving her almost 40 years of life extension, had long term side effects that really started to rob her quality of life especially during the past 10 years. It was ultimately her undoing.

    She was a good hearted, good natured human who always had time for anyone. She had no addictions, never a smoker or a drinker.

    I will miss her terribly.

    Rest in Peace Mom. You were the best mother anyone could hope to have.

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      Copper
      wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 19:28 last edited by
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      I'm sorry to hear that Mark.

      She sounds like my mother, 6 children, similar age, cancer. It was a good life.

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        Jolly
        wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 19:29 last edited by
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        Condolences on your loss. She sounds like one of The Good People.

        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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          Horace
          wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 19:33 last edited by
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          I'm sorry to hear about your family's loss, Mark. She sounds like a good woman and a good mom.

          Education is extremely important.

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            Doctor Phibes
            wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 19:39 last edited by
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            I'm sorry Mark. It's a tough thing to deal with, but it sounds as though she lived a good life.

            I was only joking

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              Renauda
              wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 19:40 last edited by Renauda
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              Mark, my condolences to you and your family on the loss of your mother.

              Elbows up!

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                jon-nyc
                wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 20:02 last edited by
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                I’m sorry Mark.

                When my mother passed away, a former poster said to me: ‘When your mother dies, it’s like the universe changes. You adjust, but you never really get used to it.’

                Only non-witches get due process.

                • Cotton Mather, Salem Massachusetts, 1692
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                  kluurs
                  wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 20:33 last edited by
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                  Mark - I'm so sorry to hear this. My condolences to you and all whose lives she touched.

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                    George K
                    wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 20:48 last edited by
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                    I have nothing to add other than what everybody else has said.

                    Look back on her with fondness and celebrate the times you had with her. Rest in peace, dear mom.

                    "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                    The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                      xenon
                      wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 21:07 last edited by
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                      So sorry to hear that, Mark. She must have been very proud of her family.

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                        Aqua Letifer
                        wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 22:07 last edited by
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                        Ah shit, I'm sorry, Mark. I'm really glad you had such a good relationship with her; that's a wonderful gift.

                        Please love yourself.

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                          George K
                          wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 22:11 last edited by
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                          One of my surgeon friends commented, after the passing of his father, "It's really strange to become an orphan at age 50. Who am I going to ask for advice?"

                          "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                          The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                            Klaus
                            wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 22:25 last edited by
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                            I'm so sorry, Mark. Loosing a parent is just terrible. Life feels different without a mom.

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                              Axtremus
                              wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 23:38 last edited by
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                              My condolences.

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                                89th
                                wrote on 21 Jan 2025, 23:55 last edited by
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                                Very sorry to hear. She sounded like an excellent mom, and you were lucky. Condolences, friend...now she is amongst the stars you gaze at.

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                                  taiwan_girl
                                  wrote on 22 Jan 2025, 01:17 last edited by
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                                  😢

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                                    LuFins Dad
                                    wrote on 22 Jan 2025, 01:19 last edited by
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                                    Damn, damn, damn. A boy and him mom, right? I’m so sorry.

                                    The Brad

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                                      Tom-K
                                      wrote on 22 Jan 2025, 01:23 last edited by
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                                      Sorry to hear, Mark. You are a lucky guy to have had such a great Mom.

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                                        Mik
                                        wrote on 22 Jan 2025, 03:18 last edited by
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                                        That is such a tough loss Mark. I wish you comfort from your memories.

                                        “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                                          blondie
                                          wrote on 22 Jan 2025, 03:40 last edited by
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                                          I’m so sorry for your loss Mark.

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