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    mark
    wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 14:16 last edited by
    #5

    About sums it up.

    Tribalism, cults of personality, ignorance, fear, and hate, will be our downfall.

    We are capable of so much better.

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    • J Jolly
      18 Aug 2022, 14:15

      Don't sweat the small stuff.

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      George K
      wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 14:17 last edited by
      #6

      @Jolly said in This resonated with me.:

      Don't sweat the small stuff.

      Don't sweat the petty things.

      And don't pet the sweaty things.

      "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

      The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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        Jolly
        wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 14:17 last edited by
        #7

        Something I've told my crew many times:

        What's the worst that can happen? They kill us, cook us and eat us. And that probably isn't going to happen.

        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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        • G George K
          18 Aug 2022, 14:17

          @Jolly said in This resonated with me.:

          Don't sweat the small stuff.

          Don't sweat the petty things.

          And don't pet the sweaty things.

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          Jolly
          wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 14:18 last edited by
          #8

          @George-K said in This resonated with me.:

          @Jolly said in This resonated with me.:

          Don't sweat the small stuff.

          Don't sweat the petty things.

          And don't pet the sweaty things.

          You better pet the sweaty things occasionally or you may never ride them again.

          Oh, and don't put them up wet...

          “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

          Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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          • M Mik
            18 Aug 2022, 14:11

            Especially the part about trivialities.

            Although I had to look up Bukowski to make sure he wasn't a serial killer.

            alt text

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            LuFins Dad
            wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 16:18 last edited by
            #9

            @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

            Especially the part about trivialities.

            Although I had to look up Bukowski to make sure he wasn't a serial killer.

            alt text

            Why? I fail to see the connection. We all breathe air, therefore we should all love each other? Why not hate each other? It's no less valid a philosophy than love...

            Don't get me wrong, I'm all for loving my fellow man, but not simply because we're all going to die. That's no justification in my mind.

            The Brad

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              Mik
              wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 16:40 last edited by
              #10

              Ax, how did you hack Lufin???

              "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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              • M Mik
                18 Aug 2022, 16:40

                Ax, how did you hack Lufin???

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                LuFins Dad
                wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 16:47 last edited by
                #11

                @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                Ax, how did you hack Lufin???

                I did think “Wow, this sounds pretty much like Ax” when I wrote it…

                The Brad

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                • L LuFins Dad
                  18 Aug 2022, 16:18

                  @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                  Especially the part about trivialities.

                  Although I had to look up Bukowski to make sure he wasn't a serial killer.

                  alt text

                  Why? I fail to see the connection. We all breathe air, therefore we should all love each other? Why not hate each other? It's no less valid a philosophy than love...

                  Don't get me wrong, I'm all for loving my fellow man, but not simply because we're all going to die. That's no justification in my mind.

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                  Aqua Letifer
                  wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:07 last edited by
                  #12

                  @LuFins-Dad said in This resonated with me.:

                  @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                  Especially the part about trivialities.

                  Although I had to look up Bukowski to make sure he wasn't a serial killer.

                  alt text

                  Why? I fail to see the connection. We all breathe air, therefore we should all love each other? Why not hate each other? It's no less valid a philosophy than love...

                  Don't get me wrong, I'm all for loving my fellow man, but not simply because we're all going to die. That's no justification in my mind.

                  Congratulations, that's officially the stupidest thing I'll read all day. And I'm going to be in marketing meetings so that's really saying something.

                  Please love yourself.

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                  • H Horace
                    18 Aug 2022, 14:13

                    Aqua will be displeased that you had to look up bukowski.

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                    Aqua Letifer
                    wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:07 last edited by
                    #13

                    @Horace said in This resonated with me.:

                    Aqua will be displeased that you had to look up bukowski.

                    My eye was indeed twitching.

                    Please love yourself.

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                    • C Catseye3
                      18 Aug 2022, 14:15

                      I've redd other short stuff by him, though I can't remember any of them now, and he struck me also. I think you would like his other work.

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                      Aqua Letifer
                      wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:10 last edited by
                      #14

                      @Catseye3 said in This resonated with me.:

                      I've redd other short stuff by him, though I can't remember any of them now, and he struck me also. I think you would like his other work.

