Amazing deals as people downsize
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@jolly said in Amazing deals as people downsize:
The dining room set being unwanted kinda makes me sad. I think families are better off when they turn off the noise boxes and sit down and eat together.
Agreed. Are there stats of fewer dining room sets selling, or it being a less frequent thing for families to sit down and eat together? I know what I'll do with my family...but can imagine the trends are very positive across the country.
@89th said in Amazing deals as people downsize:
Agreed. Are there stats of fewer dining room sets selling, or it being a less frequent thing for families to sit down and eat together? I know what I'll do with my family...but can imagine the trends are very positive across the country.
My wife's family never had that. Gotta drop the kids off here, gotta go to my appointment there, etc. They were always too busy with their activities, going here and there, very busy household.
These people cannot manage moving furniture together. I shit you not, they cannot do it. It devolves into shouting and insults and it never gets done. Moving chairs from the kitchen to the dining room is beyond them. As are walking through Target, making a drive-through order and watering flowers. I have no idea why my wife's so well-adjusted, it's a miracle.
I'm not saying that some hokey, Norman Rockwell-type family dinner routine would magically fix all this, but it's obvious that they could seriously benefit from daily practice at being a family.
My thing is, I don't care what meal it is, breakfast or dinner, but we're going to give each other our undivided attention at least once a day, and we're going to plan for it so that it's never skipped.
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@89th said in Amazing deals as people downsize:
Agreed. Are there stats of fewer dining room sets selling, or it being a less frequent thing for families to sit down and eat together? I know what I'll do with my family...but can imagine the trends are very positive across the country.
My wife's family never had that. Gotta drop the kids off here, gotta go to my appointment there, etc. They were always too busy with their activities, going here and there, very busy household.
These people cannot manage moving furniture together. I shit you not, they cannot do it. It devolves into shouting and insults and it never gets done. Moving chairs from the kitchen to the dining room is beyond them. As are walking through Target, making a drive-through order and watering flowers. I have no idea why my wife's so well-adjusted, it's a miracle.
I'm not saying that some hokey, Norman Rockwell-type family dinner routine would magically fix all this, but it's obvious that they could seriously benefit from daily practice at being a family.
My thing is, I don't care what meal it is, breakfast or dinner, but we're going to give each other our undivided attention at least once a day, and we're going to plan for it so that it's never skipped.
@aqua-letifer woot! And I'm biased because it's how I grew up (including many dinners where my brothers and I had to stand in the corner for misbehaving
) but I hope to continue the tradition as my kids get older. Right now dinners are more of time where the 8 month old is dropping everything on the ground and we have a limited few minutes of quiet. -
Growing up, 8 of us had dinner at the kitchen table every night. Except on Sunday when we all had dinner at my grandmother's dining room table.
Now it's the table in the breakfast nook at my house or my daughter's on weekends. The dining rooms gathers dust.
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Look, I don't live in as large a house as many of you do. There's a couple of barstools by the kitchen bartop, but we never eat there. Other than that, the dining table is right there.
Most of the time, I don't have the leaves in, so it only seats six. When the kids are home or friends drop by, I sometimes need all the table I can get. We can feed 8 with space, or 12 if we get real friendly.
I just like taking my meals at the table. Occasionally, for shits and grins, I enjoy pulling out the china and the matching glasses and actually having a nice dinner with friends.
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Look, I don't live in as large a house as many of you do. There's a couple of barstools by the kitchen bartop, but we never eat there. Other than that, the dining table is right there.
Most of the time, I don't have the leaves in, so it only seats six. When the kids are home or friends drop by, I sometimes need all the table I can get. We can feed 8 with space, or 12 if we get real friendly.
I just like taking my meals at the table. Occasionally, for shits and grins, I enjoy pulling out the china and the matching glasses and actually having a nice dinner with friends.
@jolly said in Amazing deals as people downsize:
Look, I don't live in as large a house as many of you do. There's a couple of barstools by the kitchen bartop, but we never eat there. Other than that, the dining table is right there.
Most of the time, I don't have the leaves in, so it only seats six. When the kids are home or friends drop by, I sometimes need all the table I can get. We can feed 8 with space, or 12 if we get real friendly.
I just like taking my meals at the table. Occasionally, for shits and grins, I enjoy pulling out the china and the matching glasses and actually having a nice dinner with friends.
Don't sweat it, man. We still use a dining room table, too.
But in the post-COVID times, it also doubles as our work desk.
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We had our dining room set built by the local Amish. Solid Oak, 54"x 12' with the leaves in. It seats 12 easily and more if you get cozy.
The hutch is 7' tall by 96" wide
I cannot imagine anyone wanting such a table or china cupboard/hutch. It will stay with this house when we leave, because we designed it for this house.
We used to fill it with family every holiday.
Now it's just 2 or 3 of us. Holidays might see 6 to 8 people.
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We had our dining room set built by the local Amish. Solid Oak, 54"x 12' with the leaves in. It seats 12 easily and more if you get cozy.
The hutch is 7' tall by 96" wide
I cannot imagine anyone wanting such a table or china cupboard/hutch. It will stay with this house when we leave, because we designed it for this house.
We used to fill it with family every holiday.
Now it's just 2 or 3 of us. Holidays might see 6 to 8 people.
@mark said in Amazing deals as people downsize:
We had our dining room set built by the local Amish. Solid Oak, 54"x 12' with the leaves in. It seats 12 easily and more if you get cozy.
The hutch is 7' tall by 96" wide
I cannot imagine anyone wanting such a table or china cupboard/hutch. It will stay with this house when we leave, because we designed it for this house.
We used to fill it with family every holiday.
Now it's just 2 or 3 of us. Holidays might see 6 to 8 people.
You need to feed more people!
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If it’s mid century modern it will capture a premium. Otherwise I heard from someone, if it’s brown flush it down.
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If it’s mid century modern it will capture a premium. Otherwise I heard from someone, if it’s brown flush it down.
@loki said in Amazing deals as people downsize:
If it’s mid century modern it will capture a premium. Otherwise I heard from someone, if it’s brown flush it down.
Which is a crying shame. In a few years, fashion will change and people will decry all the painted and distressed furniture...
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If it’s mid century modern it will capture a premium. Otherwise I heard from someone, if it’s brown flush it down.
@loki said in Amazing deals as people downsize:
If it’s mid century modern it will capture a premium. Otherwise I heard from someone, if it’s brown flush it down.
Mid century modern - the furniture none of us wanted to take when we left the house. Too old fashioned.
We eat at either the dining room table, as we did Saturday night, or at a glass topped 4'round table in the sunroom. Or on the deck. If it's just MFR and I we might eat in front of the squackbox if we've been together all day.
