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Are modern women too picky?

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  • RainmanR Offline
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    Rainman
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    For the single people she talks about and their expectations, I wonder how things change as a person ages.

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    • AxtremusA Offline
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      Axtremus
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      #6

      So, uhm, are the women of TNCR going to chime in?

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      • MikM Mik

        3 vs. 300. Sounds about right.

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        @mik said in Are modern women too picky?:

        3 vs. 300. Sounds about right.

        And we all know the guys were lying about how fussy they are.

        I was only joking

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        • AxtremusA Axtremus

          So, uhm, are the women of TNCR going to chime in?

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          Catseye3
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          @axtremus said in Are modern women too picky?:

          So, uhm, are the women of TNCR going to chime in?

          I have limited bandwidth in my plan, and have to be very stingy about what I watch. So I can't afford the squander. So I have no opinon.

          Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

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            jon-nyc
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            #9

            @axtremus said in Are modern women too picky?:

            So, uhm, are the women of TNCR going to chime in?

            How fussy can they be? They hang out with us.

            "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
            -Cormac McCarthy

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            • MikM Offline
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              #10

              Good point.

              “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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              • HoraceH Offline
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                Horace
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                #11

                They know how wealthy we are. Some of us even brag about our wealth, which I find to be in extremely poor taste.

                Education is extremely important.

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                • HoraceH Horace

                  They know how wealthy we are. Some of us even brag about our wealth, which I find to be in extremely poor taste.

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                  Jolly
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                  @horace said in Are modern women too picky?:

                  They know how wealthy we are. Some of us even brag about our wealth, which I find to be in extremely poor taste.

                  And all this time I thought your attractiveness to women was because of your elephantine....face.

                  “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                  Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                    I've been married to the same fella for 36 years. If he's not Mr. Right by now, then I haven't done my job of molding him to suit me.

                    It's sort of like that line about teaching a man to fish, and he'll be able to eat for a lifetime.
                    If you teach a husband how to behave, then he'll be a good husband for a lifetime.

                    Go ahead and prove me wrong. 😆

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                    • brendaB brenda

                      I've been married to the same fella for 36 years. If he's not Mr. Right by now, then I haven't done my job of molding him to suit me.

                      It's sort of like that line about teaching a man to fish, and he'll be able to eat for a lifetime.
                      If you teach a husband how to behave, then he'll be a good husband for a lifetime.

                      Go ahead and prove me wrong. 😆

                      JollyJ Offline
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                      Jolly
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                      #14

                      @brenda said in Are modern women too picky?:

                      I've been married to the same fella for 36 years. If he's not Mr. Right by now, then I haven't done my job of molding him to suit me.

                      It's sort of like that line about teaching a man to fish, and he'll be able to eat for a lifetime.
                      If you teach a husband how to behave, then he'll be a good husband for a lifetime.

                      Go ahead and prove me wrong. 😆

                      Yeah, but most young women are not as smart or wise as you are...

                      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                        I'll take a stab at it. I'm still not sure what the question is, but that's never stopped me yet.

                        I'm not at all picky. (See Jon's observation, above.) As long as he's extremely rich, handsomer than Hugh Jackman, smarter than a St. Bernard, and willing to leave me with a black Amex card while he's off pursuing his quest for the perfect mistress, preferably in foreign countries, I'm satisfied. That's all I need.

                        Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

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                          jon-nyc
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                          #16

                          Ha. Good plan. If only Rachel were so enlightened. lol

                          "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
                          -Cormac McCarthy

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                          • JollyJ Jolly

                            @brenda said in Are modern women too picky?:

                            I've been married to the same fella for 36 years. If he's not Mr. Right by now, then I haven't done my job of molding him to suit me.

                            It's sort of like that line about teaching a man to fish, and he'll be able to eat for a lifetime.
                            If you teach a husband how to behave, then he'll be a good husband for a lifetime.

                            Go ahead and prove me wrong. 😆

                            Yeah, but most young women are not as smart or wise as you are...

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                            @jolly said in Are modern women too picky?:

                            @brenda said in Are modern women too picky?:

                            I've been married to the same fella for 36 years. If he's not Mr. Right by now, then I haven't done my job of molding him to suit me.

                            It's sort of like that line about teaching a man to fish, and he'll be able to eat for a lifetime.
                            If you teach a husband how to behave, then he'll be a good husband for a lifetime.

                            Go ahead and prove me wrong. 😆

                            Yeah, but most young women are not as smart or wise as you are...

                            Let's see ... there's Mrs. Jolly, Mrs. George, Mrs. Mik, Rachel, M&Ms, Mrs. Mark, Mrs, Rainman ... I could go on for quite a while listing examples of smart and wise wives of y'all.

