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  • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

    @Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:

    You're going to have an uphill battle if your starting position is, "see at British restaurants it's better because—"

    I wasn't talking about restaurants. However, I'd argue that based on personal experience both Italian and French restaurants are considerably better than American ones, which are much more similar to British ones than you might like to admit.

    Have you ever been to a British pub?

    And I don't mean a pub that sells beer in a former British colony.

    I'm not complaining about the mechanics of tipping. I'm complaining about the expectation of having to pay 20% and more for a round of drinks. It's a bit much.

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    Aqua Letifer
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    @Doctor-Phibes said in The digital tip jar:

    @Aqua-Letifer said in The digital tip jar:

    Have you ever been to a British pub?

    🙄Yes, I have. Mind you, it was London, but I went to a few and they were fine for what they were, but on the whole I find it surprising anyone would actually boast about them. Scotland's were better in my opinion, if for no other reason than the stuffed shirt douchebag saturation level was lower.

    I'm complaining about the expectation of having to pay 20% and more for a round of drinks. It's a bit much.

    I find it no coincidence whatsoever that you're also from one of the most socially conservative and reserved developed countries in the world.

    Please love yourself.

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      Doctor Phibes
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      #100

      I think you went to the wrong pubs. At the last one I went to there were two lesbians making out at the next table 😄

      Admittedly, we left in disgust - they were charging 6 pounds a pint!

      I was only joking

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        #101

        Kind of irony that this article came across me this evening. LOL

        https://thehill.com/homenews/nexstar_media_wire/4039611-tipping-backlash-these-americans-are-giving-the-least-in-2023-study-finds/

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        • MikM Away
          MikM Away
          Mik
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          #102

          As I've said before, I love to tip generously because it means I had a great experience. Gave nearly 40% yesterday. Great food, great server, great experience.

          “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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          • MikM Mik

            As I've said before, I love to tip generously because it means I had a great experience. Gave nearly 40% yesterday. Great food, great server, great experience.

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            Aqua Letifer
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            #103

            @Mik said in The digital tip jar:

            As I've said before, I love to tip generously because it means I had a great experience. Gave nearly 40% yesterday. Great food, great server, great experience.

            TG would have you believe that you would have had just as great service if the server made minimum wage and tipping became illegal. Like at McDonald's.

            Please love yourself.

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            • RainmanR Offline
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              Rainman
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              #104

              And she's entitled to her opinion.

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              • RainmanR Rainman

                And she's entitled to her opinion.

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                Aqua Letifer
                wrote on last edited by
                #105

                @Rainman said in The digital tip jar:

                And she's entitled to her opinion.

                Well sure, absolutely. We're all free to express ideas and share opinions, no matter how presumptive or misinformed. Look at RFK Jr.

                Please love yourself.

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                  Rainman
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #106

                  I'd like to see this forum attract new members, especially those that play piano or another instrument, and don't want anyone to feel like it's too uncomfortable or mean-spirited personal around here.
                  Personally, I tip like Mik because in part I worked as a busboy years ago, and tips doled down to me by some of the waiters made a huge difference. But TG has a different experience from a different culture, and we all love her dearly even though she's cheap (just a joke TG!)

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                    Aqua Letifer
                    wrote on last edited by Aqua Letifer
                    #107

                    @Rainman said in The digital tip jar:

                    Personally, I tip like Mik because in part I worked as a busboy years ago, and tips doled down to me by some of the waiters made a huge difference. But TG has a different experience from a different culture, and we all love her dearly even though she's cheap (just a joke TG!)

                    You're not seeing the difference.

                    I've never once tried to convince Phibes, TG, Klaus or anyone else that what they do where they live is wrong, broken, or anything else. I'd never advocate that tipping should be adopted and mandatory in the UK, Germany, or anywhere else. I'm fine with how they do things.

                    TG isn't preaching "to each their own." According to her, in this very thread, “there is something wrong with the system in the US.” That sounds tolerant and accepting to you? We have someone who admittedly has never done the very thing she's suggesting we should completely abolish because she doesn't like it. Fuck that. I may have an abrasive conversational style but I'm not the one placing value judgments on other countries here.

                    Please love yourself.