                      A lot of it is glamorizing loserdom—kinda like Steely Dan, but Bukowski's more hardcore about it.

                      Laughing Heart and Roll the Dice are masterpieces, though, and I usually hate free verse.

                      Please love yourself.

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                        Jolly
                        wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:12 last edited by
                        #15

                        Just call me Deacon Blues.

                        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                        • J Jolly
                          18 Aug 2022, 18:12

                          Just call me Deacon Blues.

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                          Aqua Letifer
                          wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:12 last edited by
                          #16

                          @Jolly said in This resonated with me.:

                          Just call me Deacon Blues.

                          This guy gets it. 😄👍

                          Please love yourself.

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                          • A Aqua Letifer
                            18 Aug 2022, 18:07

                            @LuFins-Dad said in This resonated with me.:

                            @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                            Especially the part about trivialities.

                            Although I had to look up Bukowski to make sure he wasn't a serial killer.

                            alt text

                            Why? I fail to see the connection. We all breathe air, therefore we should all love each other? Why not hate each other? It's no less valid a philosophy than love...

                            Don't get me wrong, I'm all for loving my fellow man, but not simply because we're all going to die. That's no justification in my mind.

                            Congratulations, that's officially the stupidest thing I'll read all day. And I'm going to be in marketing meetings so that's really saying something.

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                            LuFins Dad
                            wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:21 last edited by
                            #17

                            @Aqua-Letifer said in This resonated with me.:

                            @LuFins-Dad said in This resonated with me.:

                            @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                            Especially the part about trivialities.

                            Although I had to look up Bukowski to make sure he wasn't a serial killer.

                            alt text

                            Why? I fail to see the connection. We all breathe air, therefore we should all love each other? Why not hate each other? It's no less valid a philosophy than love...

                            Don't get me wrong, I'm all for loving my fellow man, but not simply because we're all going to die. That's no justification in my mind.

                            Congratulations, that's officially the stupidest thing I'll read all day. And I'm going to be in marketing meetings so that's really saying something.

                            Do I get a prize?

                            Seriously? I'm not saying that we shouldn't all love each other. I'm just saying that the fact that we're all going to die someday is irrelevant to the issue... If we weren't going to die then it's okay for strife and conflict?

                            The Brad

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                              Mik
                              wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:30 last edited by
                              #18

                              Aqua will be sending you your prize. It will appear to have been sent by mail, but….

                              "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                              • L LuFins Dad
                                18 Aug 2022, 18:21

                                @Aqua-Letifer said in This resonated with me.:

                                @LuFins-Dad said in This resonated with me.:

                                @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                                Especially the part about trivialities.

                                Although I had to look up Bukowski to make sure he wasn't a serial killer.

                                alt text

                                Why? I fail to see the connection. We all breathe air, therefore we should all love each other? Why not hate each other? It's no less valid a philosophy than love...

                                Don't get me wrong, I'm all for loving my fellow man, but not simply because we're all going to die. That's no justification in my mind.

                                Congratulations, that's officially the stupidest thing I'll read all day. And I'm going to be in marketing meetings so that's really saying something.

                                Do I get a prize?

                                Seriously? I'm not saying that we shouldn't all love each other. I'm just saying that the fact that we're all going to die someday is irrelevant to the issue... If we weren't going to die then it's okay for strife and conflict?

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                                Aqua Letifer
                                wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:34 last edited by
                                #19

                                @LuFins-Dad said in This resonated with me.:

                                @Aqua-Letifer said in This resonated with me.:

                                @LuFins-Dad said in This resonated with me.:

                                @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                                Especially the part about trivialities.

                                Although I had to look up Bukowski to make sure he wasn't a serial killer.

                                alt text

                                Why? I fail to see the connection. We all breathe air, therefore we should all love each other? Why not hate each other? It's no less valid a philosophy than love...

                                Don't get me wrong, I'm all for loving my fellow man, but not simply because we're all going to die. That's no justification in my mind.

