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Mom, stop sexualizing me!

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    Jolly
    wrote on 23 Jul 2022, 20:28 last edited by
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    I had a 13 year-old daughter. I might explain why "No" meant no (usually did), but I'm not engaging in deep psychological mumbo jumbo with somebody with a mind of mush.

    https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/wellness/my-13-year-old-daughter-thinks-i-m-sexualizing-her-what-should-i-do/ar-AAZTn1i?ocid=msedgntp&cvid=55ca33473eaa4fa3bc472ae79fb6613c

    β€œCry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

    Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". β€” Buck Sexton

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    • J Jolly
      23 Jul 2022, 20:28

      I had a 13 year-old daughter. I might explain why "No" meant no (usually did), but I'm not engaging in deep psychological mumbo jumbo with somebody with a mind of mush.

      https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/wellness/my-13-year-old-daughter-thinks-i-m-sexualizing-her-what-should-i-do/ar-AAZTn1i?ocid=msedgntp&cvid=55ca33473eaa4fa3bc472ae79fb6613c

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      Aqua Letifer
      wrote on 23 Jul 2022, 23:15 last edited by
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      @Jolly said in Mom, stop sexualizing me!:

      I had a 13 year-old daughter. I might explain why "No" meant no (usually did), but I'm not engaging in deep psychological mumbo jumbo with somebody with a mind of mush.

      Kids aren't great at rational thinking, but they're extremely intuitive. They know full well when you're trying to level with them, and I think they always appreciate it.

      But they also damn well know how to pull different levers to try to change the power dynamic.

      Please love yourself.

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        Jolly
        wrote on 24 Jul 2022, 00:01 last edited by
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        I have no levers. πŸ˜‰

        In all seriousness, my son once told his sister to quit bitching and just come help me. He told her it's not going to take very long and you know Daddy will not stay off of our butts until we get it done.

        They were much, much better at working their mother. I can be worked, but it's a lot harder.

        β€œCry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". β€” Buck Sexton

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        • J Jolly
          24 Jul 2022, 00:01

          I have no levers. πŸ˜‰

          In all seriousness, my son once told his sister to quit bitching and just come help me. He told her it's not going to take very long and you know Daddy will not stay off of our butts until we get it done.

          They were much, much better at working their mother. I can be worked, but it's a lot harder.

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          Aqua Letifer
          wrote on 24 Jul 2022, 00:10 last edited by
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          @Jolly said in Mom, stop sexualizing me!:

          I have no levers. πŸ˜‰

          In all seriousness, my son once told his sister to quit bitching and just come help me. He told her it's not going to take very long and you know Daddy will not stay off of our butts until we get it done.

          They were much, much better at working their mother. I can be worked, but it's a lot harder.

          My daughter is, I believe, going to be too nice a kid to plumb the depths of Machiavellianism I dabbled in. She's going to be a terrible handful, but probably not as bad as me.

          Please love yourself.

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            24 Jul 2022, 00:10

            @Jolly said in Mom, stop sexualizing me!:

            I have no levers. πŸ˜‰

            In all seriousness, my son once told his sister to quit bitching and just come help me. He told her it's not going to take very long and you know Daddy will not stay off of our butts until we get it done.

            They were much, much better at working their mother. I can be worked, but it's a lot harder.

            My daughter is, I believe, going to be too nice a kid to plumb the depths of Machiavellianism I dabbled in. She's going to be a terrible handful, but probably not as bad as me.

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            Doctor Phibes
            wrote on 24 Jul 2022, 00:45 last edited by
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            @Aqua-Letifer said in Mom, stop sexualizing me!:

            My daughter is, I believe, going to be too nice a kid to plumb the depths of Machiavellianism I dabbled in. She's going to be a terrible handful, but probably not as bad as me.

            If she's really smart, you'll keep on believing that.

            I was only joking

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            • D Doctor Phibes
              24 Jul 2022, 00:45

              @Aqua-Letifer said in Mom, stop sexualizing me!:

              My daughter is, I believe, going to be too nice a kid to plumb the depths of Machiavellianism I dabbled in. She's going to be a terrible handful, but probably not as bad as me.

              If she's really smart, you'll keep on believing that.

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              Aqua Letifer
              wrote on 24 Jul 2022, 00:54 last edited by
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              @Doctor-Phibes said in Mom, stop sexualizing me!:

              @Aqua-Letifer said in Mom, stop sexualizing me!:

              My daughter is, I believe, going to be too nice a kid to plumb the depths of Machiavellianism I dabbled in. She's going to be a terrible handful, but probably not as bad as me.

              If she's really smart, you'll keep on believing that.

              I know that game, too. πŸ˜„

              But yeah I dunno, we'll have to see.

              Please love yourself.

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              • J Jolly
                24 Jul 2022, 00:01

                I have no levers. πŸ˜‰

                In all seriousness, my son once told his sister to quit bitching and just come help me. He told her it's not going to take very long and you know Daddy will not stay off of our butts until we get it done.

                They were much, much better at working their mother. I can be worked, but it's a lot harder.

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                LuFins Dad
                wrote on 24 Jul 2022, 00:54 last edited by
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                @Jolly said in Mom, stop sexualizing me!:

                I have no levers. πŸ˜‰

                In all seriousness, my son once told his sister to quit bitching and just come help me. He told her it's not going to take very long and you know Daddy will not stay off of our butts until we get it done.

                They were much, much better at working their mother. I can be worked, but it's a lot harder.

                Lucas was able to work me, not his mom. So far, Finley has his mom wrapped around his finger.

                The Brad

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                  89th
                  wrote on 24 Jul 2022, 12:48 last edited by
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                  You'd think telling the 13 year old she needs to be modest would be enough. πŸ™‚

                  Clearly I only have a 4 year old, don't have to worry about this yet.

                  But yes kids will be kids. I remember my parents wanted me to go to school with a tucket in shirt with jeans or something at one point....so I would get to to school, go to the bathroom, and switch into jogging pants or whatever I thought was better at the time.

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