Skip to content
  • Categories
  • Recent
  • Tags
  • Popular
  • Users
  • Groups
Skins
  • Light
  • Cerulean
  • Cosmo
  • Flatly
  • Journal
  • Litera
  • Lumen
  • Lux
  • Materia
  • Minty
  • Morph
  • Pulse
  • Sandstone
  • Simplex
  • Sketchy
  • Spacelab
  • United
  • Yeti
  • Zephyr
  • Dark
  • Cyborg
  • Darkly
  • Quartz
  • Slate
  • Solar
  • Superhero
  • Vapor

  • Default (No Skin)
  • No Skin
Collapse

The New Coffee Room

  1. TNCR
  2. General Discussion
  3. Fertility clinics in some red states

Fertility clinics in some red states

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved General Discussion
47 Posts 13 Posters 552 Views
  • Oldest to Newest
  • Newest to Oldest
  • Most Votes
Reply
  • Reply as topic
Log in to reply
This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
  • jon-nycJ Online
    jon-nycJ Online
    jon-nyc
    wrote on last edited by jon-nyc
    #19

    It will be interesting to see how MO and other states handle the frozen ones.

    Do they have a right to a womb? In the case of a donated egg, whose womb do they hold the claim on?

    Will the state seek volunteers, essentially put them up for adoption?

    "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
    -Cormac McCarthy

    IvorythumperI 1 Reply Last reply
    • Aqua LetiferA Aqua Letifer

      @Ivorythumper said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

      @Aqua-Letifer said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

      @Ivorythumper said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

      I think it does certainly show the problem of IVF, that human beings can be frozen in an early stage of development and later reanimated, and that there are moral implications to this practice.

      How so? Does the Church have a problem with children who are conceived via IVF?

      The Church reprobates IVF as a practice, but does not have any problem with the children who are conceived by IVF.

      The moral problem is the indignity to the human person who is held in suspension for the preference of the parents.

      What does "preference" mean in this context?

      IvorythumperI Offline
      IvorythumperI Offline
      Ivorythumper
      wrote on last edited by
      #20

      @Aqua-Letifer said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

      @Ivorythumper said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

      @Aqua-Letifer said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

      @Ivorythumper said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

      I think it does certainly show the problem of IVF, that human beings can be frozen in an early stage of development and later reanimated, and that there are moral implications to this practice.

      How so? Does the Church have a problem with children who are conceived via IVF?

      The Church reprobates IVF as a practice, but does not have any problem with the children who are conceived by IVF.

      The moral problem is the indignity to the human person who is held in suspension for the preference of the parents.

      What does "preference" mean in this context?

      Well, preference is my term.

      First, I want to tread carefully here, respectful of those who are or have been involved in IVF or have experienced the frustration, disappointment, heartbreak, and suffering of not being able to conceive naturally. I speak from personal experience, and have grappled morally with the Church's teaching.

      Preference is deciding when and if that conceived offspring is to be allowed to join the family and enter into the mutual love relationship of family with his or her parents.

      1 Reply Last reply
      • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

        It will be interesting to see how MO and other states handle the frozen ones.

        Do they have a right to a womb? In the case of a donated egg, whose womb do they hold the claim on?

        Will the state seek volunteers, essentially put them up for adoption?

        IvorythumperI Offline
        IvorythumperI Offline
        Ivorythumper
        wrote on last edited by
        #21

        @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

        It will be interesting to see how MO and other states handle the frozen ones.

        Do they have a right to a womb? In the case of a donated egg, whose womb do they hold the claim on?

        Will the state seek volunteers, essentially put them up for adoption?

        You're asking all the right questions.

        1 Reply Last reply
        • MikM Offline
          MikM Offline
          Mik
          wrote on last edited by
          #22

          Off topic somewhat, but I would like to see a simultaneous push to expand and streamline our adoption machinery in this country. There will be a lot of babies born that are not wanted.

          “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

          JollyJ 1 Reply Last reply
          • jon-nycJ Online
            jon-nycJ Online
            jon-nyc
            wrote on last edited by
            #23

            I’ve seen estimates that the number of abortions will decrease only by about 10-15% since abortion is more common in states that are abortion friendly.

            Also read that they are disproportionately obtained by black women.

            So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

            "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
            -Cormac McCarthy

            Doctor PhibesD CopperC JollyJ 3 Replies Last reply
            • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

              I’ve seen estimates that the number of abortions will decrease only by about 10-15% since abortion is more common in states that are abortion friendly.

              Also read that they are disproportionately obtained by black women.

