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  • JollyJ Offline
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    Jolly
    wrote on last edited by
    #14

    The world is full of isolated incidents. Defensive gun use in America is very hard to quantify.

    Estimates range from maybe 100,000 to 2,000,000 incidents per year.

    “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

    Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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    • JollyJ Jolly

      The world is full of isolated incidents. Defensive gun use in America is very hard to quantify.

      Estimates range from maybe 100,000 to 2,000,000 incidents per year.

      taiwan_girlT Offline
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      taiwan_girl
      wrote on last edited by
      #15

      @Jolly good point. There are so many variables, it is hard to say one thing or the other.

      In some of the number above, having a gun helped in some situations, in others, it probably hurt.

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      • JollyJ Jolly

        The world is full of isolated incidents. Defensive gun use in America is very hard to quantify.

        Estimates range from maybe 100,000 to 2,000,000 incidents per year.

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        #16

        @Jolly said in Packin':

        The world is full of isolated incidents. Defensive gun use in America is very hard to quantify.

        Estimates range from maybe 100,000 to 2,000,000 incidents per year.

        Is that more or less than meteors?

        TG, you can try to negate what he said with 'some helped, some didn't', but the fact is that regardless what you see on TV, when a perp sees a gun drawn or hears a shotgun being racked, he doesn't go all badass on the holder. His mindset changes entirely to 'Oh, shit... how do I get out of this alive?'. It helps. if some perps don't make it out, well, that's too bad for them. Don't live like an animal and you won't likely die like one.

        “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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          #17

          Let me assure everybody, if you are looking at the business end of a .22, that hole looks like the size of a stovepipe.

          “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

          Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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          • MikM Mik

            @Jolly said in Packin':

            The world is full of isolated incidents. Defensive gun use in America is very hard to quantify.

            Estimates range from maybe 100,000 to 2,000,000 incidents per year.

            Is that more or less than meteors?

            TG, you can try to negate what he said with 'some helped, some didn't', but the fact is that regardless what you see on TV, when a perp sees a gun drawn or hears a shotgun being racked, he doesn't go all badass on the holder. His mindset changes entirely to 'Oh, shit... how do I get out of this alive?'. It helps. if some perps don't make it out, well, that's too bad for them. Don't live like an animal and you won't likely die like one.

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            #18

            @Mik I agree with you that for me, having a gun would be more hurt than help.

            But FOR ME, I just don’t think that having that “fear” in me is something I will ever feel such that I think I need to have a gun.

            It really does amaze me though that people feel so concerned that a random person is going to come in to their church or temple and do harm , that they need to have a gun when they go inside. That just boggle my mind.

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              #19

              Again, you misunderstand the mindset of those who carry. It's not fear. Its acknowledgement of the world we live in and preparedness for any eventuality, to the point one can.

              “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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              • taiwan_girlT taiwan_girl

                @Mik I agree with you that for me, having a gun would be more hurt than help.

                But FOR ME, I just don’t think that having that “fear” in me is something I will ever feel such that I think I need to have a gun.

                It really does amaze me though that people feel so concerned that a random person is going to come in to their church or temple and do harm , that they need to have a gun when they go inside. That just boggle my mind.

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                @taiwan_girl said in Packin':

                @Mik I agree with you that for me, having a gun would be more hurt than help.

                But FOR ME, I just don’t think that having that “fear” in me is something I will ever feel such that I think I need to have a gun.

                It really does amaze me though that people feel so concerned that a random person is going to come in to their church or temple and do harm , that they need to have a gun when they go inside. That just boggle my mind.

                Then you may be hurt, raped or killed, depending on the circumstances. Guns are not a panacea. They will not magically protect you, especially not without training and situational awareness.

                Tell me...What would you do, if you knew you had a person who had visited your church/temple/mosque and that person was a combat veteran who was having mental issues? A guy who you knew had weapons at his house?

                “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                  #21

                  @Mik @Jolly

                  As I said before, maybe “fear” is too strong a word. A better word might be “concerned”. And there are different levels of concern.

                  If The person is not concerned something is going to happen, they are not going to prepare for it.

                  I’m NOT concerned that a meteor is going to fall on my head, so I will not do any preparation for it.

                  I AM concerned when I get in the car, but if I get in an accident, I could be injured. So, I will prepare for it by wearing a safety belt, etc.

                  I have a very very MINOR concerns when I go out in my every day life and walk down the street. For my concern, my Preparation will be that I will not wear expensive jewelry. I will not carry a big amount of cash in my hand where people will see it.

                  My concern is quite small that a random person will jump out at me. My preparation is knowing my area, using common sense, and if necessary, avoiding the area.