                                Congratulations, that's officially the stupidest thing I'll read all day. And I'm going to be in marketing meetings so that's really saying something.

                                Do I get a prize?

                                Seriously? I'm not saying that we shouldn't all love each other. I'm just saying that the fact that we're all going to die someday is irrelevant to the issue...

                                Not learning how to love others makes every aspect of your life worse. Not just in a metaphysical, theoretical sense. It makes people want to avoid you, it limits your opportunities, both in terms of understanding yourself (which is essential to solve higher order problems, whose solutions provide greater rewards) and in understanding others (which leads to others being more willing to work with and be around you), and ultimately brings no satisfaction in the end. All it does is hold you back: personally, professionally, spiritually.

                                It only starts with holding you back, though. It also takes a lot of time to repair that damage, and more time still to catch up to where you should have been, had you learned how to love others sooner.

                                When you have a limited life span, wasting your time is the biggest waste there is.

                                It's amazing to me you can't see any of this.

                                If we weren't going to die then it's okay for strife and conflict?

                                That's the adverse of what he said. Whether or not one thing is true is independent of whether or not its adverse is true. It's equally surprising to me that you seem to have forgotten this.

                                Please love yourself.

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                                • M Mik
                                  18 Aug 2022, 18:30

                                  Aqua will be sending you your prize. It will appear to have been sent by mail, but….

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                                  Aqua Letifer
                                  wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:35 last edited by
                                  #20

                                  @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                                  Aqua will be sending you your prize. It will appear to have been sent by mail, but….

                                  😄 In keeping with the spirit of the original post in this thread, I'd like to point out that I try like really hard not to do that kind of thing anymore.

                                  Please love yourself.

                                  M 1 Reply Last reply 18 Aug 2022, 18:45
                                  • A Aqua Letifer
                                    18 Aug 2022, 18:35

                                    @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                                    Aqua will be sending you your prize. It will appear to have been sent by mail, but….

                                    😄 In keeping with the spirit of the original post in this thread, I'd like to point out that I try like really hard not to do that kind of thing anymore.

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                                    Mik
                                    wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:45 last edited by
                                    #21

                                    @Aqua-Letifer said in This resonated with me.:

                                    @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                                    Aqua will be sending you your prize. It will appear to have been sent by mail, but….

                                    😄 In keeping with the spirit of the original post in this thread, I'd like to point out that I try like really hard not to do that kind of thing anymore.

                                    The exception proves the rule?

                                    "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                                    • M Mik
                                      18 Aug 2022, 18:45

                                      @Aqua-Letifer said in This resonated with me.:

                                      @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                                      Aqua will be sending you your prize. It will appear to have been sent by mail, but….

                                      😄 In keeping with the spirit of the original post in this thread, I'd like to point out that I try like really hard not to do that kind of thing anymore.

                                      The exception proves the rule?

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                                      Aqua Letifer
                                      wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:48 last edited by
                                      #22

                                      @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                                      @Aqua-Letifer said in This resonated with me.:

                                      @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                                      Aqua will be sending you your prize. It will appear to have been sent by mail, but….

                                      😄 In keeping with the spirit of the original post in this thread, I'd like to point out that I try like really hard not to do that kind of thing anymore.

                                      The exception proves the rule?

                                      It could be that LD's confused about this message because he wasn't as much of an obnoxious ass-clown when he was younger. It's not like my opinions on the matter come from being a shining example.

                                      Please love yourself.

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                                      • A Aqua Letifer
                                        18 Aug 2022, 18:34

                                        @LuFins-Dad said in This resonated with me.:

                                        @Aqua-Letifer said in This resonated with me.:

                                        @LuFins-Dad said in This resonated with me.:

                                        @Mik said in This resonated with me.:

                                        Especially the part about trivialities.

                                        Although I had to look up Bukowski to make sure he wasn't a serial killer.

                                        alt text

                                        Why? I fail to see the connection. We all breathe air, therefore we should all love each other? Why not hate each other? It's no less valid a philosophy than love...

                                        Don't get me wrong, I'm all for loving my fellow man, but not simply because we're all going to die. That's no justification in my mind.