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                            • Catseye3C Catseye3

                              I'll take a stab at it. I'm still not sure what the question is, but that's never stopped me yet.

                              I'm not at all picky. (See Jon's observation, above.) As long as he's extremely rich, handsomer than Hugh Jackman, smarter than a St. Bernard, and willing to leave me with a black Amex card while he's off pursuing his quest for the perfect mistress, preferably in foreign countries, I'm satisfied. That's all I need.

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                              @catseye3 said in Are modern women too picky?:

                              I'm not at all picky. (See Jon's observation, above.) As long as he's extremely rich, handsomer than Hugh Jackman, smarter than a St. Bernard, and willing to leave me with a black Amex card while he's off pursuing his quest for the perfect mistress, preferably in foreign countries, I'm satisfied. That's all I need.

                              Are there opportunities to simplify? If he’s going to be off pursuing the perfect mistress somewhere else and won’t be around you, do you even need to care whether he is handsome? Heck, as long he’s away from you, do you even need to care where he is or what he’s pursuing? Really, would just the black Amex card and basically leaving you alone suffice?

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                                Axtremus
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                                Portrayal of a “modern woman”?

                                Link to video

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                                • brendaB brenda

                                  @jolly said in Are modern women too picky?:

                                  @brenda said in Are modern women too picky?:

                                  I've been married to the same fella for 36 years. If he's not Mr. Right by now, then I haven't done my job of molding him to suit me.

                                  It's sort of like that line about teaching a man to fish, and he'll be able to eat for a lifetime.
                                  If you teach a husband how to behave, then he'll be a good husband for a lifetime.

                                  Go ahead and prove me wrong. 😆

                                  Yeah, but most young women are not as smart or wise as you are...

                                  Let's see ... there's Mrs. Jolly, Mrs. George, Mrs. Mik, Rachel, M&Ms, Mrs. Mark, Mrs, Rainman ... I could go on for quite a while listing examples of smart and wise wives of y'all.

                                  JollyJ Offline
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                                  @brenda said in Are modern women too picky?:

                                  @jolly said in Are modern women too picky?:

                                  @brenda said in Are modern women too picky?:

                                  I've been married to the same fella for 36 years. If he's not Mr. Right by now, then I haven't done my job of molding him to suit me.

                                  It's sort of like that line about teaching a man to fish, and he'll be able to eat for a lifetime.
                                  If you teach a husband how to behave, then he'll be a good husband for a lifetime.

                                  Go ahead and prove me wrong. 😆

                                  Yeah, but most young women are not as smart or wise as you are...

                                  Let's see ... there's Mrs. Jolly, Mrs. George, Mrs. Mik, Rachel, M&Ms, Mrs. Mark, Mrs, Rainman ... I could go on for quite a while listing examples of smart and wise wives of y'all.

                                  Yes, but all of those ladies belong to a previous generation. Maybe they quit making that model...

                                  “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                  Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                  • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

                                    I'm pretty sure a deal-breaker for me would be that she responded to that survey.

                                    As Jon would say, selection bias run amok.

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                                    brenda
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                                    #21

                                    @doctor-phibes
                                    Yes to the selection bias. Remember, this person is selling a book. The author needed a story to tell.

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                                    • RainmanR Rainman

                                      For the single people she talks about and their expectations, I wonder how things change as a person ages.

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                                      brenda
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                                      #22

                                      @rainman
                                      Regarding aging ...
                                      There's a song about that concept, it's slightly different, but it's basically the same idea.
                                      'The Girls All Get Prettier at Closing Time'

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                                        @mik said in Are modern women too picky?:

                                        3 vs. 300. Sounds about right.

                                        And we all know the guys were lying about how fussy they are.

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                                        brenda
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                                        @doctor-phibes said in Are modern women too picky?:

                                        @mik said in Are modern women too picky?:

                                        3 vs. 300. Sounds about right.

                                        And we all know the guys were lying about how fussy they are.

                                        Absolutely.
                                        I would also bet she surveyed only a few men, the rest were busy looking for the wimminz.

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                                        • brendaB brenda

                                          @rainman
                                          Regarding aging ...
                                          There's a song about that concept, it's slightly different, but it's basically the same idea.
                                          'The Girls All Get Prettier at Closing Time'

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                                          @brenda said in Are modern women too picky?:

                                          'The Girls All Get Prettier at Closing Time'

                                          "Ever go to bed with an ugly girl?"

                                          "Nope, but I've woken up with a bunch of 'em."

                                          "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                                          The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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