              So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

              Doctor PhibesD Offline
              Doctor PhibesD Offline
              Doctor Phibes
              wrote on last edited by
              #24

              @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

              So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

              Which could conceivably (pun intended) come back to bite Republicans in the ass

              I was only joking

              Aqua LetiferA IvorythumperI 2 Replies Last reply
              • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

                @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

                Which could conceivably (pun intended) come back to bite Republicans in the ass

                Aqua LetiferA Offline
                Aqua LetiferA Offline
                Aqua Letifer
                wrote on last edited by
                #25

                @Doctor-Phibes said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

                Which could conceivably (pun intended) come back to bite Republicans in the ass

                Not with the generous amount of social assistance that is so prevalent in those states.

                Please love yourself.

                1 Reply Last reply
                • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

                  @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                  So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

                  Which could conceivably (pun intended) come back to bite Republicans in the ass

                  IvorythumperI Offline
                  IvorythumperI Offline
                  Ivorythumper
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #26

                  @Doctor-Phibes said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                  @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                  So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

                  Which could conceivably (pun intended) come back to bite Republicans in the ass

                  that sort of pun should be condomed.

                  1 Reply Last reply
                  • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                    I’ve seen estimates that the number of abortions will decrease only by about 10-15% since abortion is more common in states that are abortion friendly.

                    Also read that they are disproportionately obtained by black women.

                    So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

                    CopperC Offline
                    CopperC Offline
                    Copper
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #27

                    @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                    Also read that they are disproportionately obtained by black women.

                    So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

                    I'm guessing more black women will simply keep their pants on

                    No more single moms struggling to get by

                    No more broken families

                    No more deadbeat dads

                    More dignity and self sufficiency

                    This will usher in the golden age of not-aborted black people

                    George KG 1 Reply Last reply
                    • CopperC Copper

                      @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                      Also read that they are disproportionately obtained by black women.

                      So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

                      I'm guessing more black women will simply keep their pants on

                      No more single moms struggling to get by

                      No more broken families

                      No more deadbeat dads

                      More dignity and self sufficiency

                      This will usher in the golden age of not-aborted black people

                      George KG Offline
                      George KG Offline
                      George K
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #28

                      @Copper said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                      I'm guessing more black women will simply keep their pants on

                      No more single moms struggling to get by

                      No more broken families

                      No more deadbeat dads

                      More dignity and self sufficiency

                      This will usher in the golden age of not-aborted black people

                      Half-full today. Good on ya, @copper!

                      "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                      The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

                      Doctor PhibesD 1 Reply Last reply
                      • George KG George K

                        @Copper said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                        I'm guessing more black women will simply keep their pants on

                        No more single moms struggling to get by

                        No more broken families

                        No more deadbeat dads

                        More dignity and self sufficiency

                        This will usher in the golden age of not-aborted black people

                        Half-full today. Good on ya, @copper!

                        Doctor PhibesD Offline
                        Doctor PhibesD Offline
                        Doctor Phibes
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #29

                        @George-K said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                        @Copper said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                        I'm guessing more black women will simply keep their pants on

                        No more single moms struggling to get by

                        No more broken families

                        No more deadbeat dads

                        More dignity and self sufficiency

                        This will usher in the golden age of not-aborted black people

                        Half-full today. Good on ya, @copper!

                        Half full of what, though?

                        I was only joking

                        1 Reply Last reply
                        • jon-nycJ Online
                          jon-nycJ Online
                          jon-nyc
                          wrote on last edited by jon-nyc
                          #30

                          Someone once wrote that, at first approximation, middle+ class use birth control, working class use abortion, and the poor use the crib.

                          "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                          -Cormac McCarthy

                          AxtremusA jon-nycJ 2 Replies Last reply
                          • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                            Someone once wrote that, at first approximation, middle+ class use birth control, working class use abortion, and the poor use the crib.

                            AxtremusA Offline
                            AxtremusA Offline
                            Axtremus
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #31

                            @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                            Someone once wrote that, at first approximation, middle+ class use birth control, working class use abortion, and the poor use the crib.

                            Gasp, nobody uses abstinence!?

                            1 Reply Last reply
                            • CopperC Offline
                              CopperC Offline
                              Copper
                              wrote on last edited by
                              #32

                              When we went through IVF I'm not sure if freezing was an option.

                              IVF was still kind of new.

                              And for what we paid, I used to tell them that my name should be over the door.