                                        Congratulations, that's officially the stupidest thing I'll read all day. And I'm going to be in marketing meetings so that's really saying something.

                                        Do I get a prize?

                                        Seriously? I'm not saying that we shouldn't all love each other. I'm just saying that the fact that we're all going to die someday is irrelevant to the issue...

                                        Not learning how to love others makes every aspect of your life worse. Not just in a metaphysical, theoretical sense. It makes people want to avoid you, it limits your opportunities, both in terms of understanding yourself (which is essential to solve higher order problems, whose solutions provide greater rewards) and in understanding others (which leads to others being more willing to work with and be around you), and ultimately brings no satisfaction in the end. All it does is hold you back: personally, professionally, spiritually.

                                        It only starts with holding you back, though. It also takes a lot of time to repair that damage, and more time still to catch up to where you should have been, had you learned how to love others sooner.

                                        When you have a limited life span, wasting your time is the biggest waste there is.

                                        It's amazing to me you can't see any of this.

                                        If we weren't going to die then it's okay for strife and conflict?

                                        That's the adverse of what he said. Whether or not one thing is true is independent of whether or not its adverse is true. It's equally surprising to me that you seem to have forgotten this.

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                                        wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:50 last edited by
                                        #23

                                        @Aqua-Letifer said in This resonated with me.:

                                        Not learning how to love others makes every aspect of your life worse. Not just in a metaphysical, theoretical sense. It makes people want to avoid you, it limits your opportunities, both in terms of understanding yourself (which is essential to solve higher order problems, whose solutions provide greater rewards) and in understanding others (which leads to others being more willing to work with and be around you), and ultimately brings no satisfaction in the end. All it does is hold you back: personally, professionally, spiritually.
                                        It only starts with holding you back, though. It also takes a lot of time to repair that damage, and more time still to catch up to where you should have been, had you learned how to love others sooner.

                                        It's amazing to me you can't see any of this.

                                        Troubling to clarify Bukowski's point, about the costs of not learning to love others, and following it up by sharing your amazement at your listener's stupidity kind of cancels the point, doesn't it?

                                        Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

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                                        • C Catseye3
                                          18 Aug 2022, 18:50

                                          @Aqua-Letifer said in This resonated with me.:

                                          Not learning how to love others makes every aspect of your life worse. Not just in a metaphysical, theoretical sense. It makes people want to avoid you, it limits your opportunities, both in terms of understanding yourself (which is essential to solve higher order problems, whose solutions provide greater rewards) and in understanding others (which leads to others being more willing to work with and be around you), and ultimately brings no satisfaction in the end. All it does is hold you back: personally, professionally, spiritually.
                                          It only starts with holding you back, though. It also takes a lot of time to repair that damage, and more time still to catch up to where you should have been, had you learned how to love others sooner.

                                          It's amazing to me you can't see any of this.

                                          Troubling to clarify Bukowski's point, about the costs of not learning to love others, and following it up by sharing your amazement at your listener's stupidity kind of cancels the point, doesn't it?

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                                          Aqua Letifer
                                          wrote on 18 Aug 2022, 18:51 last edited by
                                          #24

                                          @Catseye3 said in This resonated with me.:

                                          @Aqua-Letifer said in This resonated with me.:

                                          Not learning how to love others makes every aspect of your life worse. Not just in a metaphysical, theoretical sense. It makes people want to avoid you, it limits your opportunities, both in terms of understanding yourself (which is essential to solve higher order problems, whose solutions provide greater rewards) and in understanding others (which leads to others being more willing to work with and be around you), and ultimately brings no satisfaction in the end. All it does is hold you back: personally, professionally, spiritually.
                                          It only starts with holding you back, though. It also takes a lot of time to repair that damage, and more time still to catch up to where you should have been, had you learned how to love others sooner.

                                          It's amazing to me you can't see any of this.

                                          Troubling to clarify Bukowski's point, about the costs of not learning to love others, and following it up by sharing your amazement at your listener's stupidity kind of cancels the point, doesn't it?

                                          Read my post to Mik just above your own.

                                          Please love yourself.

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