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  • 89th8 89th

    @Doctor-Phibes yeah that’s annoying. But, hopefully minor and temporary. Hope the new place is rewarding to fix and make your own

    @Horace When is the updated appraisal expected?

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    @89th said in Bad timing:

    @Doctor-Phibes yeah that’s annoying. But, hopefully minor and temporary. Hope the new place is rewarding to fix and make your own

    @Horace When is the updated appraisal expected?

    Tomorrow. Or never, in which case we have a Mexican standoff where I threaten them that they will have to keep my 25k earnest money if they don’t reduce their price.

    Education is extremely important.

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    • 89th8 89th

      @Doctor-Phibes yeah that’s annoying. But, hopefully minor and temporary. Hope the new place is rewarding to fix and make your own

      @Horace When is the updated appraisal expected?

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      @89th said in Bad timing:

      Hope the new place is rewarding to fix and make your own

      I'm actually really enjoying it, although it's been a lot of work. The previous owners appear to have been absolute slobs, but the fundamentals are good.

      On Sunday I removed this absolutely horrifically colored, and very dirty, bright pink carpet from one of the bedrooms, uncovering a pretty much pristine hardwood floor underneath. It appears to have been untouched since about 1980. So there are some nice surprises, along with the less nice ones. I have found and disposed of more discarded dental-floss applicators than I care to think about. After a while you stop pulling a face over the discovery.

      I was only joking

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        #191

        According to the closing sheet, our agent is getting 3% commission. That will be a topic of conversation if it is ever suggested that I pony up the 1%. I am sure he will jump at the chance to finally make himself useful, beyond doing MLS searches we could have done ourselves.

        Education is extremely important.

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        • HoraceH Horace

          According to the closing sheet, our agent is getting 3% commission. That will be a topic of conversation if it is ever suggested that I pony up the 1%. I am sure he will jump at the chance to finally make himself useful, beyond doing MLS searches we could have done ourselves.

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          @Horace boom, roasted

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          • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

            @89th said in Bad timing:

            Hope the new place is rewarding to fix and make your own

            I'm actually really enjoying it, although it's been a lot of work. The previous owners appear to have been absolute slobs, but the fundamentals are good.

            On Sunday I removed this absolutely horrifically colored, and very dirty, bright pink carpet from one of the bedrooms, uncovering a pretty much pristine hardwood floor underneath. It appears to have been untouched since about 1980. So there are some nice surprises, along with the less nice ones. I have found and disposed of more discarded dental-floss applicators than I care to think about. After a while you stop pulling a face over the discovery.

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            @Doctor-Phibes said in Bad timing:

            @89th said in Bad timing:

            Hope the new place is rewarding to fix and make your own

            I'm actually really enjoying it, although it's been a lot of work. The previous owners appear to have been absolute slobs, but the fundamentals are good.

            On Sunday I removed this absolutely horrifically colored, and very dirty, bright pink carpet from one of the bedrooms, uncovering a pretty much pristine hardwood floor underneath. It appears to have been untouched since about 1980. So there are some nice surprises, along with the less nice ones. I have found and disposed of more discarded dental-floss applicators than I care to think about. After a while you stop pulling a face over the discovery.

            That is a nice surprise (the floor, not the floss). Our previous owners also had a few areas they didn't maintain, so it's been nice to fix and refresh areas that we can make our own. They also really had a style that resulted in many very heavy (literally) and dark window dressings. It was fun (and dusty, and spider-y) to remove those to expose the really nice, bright, and wood-trimmed windows in a few rooms.

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              Closing rescheduled for Friday, which may or may not screw all our plans for moving stuff in on Friday. Depending on how lenient the builder would like to be with allowing a buyer to do stuff with the house before the close.

              Education is extremely important.

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              • HoraceH Horace

                Closing rescheduled for Friday, which may or may not screw all our plans for moving stuff in on Friday. Depending on how lenient the builder would like to be with allowing a buyer to do stuff with the house before the close.

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                @Horace I hope that works - should make for an interesting day.

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                  Makes for an exciting game of chicken on that 1%.

                  Only non-witches get due process.

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                    I rescheduled the move for Monday. Now we wait to see if the appraiser changes his mind, and we can close Friday. If he doesn’t, the builder is still in the drivers seat with our abnormally large amount of earnest money and no contingencies. And the salesperson is off in her own righteous reality where she believes the price drop she has already allowed is generous to a fault. Never mind the appraisal that was lower. It’s just an absurd appraisal, according to her.

                    Education is extremely important.

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                    • HoraceH Horace

                      I rescheduled the move for Monday. Now we wait to see if the appraiser changes his mind, and we can close Friday. If he doesn’t, the builder is still in the drivers seat with our abnormally large amount of earnest money and no contingencies. And the salesperson is off in her own righteous reality where she believes the price drop she has already allowed is generous to a fault. Never mind the appraisal that was lower. It’s just an absurd appraisal, according to her.

