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Doggie end of life decisions

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  • RenaudaR Offline
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    Renauda
    wrote on last edited by Renauda
    #73

    Sorry to learn this, Horace. Our little family experienced similar nine years ago.

    Elbows up!

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    • 89th8 Offline
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      89th
      wrote on last edited by
      #74

      Fuck, man. Absolutely shocked to hear this, and can't say how sorry I am. It does seem he was comforted in seeing you minutes before he passed, if that brings any ounce of closure. Really sorry, man.

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      • Doctor PhibesD Online
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        Doctor Phibes
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        #75

        Oh I'm sorry, Horace, that's awful. You're right, as least it was pretty quick and he didn't suffer too much. I know how difficult it is, though.

        I was only joking

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        • HoraceH Offline
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          Horace
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          #76

          Thanks all.

          Education is extremely important.

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          • CopperC Offline
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            Copper
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            #77

            RIP, good and faithful servant.

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              blondie
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              #78

              I’m sorry Horace 🙁

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              • LuFins DadL Offline
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                LuFins Dad
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                #79

                Aww geez.

                The Brad

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                  xenon
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #80

                  Oh no - so sorry to hear that, Horace.

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                    A Former User
                    wrote on last edited by A Former User
                    #81

                    Oh, no! So very, very sorry he's gone.

                    😢

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                    • jon-nycJ Offline
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                      jon-nyc
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #82

                      Wow, I wasn’t expecting this. Sorry, man.

                      Only non-witches get due process.

                      • Cotton Mather, Salem Massachusetts, 1692
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                      • JollyJ Offline
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                        Jolly
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #83

                        Well...crap.

                        Dogs teach us how to love. How to care. How to be responsible. I've heard people say they would like to be half the person their dog thinks they are.

                        And mostly, we outlive them. They die, and leave pawprints all over your heart. But they are still teaching us. They teach us how to grieve. Lastly, they teach us how to remember.

                        I'd say Horace's dog was an excellent teacher. Good dog. Good dog, indeed...

                        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                        • George KG Offline
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                          George K
                          wrote on last edited by George K
                          #84

                          I have nothing to add, Horace. Please accept our condolences on your loss.

                          You did everything you could for him, and most importantly you gave him a great, loving home and life.

                          When he meets Ollie and The Bee, ask him to say hello from us.

                          "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                          The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                          • HoraceH Offline
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                            Horace
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #85

                            Thanks all. He had a good and extraordinarily healthy life, up to the spleen thing. I think last night when he lagged behind in his walk, was the first walk I'd taken him on after his surgery where he wasn't pulling and leading. His life force was ebbing. Over the past week he'd been dry heaving a few times a day, but I didn't think much of it. I didn't even know he was fighting, but this morning he stopped fighting. He was a pretty tough guy. I don't know what a vet might guess as to cause of death. He still had a decent appetite last night. I was worried after the walk and gave him a big bowl of milk, which he lapped up excitedly. His timeline coincides with the expectation if the spleen was cancerous. I wonder if a biopsy is an exact science.

                            Education is extremely important.

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                            • taiwan_girlT Offline
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                              Wow. So sorry @Hoarace. 😢

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                              • taiwan_girlT taiwan_girl

                                Wow. So sorry @Hoarace. 😢

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                                Horace
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #87

                                @taiwan_girl said in Doggie end of life decisions:

                                Wow. So sorry @Hoarace. 😢

                                Thanks TG.

                                Education is extremely important.

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                                  cathys
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                                  #88

                                  So sorry for your loss Horace 😞

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                                  • HoraceH Offline
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                                    Horace
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #89

                                    Thanks Cathy. As I mull it over, my best guess is that the biopsy was a false negative. Or if it was a true negative, then he happened to have other cancers anyway. When the surgeon removed his spleen, he was going to euthanize if he found cancers on other organs. He did find small bumps on the liver, but they were small enough that he just cut them off.

                                    I don't know how much real hope there ever was. I suspect the 30% chance of being cancer-free was wishful.

                                    Education is extremely important.

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