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The digital tip jar

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  • MikM Away
    MikM Away
    Mik
    wrote on last edited by
    #47

    As I’ve said many times, I love to give a big tip 25-35%. It means I had great food and service, what I came in for. On the other hand, I’m not hesitant to leave any other amount I think is justified, from 0 to 20%. It really depends on the server. Do the minimum? Get the minimum.

    But you have to be fair, and consider the circumstances the server is working in. Don’t blame them for things beyond their control.

    “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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    • MikM Away
      MikM Away
      Mik
      wrote on last edited by
      #48

      Oh, also? If you just drink water, be sure to tip as if you had a soft drink or tea. They still have to do the same work.

      “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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      • MikM Mik

        Oh, also? If you just drink water, be sure to tip as if you had a soft drink or tea. They still have to do the same work.

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        LuFins Dad
        wrote on last edited by
        #49

        @Mik said in The digital tip jar:

        Oh, also? If you just drink water, be sure to tip as if you had a soft drink or tea. They still have to do the same work.

        And if I had a beer? Still the same work…

        I don’t mind tipping, I do mind how the goalposts keep moving. I also mind the sneaky new service charges with tip then added on top… I also don’t care for the shift in attitude from tips being gratefully accepted to tips being resentfully expected.

        The Brad

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        • MikM Mik

          As I’ve said many times, I love to give a big tip 25-35%. It means I had great food and service, what I came in for. On the other hand, I’m not hesitant to leave any other amount I think is justified, from 0 to 20%. It really depends on the server. Do the minimum? Get the minimum.

          But you have to be fair, and consider the circumstances the server is working in. Don’t blame them for things beyond their control.

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          George K
          wrote on last edited by
          #50

          @Mik said in The digital tip jar:

          Do the minimum? Get the minimum.

          What, in your opinion, is the minimum?

          Bring menu (sometimes), take order, deliver food, deliver check. That about it?

          "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

          The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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          • MikM Away
            MikM Away
            Mik
            wrote on last edited by
            #51

            It’s like porn. I know it when I see it. Minimum is more an attitude than an action.

            And I agree with you on the shifting goalposts. For instance, if I have to stand in line to order my food? No tip, or small (10%) if it was good service for the environment. To go? I agree with Kluurs. They have to do nearly as much as for tableside service so I tip there but more inclined to b 15%.

            “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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            • MikM Mik

              It’s like porn. I know it when I see it. Minimum is more an attitude than an action.

              And I agree with you on the shifting goalposts. For instance, if I have to stand in line to order my food? No tip, or small (10%) if it was good service for the environment. To go? I agree with Kluurs. They have to do nearly as much as for tableside service so I tip there but more inclined to b 15%.

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              George K
              wrote on last edited by
              #52

              @Mik said in The digital tip jar:

              They have to do nearly as much as for tableside service so I tip there but more inclined to b 15%.

              Agreed. I usually end up going just a bit more. However....

              The work involved in delivering a $65 order is about the same as delivering a $30 order. Pick up, drive, drop off.

              "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

              The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

              Aqua LetiferA 1 Reply Last reply
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                Copper
                wrote on last edited by Copper
                #53

                How much did you tip these guys?

                And how did that work out?

                70ad55be-62a4-4090-8e7e-2223d9a81190-image.png

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                • CopperC Copper

                  How much did you tip these guys?

                  And how did that work out?

                  70ad55be-62a4-4090-8e7e-2223d9a81190-image.png

                  Aqua LetiferA Offline
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                  Aqua Letifer
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #54

                  @Copper said in The digital tip jar:

                  How much did you tip these guys?

                  And how did that work out?

                  70ad55be-62a4-4090-8e7e-2223d9a81190-image.png

                  Who spit in your soup, man?

                  Please love yourself.

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                  • George KG George K

                    @Mik said in The digital tip jar:

                    They have to do nearly as much as for tableside service so I tip there but more inclined to b 15%.

                    Agreed. I usually end up going just a bit more. However....

                    The work involved in delivering a $65 order is about the same as delivering a $30 order. Pick up, drive, drop off.

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                    Aqua Letifer
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #55

                    @George-K said in The digital tip jar:

                    The work involved in delivering a $65 order is about the same as delivering a $30 order. Pick up, drive, drop off.

                    Uh, no, that entirely depends.

                    Please love yourself.

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                    • Aqua LetiferA Aqua Letifer

                      @George-K said in The digital tip jar:

                      The work involved in delivering a $65 order is about the same as delivering a $30 order. Pick up, drive, drop off.

                      Uh, no, that entirely depends.

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                      George K
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #56

                      @Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:

                      Uh, no, that entirely depends.

                      'Splain, please?

                      "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                      The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

                      Aqua LetiferA 1 Reply Last reply
                      • George KG George K

                        @Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:

                        Uh, no, that entirely depends.

                        'Splain, please?

                        Aqua LetiferA Offline
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                        Aqua Letifer
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #57

                        @George-K said in The digital tip jar:

                        @Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:

                        Uh, no, that entirely depends.

                        'Splain, please?

                        Third-party delivery drivers? Yeah, there's probably nothing to that. Direct hires are very, very different.

                        Please love yourself.

                        George KG 1 Reply Last reply
                        • Aqua LetiferA Aqua Letifer

                          @George-K said in The digital tip jar:

                          @Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:

                          Uh, no, that entirely depends.

                          'Splain, please?

                          Third-party delivery drivers? Yeah, there's probably nothing to that. Direct hires are very, very different.

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                          George K
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #58

                          @Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:

                          Third-party delivery drivers? Yeah, there's probably nothing to that. Direct hires are very, very different.

                          That's what I was talking about - Doordash, Grubhub, etc.