                  FOR ME, If my concerns are so great that I feel I need to have a gun just to go out for a walk or go to church, then I am probably living in the wrong place . Again, that is just FOR ME.

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                    #22

                    There some people, some very good people, that don't have a lot of choice in where they must live. There are dangers in life you sometimes can't avoid.

                    Cooper's color codes:

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                    “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                    Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                      #23

                      Also remember another of Colonel Cooper's sayings, If you find yourself in a fair fight, your tactics suck.

                      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                        brenda
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                        #24

                        Jolly, if she wouldn't mind you sharing, what were the situations when your wife pulled out her gun?

                        I don't carry, but I have considered it over the years, even while I was in grad school (a very creepy guy was following me nearly every day.)

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                          wrote on last edited by
                          #25

                          I've talked about them before and I find it astonishing you don't hang on my every word.😄😄😄😄😄

                          The first time, my wife caught somebody trying to burgularize my dad's house. She called the cops and had the gentleman cool his heels a bit until the deputies got there. TG could make the argument my wife could have avoided drawing her .38...I think this situation can be argued both ways.

                          The other can't. My wife was sitting in her car on the shoulder of the road, waiting on AAA to change out a flat tire. A pickup truck was slowing down on the highway and a guy jumped out of the bed, while the truck was still going 30mph or so. He went rolling down the ditch, finally coming to a stop. Scratched and bleeding, he makes a beeline for my wife's car at a dead run. He jumps up on the hood and starts to beat bloody fist prints on the windshield, screaming "Momma! Momma!" . Crazy as a waltzing road lizard.

                          By the time he hit that windshield a second time, he was looking at the business end of a .38. The wife told him she wasn't his momma and if he didn't get off of her car, she'd kill him on the spot. Apparently, she made a persuasive argument, because he decided to jump off the car and run down a side road. She called the cops and the deputy was there within a minute. The guy was an escaped mental patient from the state mental hospital and was known to be violent.

                          Within five minutes there were a half dozen deputies and a dog team searching for him. She later found out it took them hours to run him down in the woods.

                          “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                          Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                          • JollyJ Offline
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                            Jolly
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #26

                            A word about women and carry pistols...

                            What fits a man, doesn't always fit a woman. Some people are also more sensitive to recoil. A .44 loudenboomer does you no good if it scares you and you can't hit the side of a barn with it.

                            Without fifty rounds of practice a month, most people don't handle anything other than 9mm or 38spl very well (several people carry .357 magnums with .38spl +P rounds), so I think those are the upper limit of defensive rounds.

                            Right now is a very bad time to buy a gun, as selection is scarce and ammo is darn near unobtainable.

                            Some I think fit a woman well are the Ruger LCR revolvers, the Smith&Wesson revolvers, the S&W .380 EZ, S&W Shield, Springfield Armory Hellcat, Glock 42, Glock G26, Sig P365. For very deep cover, you might consider a S&W Bodyguard .380 or a Ruger LCP II. The Ruger comes in .22LR, for those who don't like recoil in a mouse gun.

                            Be aware that any small, light handgun in a centerfire caliber can be a little snappy. Shoot what you can handle. My wife has no problem with large caliber rifles or shotguns, but her arthritic hands are too weak for a heavy recoiling handgun.

                            If you decide to carry, a concealed carry class and weapons training us mandatory. With situational awareness and avoiding bad situations, chances are pretty good you'll never gave to even draw a weapon.

                            But as the old saying goes, It's better to have a gun and not need it, than to need one and not have it.

                            Your life, your decision. Choose wisely.😊

                            “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                            Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                              taiwan_girl
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                              #27

                              I remember reading an article or a paper about the “war” with USSR when President Reagan was US President

                              One quote of his talking about the “arm race” (and I am sure I don’t have it exactly right ) had always remembered me. It was something like

                              “We don’t arm ourselves because we fear each other. We fear each other BECAUSE we arm ourselves”

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                              • taiwan_girlT taiwan_girl

                                I remember reading an article or a paper about the “war” with USSR when President Reagan was US President

                                One quote of his talking about the “arm race” (and I am sure I don’t have it exactly right ) had always remembered me. It was something like

                                “We don’t arm ourselves because we fear each other. We fear each other BECAUSE we arm ourselves”

                                JollyJ Offline
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                                Jolly
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #28

                                @taiwan_girl said in Packin':

                                I remember reading an article or a paper about the “war” with USSR when President Reagan was US President

                                One quote of his talking about the “arm race” (and I am sure I don’t have it exactly right ) had always remembered me. It was something like

                                “We don’t arm ourselves because we fear each other. We fear each other BECAUSE we arm ourselves”

                                I quote Heinlein quite a bit...An armed society is a polite society.

