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5 years ago tonight

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    Aqua Letifer
    wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 03:17 last edited by
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    Happy anniversary!(?)

    Please love yourself.

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      89th
      wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 03:24 last edited by
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      So this was during my hiatus, mind providing a bit of a recap? But no spoilers plz! Don't want to ruin the ending.

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        xenon
        wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 03:32 last edited by
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        I pieced this one together from past posts. Glad it all worked out, Jon.

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          Catseye3
          wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 03:34 last edited by
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          I remember that time so clearly . . . lots of members in the room; all we talked about was Jon and how he was doing and how close he was to being finished. Somebody would bring up something else, but soon the subject went back to the surgery. How's he doing, how much longer, so on and so on.

          Then came word (George, I think?) that it was over and he was in recovery. Lots of cheering and joy.

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          Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

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          • X xenon
            16 Jul 2021, 03:32

            I pieced this one together from past posts. Glad it all worked out, Jon.

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            89th
            wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 03:34 last edited by
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            @xenon said in 5 years ago tonight:

            I pieced this one together from past posts. Glad it all worked out, Jon.

            I have most of the puzzle pieces as well, but the "I remember where I was" comment above makes me curious about the narrative/timeline of events.

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              LuFins Dad
              wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 03:42 last edited by
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              5 years is actually a huge mark for transplants, isn’t it?

              The Brad

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                16 Jul 2021, 03:24

                So this was during my hiatus, mind providing a bit of a recap? But no spoilers plz! Don't want to ruin the ending.

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                jon-nyc
                wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 03:42 last edited by
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                @89th said in 5 years ago tonight:

                So this was during my hiatus, mind providing a bit of a recap? But no spoilers plz! Don't want to ruin the ending.

                I got a bilateral lung transplant after quite a long wait. I had moved to Durham to get it done at Duke thinking I’d be there 3-4 months, I was there 15 months.

                "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                -Cormac McCarthy

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                  16 Jul 2021, 03:42

                  5 years is actually a huge mark for transplants, isn’t it?

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                  jon-nyc
                  wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 03:45 last edited by jon-nyc
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                  @lufins-dad said in 5 years ago tonight:

                  5 years is actually a huge mark for transplants, isn’t it?

                  It’s not an out-of-the-woods sign like with some cancers. The risk of dying from infection or rejection is pretty stable and pretty material year after year.

                  Lung transplants have the worst prognosis of all the solid organ transplants. Median survival is something like 5.8 years. I should do much better than that though.

                  "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                  -Cormac McCarthy

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                  • J jon-nyc
                    16 Jul 2021, 03:42

                    @89th said in 5 years ago tonight:

                    So this was during my hiatus, mind providing a bit of a recap? But no spoilers plz! Don't want to ruin the ending.

                    I got a bilateral lung transplant after quite a long wait. I had moved to Durham to get it done at Duke thinking I’d be there 3-4 months, I was there 15 months.

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                    89th
                    wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 04:03 last edited by
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                    @jon-nyc said in 5 years ago tonight:

                    @89th said in 5 years ago tonight:

                    So this was during my hiatus, mind providing a bit of a recap? But no spoilers plz! Don't want to ruin the ending.

                    I got a bilateral lung transplant after quite a long wait. I had moved to Durham to get it done at Duke thinking I’d be there 3-4 months, I was there 15 months.

                    Thanks! I think you hugged me like 6 years ago in that bar in Arlington but I doubt that is correlated.

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                      jon-nyc
                      wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 04:06 last edited by
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                      More like 10+ years ago. I was in Arlington visiting my Dad when he lived with my sister, which was 2009-2011.

                      "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                      -Cormac McCarthy

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                        Catseye3
                        wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 04:09 last edited by
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                        Was that the photo of Jon either kissing or being kissed on the cheek by . . . the other guy? Great shot!

                        Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

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                          jon-nyc
                          wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 04:10 last edited by
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                          Improv got the shot. He’ll probably magically show up and post it any minute now. lol

                          "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                          -Cormac McCarthy

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                            Friday
                            wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 07:47 last edited by
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                            Oh.

                            Re-reading that made me so nostalgic. I really miss all those people.

                            Jon, congratulations on your 5 year anniversary.

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                              Klaus
                              wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 10:02 last edited by Klaus
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                              Wow. Almost everything seems to have changed within five years. For instance, Mik wrote at the time:

                              He's young, strong and smart.

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                                Klaus
                                wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 10:06 last edited by
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                                Has anything significant about treatment options changed/improved in the last 5 years? Is kidney failure an issue at this point?

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                                  jon-nyc
                                  wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 10:18 last edited by
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                                  Not really and yes. I’m already at stage 3 CKD. It’s very common for lung transplant patients to need a kidney at some point.

                                  "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                                  -Cormac McCarthy

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                                    Axtremus
                                    wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 11:20 last edited by
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                                    Congratulations!
                                    Glad we get to have you with us for these extra years!

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                                      16 Jul 2021, 03:45

                                      @lufins-dad said in 5 years ago tonight:

                                      5 years is actually a huge mark for transplants, isn’t it?

                                      It’s not an out-of-the-woods sign like with some cancers. The risk of dying from infection or rejection is pretty stable and pretty material year after year.

                                      Lung transplants have the worst prognosis of all the solid organ transplants. Median survival is something like 5.8 years. I should do much better than that though.

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                                      George K
                                      wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 12:08 last edited by
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                                      @jon-nyc said in 5 years ago tonight:

                                      Lung transplants have the worst prognosis of all the solid organ transplants. Median survival is something like 5.8 years. I should do much better than that though.

                                      I may have mentioned this to Jon, or perhaps posted publicly....

                                      About 6 years ago, I was giving "anesthesia" for an organ harvest. If someone was an organ donor, a team would come from one of the teaching transplant centers in Chicago, and harvest the organs that were suitable for transplant. My job was to keep the patient "alive" - hemodynamically stable and well oxygenated while they took the organs that needed a blood supply. Once they clamped the aorta, and the heart stopped, I was done, and I'd leave. The team would spend another couple of hours after I'd gone.

                                      Anyhow, the surgeon was a pleasant lady from Northwestern. After I was "relieved," and she was waiting for someone else to harvest the liver, I believe, I pulled her aside and told her that I have a friend who needs a lung transplant, and told her the disease.

                                      "So, how do these folks do?"

                                      "⅓. ⅓. ⅓," she said. "One out of three do great ( ~ five years), one out of three do so-so, with multiple relapses/rejections, and one out of three do crappy."

                                      "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                                      The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                                        brenda
                                        wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 13:01 last edited by
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                                        Wow. Five years already. Our Jon will chart new territory for his own version of a long hauler, living an extraordinary number of years post transplant.

                                        Congrats, Jon! Here's to many more years. 🍺

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                                          16 Jul 2021, 04:09

                                          Was that the photo of Jon either kissing or being kissed on the cheek by . . . the other guy? Great shot!

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                                          89th
                                          wrote on 16 Jul 2021, 13:27 last edited by
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                                          @catseye3 said in 5 years ago tonight:

                                          Was that the photo of Jon either kissing or being kissed on the cheek by . . . the other guy? Great shot!

                                          Wow 10+ years, how time flies. And yes, Jon was kissing me on the cheek.

                                          I still haven't washed that cheek. 😍

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