                              1 Reply Last reply
                              • taiwan_girlT Online
                                taiwan_girlT Online
                                taiwan_girl
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #33

                                Wasnt it Freaknomics that had something like:

                                "Decrease in crime can be related to increase in abortion, because more abortions were done by people in poorer areas?"

                                1 Reply Last reply
                                • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                                  @89th imagine if they had to do one at a time to avoid creating one that later would not be implanted.

                                  Sounds like it would be a lot of sessions in many cases and even less affordable.

                                  89th8 Offline
                                  89th8 Offline
                                  89th
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #34

                                  @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                                  @89th imagine if they had to do one at a time to avoid creating one that later would not be implanted.

                                  Sounds like it would be a lot of sessions in many cases and even less affordable.

                                  What you're referencing is called the "retrieval" part of the process, basically. It usually ends up with the woman providing a number of eggs (usually between 5-20, IIRC) to which the male's sperm is then exposed in a lab environment, resulting in a number of fertilized zygotes which then become blastocysts/embryos (of which usually half show a mitosis strong enough to be considered a candidate for IVF transfer).

                                  To keep it simple, the process basically goes like this:

                                  • Retrieve 20 eggs
                                  • 10 are fertilized
                                  • 5 become "transfer-worthy" embryos
                                  • IVF has about a 30% success rate, so usually 2-4 IVF rounds are needed

                                  Depending on where you go, off the top of my head the retrieval/fertilization part is like $10k, and each IVF round is like $5k.

                                  So yes, trying to start and end that whole process with just 1 embryo is nearly impractical. Not to mention the cost for the services, the HUNDREDS of doctor visits involved (we probably had 200-300 visits over 24 months before we had our first kid, no joke), the numerous daily shots you have to give the woman, and the emotional stress of the whole thing.

                                  1 Reply Last reply
                                  • jon-nycJ Online
                                    jon-nycJ Online
                                    jon-nyc
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #35

                                    It seems like it will close that option for many families. Even if you can afford to go out of state for it, it just isn’t practical given the number of visits unless you live close to the border.

                                    Like St Louis folks can go to IL but the Kansas City folks will probably have no options.

                                    "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                                    -Cormac McCarthy

                                    1 Reply Last reply
                                    • bachophileB Online
                                      bachophileB Online
                                      bachophile
                                      wrote on last edited by bachophile
                                      #36

                                      People can move here and have it all covered by national health insurance

                                      https://www.health.gov.il/English/Topics/fertility/Pages/ivf.aspx

                                      IVF IN ISRAEL.
                                      The country has the highest IVF rate per capita worldwide.

                                      Where Families Are Prized, Help Is Free
                                      https://www.nytimes.com/2011/07/18/world/middleeast/18israel.html

                                      1 Reply Last reply
                                      • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                                        I’ve seen estimates that the number of abortions will decrease only by about 10-15% since abortion is more common in states that are abortion friendly.

                                        Also read that they are disproportionately obtained by black women.

                                        So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

                                        JollyJ Offline
                                        JollyJ Offline
                                        Jolly
                                        wrote on last edited by
                                        #37

                                        @jon-nyc said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                                        I’ve seen estimates that the number of abortions will decrease only by about 10-15% since abortion is more common in states that are abortion friendly.

                                        Also read that they are disproportionately obtained by black women.

                                        So I’m guessing more black babies in red states is what we should expect.

                                        Interesting side note... I've seen where if there were no abortion, the percentage of black people in America would be doubled.

                                        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

                                        CopperC 1 Reply Last reply
                                        • MikM Mik

                                          Off topic somewhat, but I would like to see a simultaneous push to expand and streamline our adoption machinery in this country. There will be a lot of babies born that are not wanted.

                                          JollyJ Offline
                                          JollyJ Offline
                                          Jolly
                                          wrote on last edited by
                                          #38

                                          @Mik said in Fertility clinics in some red states:

                                          Off topic somewhat, but I would like to see a simultaneous push to expand and streamline our adoption machinery in this country. There will be a lot of babies born that are not wanted.

                                          Sidenote...IIRC, the trigger law in Texas contains $100M for pregnancy assistance, including adoption, in the event of R v W overturn.

                                          “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                          Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

                                          Aqua LetiferA 1 Reply Last reply
                                          Reply
                                          • Reply as topic
                                          Log in to reply
                                          • Oldest to Newest
                                          • Newest to Oldest
                                          • Most Votes


                                          • Login

                                          • Don't have an account? Register

                                          • Login or register to search.
                                          • First post
                                            Last post
                                          0
                                          • Categories
                                          • Recent
                                          • Tags
                                          • Popular
                                          • Users
                                          • Groups