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  • J jon-nyc
    20 Jun 2025, 10:17

    This is sad.

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    Axtremus
    wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 10:28 last edited by
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    @jon-nyc said in Mildly interesting:

    This is sad.

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    Does it come down to institutional attitudes towards birth control or abortion, or the moral chastities of the cultures?

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    • J jon-nyc
      19 Jun 2025, 01:44

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      Axtremus
      wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 10:31 last edited by
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      @jon-nyc said in Mildly interesting:

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      Wonder if there is a similar map for "self-made" billionaires.

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      • J jon-nyc
        20 Jun 2025, 10:17

        This is sad.

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        LuFins Dad
        wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 14:22 last edited by
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        @jon-nyc said in Mildly interesting:

        This is sad.

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        It is.

        Now overlay that map with one with abortion rates. My bet is that one is even sadder.

        The Brad

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          jon-nyc
          wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 15:04 last edited by
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          Also sad.

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          Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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            jon-nyc
            wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 15:41 last edited by
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            Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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            • J jon-nyc
              20 Jun 2025, 15:04

              Also sad.

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              LuFins Dad
              wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 15:48 last edited by
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              @jon-nyc said in Mildly interesting:

              Also sad.

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              Wow, the numbers in the early 1900s were surprisingly high…

              The Brad

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                jon-nyc
                wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 16:32 last edited by
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                That surprised me too. More spinsters as med died more frequently at a younger age?

                Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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                  Axtremus
                  wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 16:58 last edited by
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                  Reagan broke it.

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                  • J jon-nyc
                    20 Jun 2025, 16:32

                    That surprised me too. More spinsters as med died more frequently at a younger age?

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                    Doctor Phibes
                    wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 16:59 last edited by Doctor Phibes
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                    @jon-nyc said in Mildly interesting:

                    That surprised me too. More spinsters as med died more frequently at a younger age?

                    I had a surprising number of maiden great aunts who were born in the 1890's, but I think that was probably due to WW1. The impact of that war would have been less noticeable in the US as a considerably smaller proportion of the male population died.

                    Did the US Civil War affect the 1900 figures?

                    I was only joking

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                    • D Doctor Phibes
                      20 Jun 2025, 16:59

                      @jon-nyc said in Mildly interesting:

                      That surprised me too. More spinsters as med died more frequently at a younger age?

                      I had a surprising number of maiden great aunts who were born in the 1890's, but I think that was probably due to WW1. The impact of that war would have been less noticeable in the US as a considerably smaller proportion of the male population died.

                      Did the US Civil War affect the 1900 figures?

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                      LuFins Dad
                      wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 17:03 last edited by
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                      @Doctor-Phibes said in Mildly interesting:

                      @jon-nyc said in Mildly interesting:

                      That surprised me too. More spinsters as med died more frequently at a younger age?

                      I had a surprising number of maiden great aunts who were born in the 1890's, but I think that was probably due to WW1. The impact of that war would have been less noticeable in the US as a considerably smaller proportion of the male population died.

                      Did the US Civil War affect the 1900 figures?

                      @Doctor-Phibes said in Mildly interesting:

                      @jon-nyc said in Mildly interesting:

                      That surprised me too. More spinsters as med died more frequently at a younger age?

                      I had a surprising number of maiden great aunts who were born in the 1890's, but I think that was probably due to WW1. The impact of that war would have been less noticeable in the US as a considerably smaller proportion of the male population died.

                      Did the US Civil War affect the 1900 figures?

                      That’s what I was wondering about…But then, there’s an old saw about there being no bigger boost in new marriages and babies than a war breaking out. Maybe that’s not as true as advertised.

                      The Brad

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                        20 Jun 2025, 16:58

                        Reagan broke it.

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                        LuFins Dad
                        wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 17:05 last edited by
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                        @Axtremus said in Mildly interesting:

                        Reagan broke it. The birth control pill broke it.

                        The Brad

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                        • L LuFins Dad
                          20 Jun 2025, 17:05

                          @Axtremus said in Mildly interesting:

                          Reagan broke it. The birth control pill broke it.

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                          Axtremus
                          wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 17:46 last edited by
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                          @LuFins-Dad said in Mildly interesting:

                          @Axtremus said in Mildly interesting:

                          Reagan broke it. The birth control pill broke it.

                          Eisenstadt v. Baird was decided in 1972.