                          "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                          The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                            George K
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #59

                            https://www.reddit.com/r/mississauga/comments/12nde8d/tipping_no_words/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

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                            "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                            The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                            • George KG George K

                              https://www.reddit.com/r/mississauga/comments/12nde8d/tipping_no_words/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

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                              MikM Away
                              MikM Away
                              Mik
                              wrote on last edited by
                              #60

                              @George-K that shit’s what custom tip is for - 0

                              Sitting at O’Hare right now.

                              “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                                taiwan_girl
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #61

                                Eliminate tips. LOL I have made my feeling known before, but almost any job can be considered a "service" job. Pay the workers a decent regular wage and eliminate tips. 🙂

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                                • taiwan_girlT taiwan_girl

                                  Eliminate tips. LOL I have made my feeling known before, but almost any job can be considered a "service" job. Pay the workers a decent regular wage and eliminate tips. 🙂

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                                  Aqua Letifer
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #62

                                  @taiwan_girl said in The digital tip jar:

                                  Eliminate tips. LOL I have made my feeling known before, but almost any job can be considered a "service" job. Pay the workers a decent regular wage and eliminate tips. 🙂

                                  When the vast majority of those very same workers would adamantly disagree with you, I don't think you have much of a case.

                                  Please love yourself.

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                                    Jolly
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #63

                                    Thing is, 10% used to be an ok tip. Not anymore.

                                    What happened?

                                    “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                    Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                    • Aqua LetiferA Aqua Letifer

                                      @taiwan_girl said in The digital tip jar:

                                      Eliminate tips. LOL I have made my feeling known before, but almost any job can be considered a "service" job. Pay the workers a decent regular wage and eliminate tips. 🙂

                                      When the vast majority of those very same workers would adamantly disagree with you, I don't think you have much of a case.

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                                      taiwan_girl
                                      wrote on last edited by
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                                      @Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:

                                      @taiwan_girl said in The digital tip jar:

                                      Eliminate tips. LOL I have made my feeling known before, but almost any job can be considered a "service" job. Pay the workers a decent regular wage and eliminate tips. 🙂

                                      When the vast majority of those very same workers would adamantly disagree with you, I don't think you have much of a case.

                                      Then there is something wrong with the system in the US. 🙂

                                      If a waiter or someone like that does their job extraordinary well, it is not the customers responsibility to pay them for doing that.

                                      If @George-K or @Jolly or @bachophile do a great job in the operating room on me, should I "slip" them some money in recognition?

                                      I take my car in for service, and since it will be couple hours, the technician offers to take the time to drive me home and pick me up when the car is ready? Hmm, going above his job. Tip?

                                      Anyway, i think we have to agree to disagree. :woman-heart-man:

                                      I just dont understand how jobs that rely on tips are so different than other jobs in the workforce.

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                                      • taiwan_girlT taiwan_girl

                                        @Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:

                                        @taiwan_girl said in The digital tip jar:

                                        Eliminate tips. LOL I have made my feeling known before, but almost any job can be considered a "service" job. Pay the workers a decent regular wage and eliminate tips. 🙂

                                        When the vast majority of those very same workers would adamantly disagree with you, I don't think you have much of a case.

                                        Then there is something wrong with the system in the US. 🙂

                                        If a waiter or someone like that does their job extraordinary well, it is not the customers responsibility to pay them for doing that.

                                        If @George-K or @Jolly or @bachophile do a great job in the operating room on me, should I "slip" them some money in recognition?

                                        I take my car in for service, and since it will be couple hours, the technician offers to take the time to drive me home and pick me up when the car is ready? Hmm, going above his job. Tip?

                                        Anyway, i think we have to agree to disagree. :woman-heart-man:

                                        I just dont understand how jobs that rely on tips are so different than other jobs in the workforce.

                                        Aqua LetiferA Offline
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                                        Aqua Letifer
                                        wrote on last edited by
                                        #65

                                        @taiwan_girl said in The digital tip jar:

                                        @Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:

                                        @taiwan_girl said in The digital tip jar:

                                        Eliminate tips. LOL I have made my feeling known before, but almost any job can be considered a "service" job. Pay the workers a decent regular wage and eliminate tips. 🙂

                                        When the vast majority of those very same workers would adamantly disagree with you, I don't think you have much of a case.

                                        Then there is something wrong with the system in the US. 🙂

                                        Yeah it's everyone else. Not you. Literally everyone else. When it's their job, not yours.

                                        Please love yourself.

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                                        • taiwan_girlT taiwan_girl

                                          @Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:

                                          @taiwan_girl said in The digital tip jar:

                                          Eliminate tips. LOL I have made my feeling known before, but almost any job can be considered a "service" job. Pay the workers a decent regular wage and eliminate tips. 🙂

                                          When the vast majority of those very same workers would adamantly disagree with you, I don't think you have much of a case.

                                          Then there is something wrong with the system in the US. 🙂

                                          If a waiter or someone like that does their job extraordinary well, it is not the customers responsibility to pay them for doing that.

                                          If @George-K or @Jolly or @bachophile do a great job in the operating room on me, should I "slip" them some money in recognition?

                                          I take my car in for service, and since it will be couple hours, the technician offers to take the time to drive me home and pick me up when the car is ready? Hmm, going above his job. Tip?

                                          Anyway, i think we have to agree to disagree. :woman-heart-man:

                                          I just dont understand how jobs that rely on tips are so different than other jobs in the workforce.

                                          Aqua LetiferA Offline
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                                          Aqua Letifer
                                          wrote on last edited by
                                          #66

                                          @taiwan_girl said in The digital tip jar:

                                          I just dont understand how jobs that rely on tips are so different than other jobs in the workforce.

                                          That's because you've never done it here.

                                          Please love yourself.

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