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                    • RainmanR Rainman

                      I'd like to see this forum attract new members, especially those that play piano or another instrument, and don't want anyone to feel like it's too uncomfortable or mean-spirited personal around here.
                      Personally, I tip like Mik because in part I worked as a busboy years ago, and tips doled down to me by some of the waiters made a huge difference. But TG has a different experience from a different culture, and we all love her dearly even though she's cheap (just a joke TG!)

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                      Horace
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                      #108

                      @Rainman said in The digital tip jar:

                      I'd like to see this forum attract new members, especially those that play piano or another instrument, and don't want anyone to feel like it's too uncomfortable or mean-spirited personal around here.

                      Or we could post whatever we feel like and let the chips fall where they may, in terms of unicorn new posters who will shit out pure rainbows for us.

                      Education is extremely important.

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                      • MikM Mik

                        As I've said before, I love to tip generously because it means I had a great experience. Gave nearly 40% yesterday. Great food, great server, great experience.

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                        #109

                        @Mik said in The digital tip jar:

                        As I've said before, I love to tip generously because it means I had a great experience. Gave nearly 40% yesterday. Great food, great server, great experience.

                        Went to Benihanas for a welcome back dinner for Karla. Food bill was $180, but Luke gets a 50% discount as a server. So $90 plus a $30 bar tab (2 beers for me and a Sake for Karla). I tipped the server $60. That’s a 50% tip. I win! :p…

                        The Brad

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                          #110

                          I tip 80% on the first $10 of the bill, if the bill is $100 or more. Not to brag. Which is to say, I tip 160% on the first $5. Not to brag. I leave these tips with great humility, in the hopes I can change the life of the lowly server.

                          Education is extremely important.

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                            #111

                            Horace, waiting for a bill is selfish. It implies you got received a good or service in return. Personally, not to brag, I just go into restaurants and hand them cash and then I leave. I don't even let them hold the door for me. Although I guess one could argue I am benefiting from their air conditioning and lighting when I'm inside the building. Next I'll just throw cash at doorways while I walk by. Then I shall achieve a perfect cultural rating from my TNCR peers.

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                            • 89th8 89th

                              Horace, waiting for a bill is selfish. It implies you got received a good or service in return. Personally, not to brag, I just go into restaurants and hand them cash and then I leave. I don't even let them hold the door for me. Although I guess one could argue I am benefiting from their air conditioning and lighting when I'm inside the building. Next I'll just throw cash at doorways while I walk by. Then I shall achieve a perfect cultural rating from my TNCR peers.

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                              wrote on last edited by
                              #112

                              @89th said in The digital tip jar:

                              Horace, waiting for a bill is selfish. It implies you got received a good or service in return. Personally, not to brag, I just go into restaurants and hand them cash and then I leave. I don't even let them hold the door for me. Although I guess one could argue I am benefiting from their air conditioning and lighting when I'm inside the building. Next I'll just throw cash at doorways while I walk by. Then I shall achieve a perfect cultural rating from my TNCR peers.

                              It's humbling to be in the presence of this level of virtue.

                              Education is extremely important.

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                              • HoraceH Horace

                                @89th said in The digital tip jar:

                                Horace, waiting for a bill is selfish. It implies you got received a good or service in return. Personally, not to brag, I just go into restaurants and hand them cash and then I leave. I don't even let them hold the door for me. Although I guess one could argue I am benefiting from their air conditioning and lighting when I'm inside the building. Next I'll just throw cash at doorways while I walk by. Then I shall achieve a perfect cultural rating from my TNCR peers.

                                It's humbling to be in the presence of this level of virtue.

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                                Doctor Phibes
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #113

                                @Horace said in The digital tip jar:

                                @89th said in The digital tip jar:

                                Horace, waiting for a bill is selfish. It implies you got received a good or service in return. Personally, not to brag, I just go into restaurants and hand them cash and then I leave. I don't even let them hold the door for me. Although I guess one could argue I am benefiting from their air conditioning and lighting when I'm inside the building. Next I'll just throw cash at doorways while I walk by. Then I shall achieve a perfect cultural rating from my TNCR peers.

                                It's humbling to be in the presence of this level of virtue.

