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I'm glad others aren't anonymous

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  • 89th8 Offline
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    A new family just moved across the street. Haven't had a chance to meet them yet, but thanks to the internet, I was able to see within a matter of "literally" 5 minutes, the following:

    • Their names based on county public real estate records
    • Searched their names and found:
    • Their LinkedIn, so I know who they work for, when they went to college, etc. Therefore I generally know their age.
    • Their wedding website, so I know how they met, how they got engaged, etc.
    • Their public instagram, so now I know their kids names, birthdates (they posted about this)
    • Using whitepages I found their previous house, when it sold (last week), as well as pictures of it inside

    I know, you're going to say I'm a stalker, but once I saw their names update on the county records, it's crazy how much information was available within a few minutes.

    Now, to act surprised when they tell me their names and how many kids they have... LOL

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    • AxtremusA Offline
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      Can they use similar methods to find out similarly detailed information about you, too?

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      • markM Offline
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        mark
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        Stalker! 🤣

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        • MikM Offline
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          Mik
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          Creeper.

          "You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible." — Thomas Sowell

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          • AxtremusA Axtremus

            Can they use similar methods to find out similarly detailed information about you, too?

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            89th
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            @Axtremus said in I'm glad others aren't anonymous:

            Can they use similar methods to find out similarly detailed information about you, too?

            Not really.

            Name, sure. Public records. But I'm not on LinkedIn, don't have a wedding website, don't have a public instagram, heck if you search for my name exactly I'm not found (I haven't looked beyond Google page one, though)

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              blondie
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              I remember the good old days, just wandering over, saying “Welcome to the neighborhood”, and getting most of that info.

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              • B blondie

                I remember the good old days, just wandering over, saying “Welcome to the neighborhood”, and getting most of that info.

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                89th
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                @blondie We still do that too. I’m just commenting on how much information people leave online!

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