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Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?

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  • KlausK Offline
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    Klaus
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    I think what she'll actually learn at that highschool is not of the highest importance. The environment, the people, the novelty, the inspiration - that's what counts. But I think it would still be good if it is a decent or good high school, because that correlates with many other important things.

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      She doesn't think about it on that level of detail yet. She doesn't really understand yet that there is a difference between Boston and rural bible belt.

      I think it would be nice if it would be in or close to a bigger city. A place that would be interesting to a teenager looking for inspiration.

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      @Klaus said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

      She doesn't really understand yet that there is a difference between Boston and rural bible belt.

      Jesus. 😄

      You've knocked around the States some. What part did you like (people, climate, topography, etc)?

      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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        #16

        I've been to the coasts much more than to the "inner" states, but I found likeable things basically everywhere (with the exception of Winnemucca, NV). With regard to nature, I'd say the North-West is my favorite region. I'd be happy to talk about that more, but that's not so relevant for what's a good place for my daughter.

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          LuFins is more current than me, but I thought Fairfax County, Virginia was a great place to send my daughter to high school. Large new schools with lot of programs including AP courses, sports and activities. The suburbs are safe places to live and work.

          It would also be a good place for a visitor to visit with the Capital right next door, and most of the east coast within driving range.

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          • LuFins DadL Offline
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            Is she thinking of a foreign exchange student program? How much choice is one given in those programs?

            The Brad

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              By the way, I was only joking with my earlier post. The local schools only make ~ 5% of girls into boys, so odds are she’ll be fine.

              The Brad

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                based on our experience with foreign exchange programs, the host families generally do it for the money rather than for the opportunity to give an enriching home to a young student. I would take Ax up on his offer rather than get placed with a random host family.

                Education is extremely important.

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                • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad

                  By the way, I was only joking with my earlier post. The local schools only make ~ 5% of girls into boys, so odds are she’ll be fine.

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                  @LuFins-Dad said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

                  By the way, I was only joking with my earlier post. The local schools only make ~ 5% of girls into boys, so odds are she’ll be fine.

                  LOL

                  And very generous @Axtremus

                  To answer your question, all logistics aside (location, living, language) I think it's a really great idea. If more Americans spoke German I'd say the reverse would be great, too. We see that a bit more in college here, with a semester abroad being somewhat common.

                  BTW, at 15 (or regardless of nationality), you may want to consider somehow a place that she could get to/from via electric scooter or something for daily transportation without a drivers license. That also brings weather into play... stay away from Minnesota, so she doesn't have to deal with the stupid cold as much.

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                    If your daughter is in 10th grade in a German HS, wouldnt that equal out to a second year in a Masters program here in the US?

                    I wish her the best, travel and experiencing other cultures is the best way to enjoy life.

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                      Just throwing it out here, but plenty of kids of affluent Canadians here spend part of their high school in Europe. I’d say next to zero Canadians would want to spend any high school time in the U.S., even in NYC, Boston, LA . Come to Canada! Toronto, Montreal, Vancouver, .. this would be an adventure imo.

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                        Freeze

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                        • LuFins DadL Offline
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                          I understand that in Canada it’s a solid 15% chance that your daughter will become a fine young man…

                          The Brad

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                          • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad

                            I understand that in Canada it’s a solid 15% chance that your daughter will become a fine young man…

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                            @LuFins-Dad said in Daughter wants to spend 6 months at an American highschool - thoughts?:

                            I understand that in Canada it’s a solid 15% chance that your daughter will become a fine young man…

                            Not if she attends a Catholic school in Alberta or Quebec. In any event, Canada would be a good choice as well so long as it would be in a publically funded Catholic school. Better teachers and better administered.

                            Elbows up!

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                              I can understand wanting the novelty of it, but I'd suggest a summer trip for a few weeks instead, especially if she's more interested in the culture of being an American teen. Perhaps there are programs available in a particular area of study she's interested in? I started my HS education in an excellent school in England and ended it at a fairly decent school not far from Washington, DC. The amount of (what felt like) dumbing down I came across was shocking. I came back to the US mid-9th grade. Social opportunities will be abundant. The opportunity to travel and see new things will be amazing! But the education itself will most likely be lacking.

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                                I can understand wanting the novelty of it, but I'd suggest a summer trip for a few weeks instead, especially if she's more interested in the culture of being an American teen. Perhaps there are programs available in a particular area of study she's interested in? I started my HS education in an excellent school in England and ended it at a fairly decent school not far from Washington, DC. The amount of (what felt like) dumbing down I came across was shocking. I came back to the US mid-9th grade. Social opportunities will be abundant. The opportunity to travel and see new things will be amazing! But the education itself will most likely be lacking.

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                                @LW oh hai!!!!

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                                • 89th8 89th

                                  @LW oh hai!!!!

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                                  @89th why, hai there! I keep thinking of this gang and how I miss everyone so thought I'd drop in! Maybe I'll actually check in more than once every 2 or 3 years.

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                                    Please do.

                                    “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                    Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                      How’s the little one, LW?

                                      “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                                        blondie
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                                        @LW So great you posted!

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                                          I would offer, we have great public schools and she’d have easy access to NYC. The problem is I travel 20 times a year.

                                          Only non-witches get due process.

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