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                            LuFins Dad
                            wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 18:01 last edited by
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                            And you expect the cultural ramifications to be immediate? The majority of the women of 32 years of age were already married in 1972… This would have had far greater impact on women younger than 30, with the results becoming noticeable ~ 1980. It also coincides with higher divorce rates, and more women entering the workplace, which completely shifted the economy for good and ill.

                            The Brad

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                              20 Jun 2025, 16:59

                              @jon-nyc said in Mildly interesting:

                              That surprised me too. More spinsters as med died more frequently at a younger age?

                              I had a surprising number of maiden great aunts who were born in the 1890's, but I think that was probably due to WW1. The impact of that war would have been less noticeable in the US as a considerably smaller proportion of the male population died.

                              Did the US Civil War affect the 1900 figures?

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                              blondie
                              wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 18:15 last edited by
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                              @Doctor-Phibes said in Mildly interesting:

                              @jon-nyc said in Mildly interesting:

                              That surprised me too. More spinsters as med died more frequently at a younger age?

                              I had a surprising number of maiden great aunts who were born in the 1890's, but I think that was probably due to WW1. The impact of that war would have been less noticeable in the US as a considerably smaller proportion of the male population died.

                              Did the US Civil War affect the 1900 figures?

                              Me too. My great aunts raised my grandpa in MA. They were from Quebec and relocated to the U.S.. The way I heard it, it was due to the Spanish Flu .. grandpa’s parents died; he was left an orphan, but too young yet to work in factories there.
                              Here, in Alberta, I know ladies, being the last (youngest) sisters, who never marry. They stay in their family homes to care for their parents. Not uncommon.

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                                jon-nyc
                                wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 19:32 last edited by jon-nyc
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                                I asked @Horace’s buddy.

                                Great question. The relatively high percentage of 40-year-olds who had never married in the early 1900s—around 15–16%—can seem surprising, especially given the perception of earlier generations as marrying young and universally. Here are some key historical and social factors that likely contributed to that pattern:

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                                🔹 1. High Male Mortality (e.g., war, workplace)
                                • In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, workplace accidents, infectious diseases, and limited medical care disproportionately affected men.
                                • Some men also delayed or avoided marriage due to economic instability or itinerant work (railroads, mining, etc.).

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                                🔹 2. Economic Constraints
                                • The early 20th century included economic uncertainty and hardship for many, particularly in rural areas. For men, marriage was often viewed as a financial responsibility they shouldn’t take on unless they were established.
                                • For women, financial independence was limited, but familial obligations (like caring for aging parents) sometimes led them to remain single.

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                                🔹 3. Social Norms and Immigration Effects
                                • Large waves of immigrants in the late 1800s and early 1900s (especially from Southern and Eastern Europe) sometimes married later due to economic necessity, cultural adjustment, or unbalanced gender ratios in certain immigrant communities.

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                                🔹 4. Urbanization and Changing Lifestyles
                                • As cities grew, people began to leave traditional family structures. Some individuals delayed marriage while pursuing work or education, which was increasingly available—especially for men.

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                                🔹 5. Data Considerations
                                • Census enumeration methods and definitions of marriage status in the early 1900s may have been less consistent or inclusive (e.g., excluding common-law marriages or counting widowed/divorced differently), possibly inflating the “never married” category slightly compared to later surveys.

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                                📉 Why It Dropped Afterward
                                • From the 1930s through the 1960s, marriage rates soared. This era emphasized early marriage as a social norm, especially post-WWII during the “baby boom” years. That explains the dip in never-married rates among 40-year-olds (as low as 6% by 1980).

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                                So, while it may seem counterintuitive, the early 20th-century U.S. had many social and economic pressures that either delayed or discouraged marriage for a notable minority of the population.

                                Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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                                  bachophile
                                  wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 19:47 last edited by
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                                  Mildly interesting thread

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                                    bachophile
                                    wrote on 20 Jun 2025, 19:56 last edited by
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                                      taiwan_girl
                                      wrote on 21 Jun 2025, 18:46 last edited by
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                                      @bachophile LOL. I thought for the first few seconds it was real.

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                                      • J jon-nyc
                                        20 Jun 2025, 15:41

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                                        Mik
                                        wrote on 21 Jun 2025, 21:34 last edited by
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                                        @jon-nyc said in Mildly interesting:

                                        Dayum. Come the apocalypse the Amish will rule the world.

                                        "The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell." Simone Weil

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                                          jon-nyc
                                          wrote on 22 Jun 2025, 15:20 last edited by
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                                          Allegedly

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                                          Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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