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                      @Horace She sure likes exaggeration. Absurd would be like $300,000 low. Just as I'm sure any lower offer she's heard of in the past was "insulting". Insulting would be "I offer you $100, which you should recognize because it came from your mother last night!"

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                      • 89th8 89th

                        @Horace She sure likes exaggeration. Absurd would be like $300,000 low. Just as I'm sure any lower offer she's heard of in the past was "insulting". Insulting would be "I offer you $100, which you should recognize because it came from your mother last night!"

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                        @89th said in Bad timing:

                        @Horace She sure likes exaggeration. Absurd would be like $300,000 low. Just as I'm sure any lower offer she's heard of in the past was "insulting". Insulting would be "I offer you $100, which you should recognize because it came from your mother last night!"

                        Stealing that one for use in future negotiations. Thanks.

                        Education is extremely important.

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                        • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                          Makes for an exciting game of chicken on that 1%.

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                          @jon-nyc said in Bad timing:

                          Makes for an exciting game of chicken on that 1%.

                          The wild card is that my wife doesn't like the house to begin with. The builder and our agent don't truly understand how precarious this deal is, even given the earnest money is at peril.

                          Education is extremely important.

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                            Link to video

                            "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                            The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                            • George KG George K

                              Link to video

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                              @George-K said in Bad timing:

                              Link to video

                              It's all good no matter what happens. If we walk away rather than make a small financial sacrifice, I score points and she is happy that the horizon is clear to pursue her dream house. If the appraisal is adjusted, we go forward with the current deal. If the agent and builder chip in to make up the 1% difference with the current appraisal, we got a slightly better deal and she feels like she won this small battle with the builder.

                              Education is extremely important.

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                              • HoraceH Horace

                                @George-K said in Bad timing:

                                Link to video

                                It's all good no matter what happens. If we walk away rather than make a small financial sacrifice, I score points and she is happy that the horizon is clear to pursue her dream house. If the appraisal is adjusted, we go forward with the current deal. If the agent and builder chip in to make up the 1% difference with the current appraisal, we got a slightly better deal and she feels like she won this small battle with the builder.

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                                @Horace I require 1x updates today

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                                • 89th8 89th

                                  @Horace I require 1x updates today

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                                  @89th said in Bad timing:

                                  @Horace I require 1x updates today

                                  Me too. I’m just waiting in fascination at the lack of updates from the builder. Close is scheduled for 5 hours from now. Lacking further updates, I will bring a cashiers check which will be insufficient by the 1% at play. I expect an update within the next few hours though.

                                  Update as I wrote this, the builder salesperson is confident the appraisal will be raised. She says the dirty Puerto Rican appraiser was late and did a bad job but his supervisor is cooperative.

                                  So that sucks for us. It means we sacrificed our moving weekend plans just to allow the builder to charge us more.

                                  Education is extremely important.

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                                  • HoraceH Horace

                                    @89th said in Bad timing:

                                    @Horace I require 1x updates today

                                    Me too. I’m just waiting in fascination at the lack of updates from the builder. Close is scheduled for 5 hours from now. Lacking further updates, I will bring a cashiers check which will be insufficient by the 1% at play. I expect an update within the next few hours though.

                                    Update as I wrote this, the builder salesperson is confident the appraisal will be raised. She says the dirty Puerto Rican appraiser was late and did a bad job but his supervisor is cooperative.

                                    So that sucks for us. It means we sacrificed our moving weekend plans just to allow the builder to charge us more.

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                                    @Horace Yeah that sucks

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                                      Closed this afternoon. Appraisal was raised to exactly our contract price. What a coincidence.

                                      Education is extremely important.

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                                      • HoraceH Horace

                                        Closed this afternoon. Appraisal was raised to exactly our contract price. What a coincidence.

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                                        @Horace said in Bad timing:

                                        Closed this afternoon. Appraisal was raised to exactly our contract price. What a coincidence.

                                        At long last, our national nightmare is over.

                                        Now, all you have to do is convince the spousal unit that the place will be OK.

                                        "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                                        The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                                        • George KG George K

                                          @Horace said in Bad timing:

                                          Closed this afternoon. Appraisal was raised to exactly our contract price. What a coincidence.

                                          At long last, our national nightmare is over.

                                          Now, all you have to do is convince the spousal unit that the place will be OK.

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                                          @George-K said in Bad timing:

                                          @Horace said in Bad timing:

                                          Closed this afternoon. Appraisal was raised to exactly our contract price. What a coincidence.

                                          At long last, our national nightmare is over.

                                          Now, all you have to do is convince the spousal unit that the place will be OK.

                                          Have to wait this one out. For now it’s my job to share in some sadness.

                                          Education is extremely important.

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