                                Chew on that one a bit...

                                “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                • JollyJ Jolly

                                  @taiwan_girl said in Packin':

                                  I remember reading an article or a paper about the “war” with USSR when President Reagan was US President

                                  One quote of his talking about the “arm race” (and I am sure I don’t have it exactly right ) had always remembered me. It was something like

                                  “We don’t arm ourselves because we fear each other. We fear each other BECAUSE we arm ourselves”

                                  I quote Heinlein quite a bit...An armed society is a polite society.

                                  Chew on that one a bit...

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                                  taiwan_girl
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #29

                                  @Jolly said in Packin':

                                  @taiwan_girl said in Packin':

                                  I remember reading an article or a paper about the “war” with USSR when President Reagan was US President

                                  One quote of his talking about the “arm race” (and I am sure I don’t have it exactly right ) had always remembered me. It was something like

                                  “We don’t arm ourselves because we fear each other. We fear each other BECAUSE we arm ourselves”

                                  I quote Heinlein quite a bit...An armed society is a polite society.

                                  Chew on that one a bit...

                                  Tell that to the Japanese. 😂😂

                                  Probably the politest society I have visited (and one of the least amount of guns anywhere)

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                                    I really don't mind if strangers around me fear me a little. Fear is quite cautionary.

                                    “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                                    • taiwan_girlT taiwan_girl

                                      @Jolly said in Packin':

                                      @taiwan_girl said in Packin':

                                      I remember reading an article or a paper about the “war” with USSR when President Reagan was US President

                                      One quote of his talking about the “arm race” (and I am sure I don’t have it exactly right ) had always remembered me. It was something like

                                      “We don’t arm ourselves because we fear each other. We fear each other BECAUSE we arm ourselves”

                                      I quote Heinlein quite a bit...An armed society is a polite society.

                                      Chew on that one a bit...

                                      Tell that to the Japanese. 😂😂

                                      Probably the politest society I have visited (and one of the least amount of guns anywhere)

                                      JollyJ Offline
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                                      Jolly
                                      wrote on last edited by Jolly
                                      #31

                                      @taiwan_girl said in Packin':

                                      @Jolly said in Packin':

                                      @taiwan_girl said in Packin':

                                      I remember reading an article or a paper about the “war” with USSR when President Reagan was US President

                                      One quote of his talking about the “arm race” (and I am sure I don’t have it exactly right ) had always remembered me. It was something like

                                      “We don’t arm ourselves because we fear each other. We fear each other BECAUSE we arm ourselves”

                                      I quote Heinlein quite a bit...An armed society is a polite society.

                                      Chew on that one a bit...

                                      Tell that to the Japanese. 😂😂

                                      Probably the politest society I have visited (and one of the least amount of guns anywhere)

                                      And the originator of some of the best swords and knives on the planet.

                                      Did you know a good Japanese tanto will go right through a bulletproof vest?

                                      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                      • JollyJ Jolly

                                        I've talked about them before and I find it astonishing you don't hang on my every word.😄😄😄😄😄

                                        The first time, my wife caught somebody trying to burgularize my dad's house. She called the cops and had the gentleman cool his heels a bit until the deputies got there. TG could make the argument my wife could have avoided drawing her .38...I think this situation can be argued both ways.

                                        The other can't. My wife was sitting in her car on the shoulder of the road, waiting on AAA to change out a flat tire. A pickup truck was slowing down on the highway and a guy jumped out of the bed, while the truck was still going 30mph or so. He went rolling down the ditch, finally coming to a stop. Scratched and bleeding, he makes a beeline for my wife's car at a dead run. He jumps up on the hood and starts to beat bloody fist prints on the windshield, screaming "Momma! Momma!" . Crazy as a waltzing road lizard.

                                        By the time he hit that windshield a second time, he was looking at the business end of a .38. The wife told him she wasn't his momma and if he didn't get off of her car, she'd kill him on the spot. Apparently, she made a persuasive argument, because he decided to jump off the car and run down a side road. She called the cops and the deputy was there within a minute. The guy was an escaped mental patient from the state mental hospital and was known to be violent.

                                        Within five minutes there were a half dozen deputies and a dog team searching for him. She later found out it took them hours to run him down in the woods.

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                                        wrote on last edited by
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                                        @Jolly
                                        I can imagine Mrs. Jolly tolerates no nonsense. She and I would get along just fine.

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                                          My wife is the epitome of Southern country manners and grace. She is one of the most thoughtful and nice women you will ever meet.

                                          And she would jerk a knot in your tail in a New York second, if needs be.

                                          “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                          Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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