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More bad stuff making me think

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  • Doctor PhibesD Online
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    Doctor Phibes
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    A woman I've known at work for 20 years had some fairly major health issues - a few years back she'd had a stroke, and seemed to be recovered. Then this year she went out on extended leave, we weren't told anything, which is normally how it goes nowadays.

    She came back in last Thursday after a few months, and I was chatting to her for a fair amount of time - she'd had a mechanical valve fitted after open heart surgery. I was aiming to help her with the office move as she was clearly not up to anything physical, but she seemed quite optimistic.

    This morning we got the email that she'd passed over the weekend. She can't have been more than about 60. Her daughter was the same age as mine.

    This sucks.

    I was only joking

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      Ah, man. ๐Ÿ˜ž Sorry to hear, Phibes.

      How is her family doing?

      Please love yourself.

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        Sorry.

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        • MikM Offline
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          Mik
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          Makes one think about that most precious resource.

          โ€œI am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.โ€ ~Winston S. Churchill

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          • jon-nycJ Online
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            jon-nyc
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            Indeed.

            "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
            -Cormac McCarthy

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            • Aqua LetiferA Aqua Letifer

              Ah, man. ๐Ÿ˜ž Sorry to hear, Phibes.

              How is her family doing?

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              Doctor Phibes
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              @Aqua-Letifer said in More bad stuff making me think:

              Ah, man. ๐Ÿ˜ž Sorry to hear, Phibes.

              How is her family doing?

              I don't know - we often don't hear about that stuff. I think she had a good circle of friends and belonged to a church, so hopefully there'll be a support network for them. We're waiting to hear details, we just got a short announcement.

              I was only joking

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                I have a real tough time dealing with such things as well. After my heart attack and stroke, well, one can't help but to try not to think of it all. Just keep in mind, my mom lived in reasonably good health until age 101, and that was after surviving cancer, heart issues, etc. You just never really know, I guess.

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                  George K
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                  How sad. Makes you realize how fragile we are, if not at first, then ultimately.

                  I wonder if her issue was a delayed problem the the valve replacement.

                  "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                  The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                    RIP.

                    Education is extremely important.

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                      Wow. Sorry to hear for her. ๐Ÿ˜ž

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                        No man knows at what time his soul will be required of him...

                        โ€œCry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!โ€

                        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terroristsโ€™ "due process". โ€” Buck Sexton

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