                                I make up for 89 by buying a meal and then doing a runner. I bring balance, which is important

                                I was only joking

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                                • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

                                  @Horace said in The digital tip jar:

                                  @89th said in The digital tip jar:

                                  Horace, waiting for a bill is selfish. It implies you got received a good or service in return. Personally, not to brag, I just go into restaurants and hand them cash and then I leave. I don't even let them hold the door for me. Although I guess one could argue I am benefiting from their air conditioning and lighting when I'm inside the building. Next I'll just throw cash at doorways while I walk by. Then I shall achieve a perfect cultural rating from my TNCR peers.

                                  It's humbling to be in the presence of this level of virtue.

                                  I make up for 89 by buying a meal and then doing a runner. I bring balance, which is important

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                                  Horace
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                                  #114

                                  @Doctor-Phibes said in The digital tip jar:

                                  @Horace said in The digital tip jar:

                                  @89th said in The digital tip jar:

                                  Horace, waiting for a bill is selfish. It implies you got received a good or service in return. Personally, not to brag, I just go into restaurants and hand them cash and then I leave. I don't even let them hold the door for me. Although I guess one could argue I am benefiting from their air conditioning and lighting when I'm inside the building. Next I'll just throw cash at doorways while I walk by. Then I shall achieve a perfect cultural rating from my TNCR peers.

                                  It's humbling to be in the presence of this level of virtue.

                                  I make up for 89 by buying a meal and then doing a runner. I bring balance, which is important

                                  Both sides are equal, IMO.

                                  Education is extremely important.

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                                  • HoraceH Horace

                                    I tip 80% on the first $10 of the bill, if the bill is $100 or more. Not to brag. Which is to say, I tip 160% on the first $5. Not to brag. I leave these tips with great humility, in the hopes I can change the life of the lowly server.

                                    MikM Away
                                    MikM Away
                                    Mik
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #115

                                    @Horace said in The digital tip jar:

                                    I tip 80% on the first $10 of the bill, if the bill is $100 or more. Not to brag. Which is to say, I tip 160% on the first $5. Not to brag. I leave these tips with great humility, in the hopes I can change the life of the lowly server.

                                    Reparations. Sort of.

                                    “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                                    • LuFins DadL LuFins Dad

                                      @Mik said in The digital tip jar:

                                      As I've said before, I love to tip generously because it means I had a great experience. Gave nearly 40% yesterday. Great food, great server, great experience.

                                      Went to Benihanas for a welcome back dinner for Karla. Food bill was $180, but Luke gets a 50% discount as a server. So $90 plus a $30 bar tab (2 beers for me and a Sake for Karla). I tipped the server $60. That’s a 50% tip. I win! :p…

                                      MikM Away
                                      MikM Away
                                      Mik
                                      wrote on last edited by
                                      #116

                                      @LuFins-Dad said in The digital tip jar:

                                      @Mik said in The digital tip jar:

                                      As I've said before, I love to tip generously because it means I had a great experience. Gave nearly 40% yesterday. Great food, great server, great experience.

                                      Went to Benihanas for a welcome back dinner for Karla. Food bill was $180, but Luke gets a 50% discount as a server. So $90 plus a $30 bar tab (2 beers for me and a Sake for Karla). I tipped the server $60. That’s a 50% tip. I win! :p…

                                      If you weren't a cheap bastard you'd have taken them to place where you didn't get a discount. Think of the things you are depriving the poor owner of. Privileged indeed.

                                      “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                                        #117

                                        https://www.npr.org/2023/06/28/1184894498/the-driving-forces-behind-tip-flation

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                                          I am running at windmills again. 555 Maybe at some point, i will change my profile picture.

                                          https://www.axios.com/local/chicago/2023/09/19/tipped-minimum-wage-ordinance?utm_source=newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=newsletter_axioslocal_chicago&stream=top

                                          Tipped work (some lucrative, lots not) has been a part of our economy for more than 150 years, and ending it could massively shift how Chicagoans pay for services, run businesses and earn a living.

                                          On Wednesday, the City Council Committee on Workforce Development is expected to introduce and advance a proposal to phase out the minimum wage for tipped workers (currently $9.48 an hour) over five years.

                                          Under the plan, businesses would be required to increase tipped workers' wages by 8% annually until they're paid the same minimum wage as other employees in the city ($15.80).
                                          Of note: Workers could still accept additional tips.
                                          Catch up fast: The proposed ordinance was recently revised in a deal hammered out between Mayor Brandon Johnson, alders and the Illinois Restaurant Association (IRA).

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