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9 years ago today

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  • HoraceH Offline
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    Horace
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    Happy Tranniversary!

    Education is extremely important.

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    😊
    • MikM Away
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      Mik
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      #6

      You might wanna check your terminology there, Ax. 😆

      "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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      • jon-nycJ Online
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        #7

        Lol. The lung transplant crowd calls it ‘lungaversery’ which I find cutesy and annoying. Tranniversery confuses the organ I had swapped out.

        Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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        • MikM Away
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          Yeah, but it is more versatile.

          "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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          • markM Offline
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            Breathaversery.

            Very happy that you are still with us. I'm looking forward to seeing you again.

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            • 89th8 Offline
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              89th
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              #10

              Happy July 16th aka tranny day!

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              • 89th8 Offline
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                89th
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                #11

                Srsly tho, this happened when I was not on the forum for classified reasons… where were you living at the time, and you mentioned prep at the hospital…were you living in North Carolina?

                Is it possible to describe the before vs after (once the meds wore off)?

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                • markM mark

                  Breathaversery.

                  Very happy that you are still with us. I'm looking forward to seeing you again.

                  MikM Away
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                  Mik
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                  @mark said in 9 years ago today:

                  Breathaversery.

                  Very happy that you are still with us. I'm looking forward to seeing you again.

                  Much better term.

                  "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                  • 89th8 Offline
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                    89th
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                    #13

                    Better than Suckiversary

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                    • LuFins DadL Offline
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                      #14

                      I was originally going with An-aeroversary but realized the an completely ruined it…

                      The Brad

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                      • KlausK Offline
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                        Gaspaversary?

                        Spock might call it "Lung and Prosper Day".

                        It's really cool that it worked out so well!

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                          Happy Respiraversary!!!

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                          • Doctor PhibesD Offline
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                            Doctor Phibes
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                            Congratulations!! It's been a lung time.

                            I was only joking

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                            • 89th8 89th

                              Srsly tho, this happened when I was not on the forum for classified reasons… where were you living at the time, and you mentioned prep at the hospital…were you living in North Carolina?

                              Is it possible to describe the before vs after (once the meds wore off)?

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                              jon-nyc
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                              #18

                              @89th said in 9 years ago today:

                              Srsly tho, this happened when I was not on the forum for classified reasons… where were you living at the time, and you mentioned prep at the hospital…were you living in North Carolina?

                              So in 2013 we moved to Westchester because I was too sick for city living. You can’t walk three blocks to Trader Joe’s, come back with two bags of groceries under each arm and a three year old on your shoulders with 20% lung function.

                              I first got listed at Columbia, which is 20 minutes from my house as long as it isn’t rush hour. The median wait time then at Columbia was very long, and they wanted to give me just one lung. My Columbia pulmonologist, obviously not on commission, suggested I go to Duke if I could swing it in my personal life. There the median wait time was shorter and they were going to give me two.

                              So we shuttered our house and moved to Chapel Hill. We were optimistic and thought we’d be there 3 months total but ended up there 15 months. My boy went to first grade and the first couple weeks of second grade there.

                              Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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                              • 89th8 89th

                                Srsly tho, this happened when I was not on the forum for classified reasons… where were you living at the time, and you mentioned prep at the hospital…were you living in North Carolina?

                                Is it possible to describe the before vs after (once the meds wore off)?

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                                jon-nyc
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                                @89th said in 9 years ago today:

                                Is it possible to describe the before vs after (once the meds wore off)?

                                There isn’t really a moment where you’re like ‘wow, I can breath again’. It comes back over a few weeks. You sort of have to learn how to breathe again. When you have very little lung function, especially with obstructive lung disease, you stop breathing with your diaphragm and start using these ancillary muscles higher up in your chest and shoulders. This just happens to you over time, obviously not something you do consciously. We actually practiced diaphragmatic breathing in rehab after transplant.

                                I do remember one special moment, the day I left the hospital (8/1/16), they took the last chest drainage tube out that day (I started with 7 drainage tubes after surgery). I was waiting to be discharged after they removed the tube and I walked down the hall to say goodbye to another transplant patient that was there. I realized that was the first time in years that I walked 100ft without a tube connecting me to a machine. (Remember I carried an oxygen concentrator 24/7 before transplant).

                                Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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                                  One funny story you @89th will appreciate. I got my call on Friday, surgery early Saturday. Monday they took me out of ICU and put me in ‘step down’, a normal room. That room had a TV and that was the first night of the GOP convention of 2016 where Trump was nominated. My nurse, a middle aged African American lady, was in my room at the time and I said “Oh no, I died in surgery and this is hell.’ She cracked up and I got great service from her for the next two weeks.

                                  Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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                                  • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                                    One funny story you @89th will appreciate. I got my call on Friday, surgery early Saturday. Monday they took me out of ICU and put me in ‘step down’, a normal room. That room had a TV and that was the first night of the GOP convention of 2016 where Trump was nominated. My nurse, a middle aged African American lady, was in my room at the time and I said “Oh no, I died in surgery and this is hell.’ She cracked up and I got great service from her for the next two weeks.

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                                    @jon-nyc said in 9 years ago today:

                                    One funny story you @89th will appreciate. I got my call on Friday, surgery early Saturday. Monday they took me out of ICU and put me in ‘step down’, a normal room. That room had a TV and that was the first night of the GOP convention of 2016 where Trump was nominated. My nurse, a middle aged African American lady, was in my room at the time and I said “Oh no, I died in surgery and this is hell.’ She cracked up and I got great service from her for the next two weeks.

                                    lol that's great

                                    I was only joking

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                                      blondie
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                                      Happy Anniversary @jon-nyc . I’m particularly impressed with all your athletic endeavours post transplant. And the multiple trips with your son. And your work with your foundation. And your new lady. You certainly live a full life!

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                                      • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                                        One funny story you @89th will appreciate. I got my call on Friday, surgery early Saturday. Monday they took me out of ICU and put me in ‘step down’, a normal room. That room had a TV and that was the first night of the GOP convention of 2016 where Trump was nominated. My nurse, a middle aged African American lady, was in my room at the time and I said “Oh no, I died in surgery and this is hell.’ She cracked up and I got great service from her for the next two weeks.

                                        MikM Away
                                        MikM Away
                                        Mik
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                                        @jon-nyc said in 9 years ago today:

                                        One funny story you @89th will appreciate. I got my call on Friday, surgery early Saturday. Monday they took me out of ICU and put me in ‘step down’, a normal room. That room had a TV and that was the first night of the GOP convention of 2016 where Trump was nominated. My nurse, a middle aged African American lady, was in my room at the time and I said “Oh no, I died in surgery and this is hell.’ She cracked up and I got great service from her for the next two weeks.

                                        Great story, previously unheard.

                                        "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                                        • jon-nycJ jon-nyc

                                          One funny story you @89th will appreciate. I got my call on Friday, surgery early Saturday. Monday they took me out of ICU and put me in ‘step down’, a normal room. That room had a TV and that was the first night of the GOP convention of 2016 where Trump was nominated. My nurse, a middle aged African American lady, was in my room at the time and I said “Oh no, I died in surgery and this is hell.’ She cracked up and I got great service from her for the next two weeks.

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                                          @jon-nyc Ha, great story about the debate. And thanks for the other insights, really happy for you of course that this all worked out, and glad you were able to make the move to Chapel Hill.

                                          Was there any part of you that wanted to stay in NC since you had been there for 15 years and your boy was in school? I'd imagine the "this is temporary" feeling never wore off so it was natural to rebound back to NYC.

                                          And since I'm known for asking too many questions, how was this on Rachel back then?

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