RIP Larry
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It's no secret that Larry and I didn't get along. When things got too vitriolic, I proposed that he and I stay in our separate camps, go our separate ways. That he stay in his corner and I stay in mine. That mostly worked from then on, which I always appreciated. That's as good as it got between him and me.
Nobody can expect to get along with everybody all the time. Bette Davis observed that if nobody dislikes you, you must be a very boring person. Larry kept me from feeling like a boring person -- not a small thing.
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(maybe a bit off topic, so apology in advance)
I thought it was kind of weird that his wife was not mentioned in the summary George posted. My first thought was that his mom and his wife did not get along. :eek
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(maybe a bit off topic, so apology in advance)
I thought it was kind of weird that his wife was not mentioned in the summary George posted. My first thought was that his mom and his wife did not get along. :eek
@taiwan_girl his kids weren't mentioned either.
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@taiwan_girl his kids weren't mentioned either.
@George-K Thats right. Kind of strange, but family issues/fights/secrets can be pretty strange also.
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@George-K Thats right. Kind of strange, but family issues/fights/secrets can be pretty strange also.
@taiwan_girl I know that his son was...problematic. Substance abuse, run-ins with the law. HIs daughter and he became estranged years ago. Her husband was...problematic as well.
Also, no mention of his grandkids.
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(maybe a bit off topic, so apology in advance)
I thought it was kind of weird that his wife was not mentioned in the summary George posted. My first thought was that his mom and his wife did not get along. :eek
@taiwan_girl said in RIP Larry:
(maybe a bit off topic, so apology in advance)
I thought it was kind of weird that his wife was not mentioned in the summary George posted. My first thought was that his mom and his wife did not get along. :eek
As somebody who is pretty familiar with the funeral biz, the posted obit is only as good as what the immediate family insists on. It's done at the time arrangements are made.
And folks, it's a business. Mark up on caskets is better than 300% in most cases. Formalin is cheap and the embalming process is not that complicated. Cremation is nothing more than a gas oven, lined with refractory brick, with a thermostat and a timer.
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@taiwan_girl said in RIP Larry:
(maybe a bit off topic, so apology in advance)
I thought it was kind of weird that his wife was not mentioned in the summary George posted. My first thought was that his mom and his wife did not get along. :eek
As somebody who is pretty familiar with the funeral biz, the posted obit is only as good as what the immediate family insists on. It's done at the time arrangements are made.
And folks, it's a business. Mark up on caskets is better than 300% in most cases. Formalin is cheap and the embalming process is not that complicated. Cremation is nothing more than a gas oven, lined with refractory brick, with a thermostat and a timer.
the posted obit is only as good as what the immediate family insists on
Right. So, in this case, who is "immediate family?" Obviously, his brother and mother, but not spouse?
"Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08
The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.
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Here’s my take. The young lady Sarah is/was a caregiver. For Larry’s mom. And she became live-in. And part of this arrangement, extended over time, to Larry helping out her family in the Philippines. I’ve seen this scenario with caregivers and nannys here. I do worry of his mom.
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Here’s my take. The young lady Sarah is/was a caregiver. For Larry’s mom. And she became live-in. And part of this arrangement, extended over time, to Larry helping out her family in the Philippines. I’ve seen this scenario with caregivers and nannys here. I do worry of his mom.
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the posted obit is only as good as what the immediate family insists on
Right. So, in this case, who is "immediate family?" Obviously, his brother and mother, but not spouse?
They would take the spouse’s direction not the 90 year old mother.
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the posted obit is only as good as what the immediate family insists on
Right. So, in this case, who is "immediate family?" Obviously, his brother and mother, but not spouse?
They would take the spouse’s direction not the 90 year old mother.
That, indirectly, is my point.
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I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.
“I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill
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I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.
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I'm not sure that us trying to dissect his life posthumously is really any better than Dewey dancing on his grave.
