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Would you go to the appointment?

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  • C Catseye3
    9 Feb 2021, 17:56

    @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

    The other thing is, my original doctor is out on maternity leave, and so I'm now dealing with a new guy. He might not take the decision as seriously as it is.

    Since you're still in a precautionary stage of these visits, what risk does the new guy present at this point? If he knows how to perform the exam and he has reviewed your record, how does the risk that he muffs it stack up against the consequences of skipping the appointment?

    Are you sure you're not borrowing trouble here?

    I agree with Ax; it's imperative that you learn as much as possible about the clinic's COVID precautions. That alone may set your mind at rest.

    Be up front about your worry. This is no time for badass.

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    Aqua Letifer
    wrote on 9 Feb 2021, 18:34 last edited by
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    @catseye3 said in Would you go to the appointment?:

    Since you're still in a precautionary stage of these visits, what risk does the new guy present at this point? If he knows how to perform the exam and he has reviewed your record, how does the risk that he muffs it stack up against the consequences of skipping the appointment?

    I'm not worried about him giving me an exam, I'm worried about his understanding of how important going in right now might be. He might not think it's important simply because he doesn't fully understand what the exams do for me. This is a very weird disease and I guarantee you I'm the only patient of this kind for the entire practice. There's also a good chance that they'll never have another patient in the history of their practice that has what I have. That's how rare this is.

    And I'm not too worried about them being unsafe there. They're literally doing their best. But the nature of the exams are such that there's still going to be a significant risk, and there's nothing I can do about that.

    Please love yourself.

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    • F Friday
      9 Feb 2021, 18:25

      If it's the other patients you're worried about, waiting in the car and staying well away from them when you walk in should be sufficient.

      If it's the new doctor, maybe you could ask if the office has been vaccinated.

      Do you have access to N95 masks?

      I agree with Jolly. Covid is better than blindness. I would stick with the every 6 months routine not matter what the office recommends.

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      Aqua Letifer
      wrote on 9 Feb 2021, 18:35 last edited by
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      @friday said in Would you go to the appointment?:

      If it's the new doctor, maybe you could ask if the office has been vaccinated.

      That's an awesome idea, thanks! I'll ask today.

      Please love yourself.

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      • A Aqua Letifer
        9 Feb 2021, 18:34

        @catseye3 said in Would you go to the appointment?:

        Since you're still in a precautionary stage of these visits, what risk does the new guy present at this point? If he knows how to perform the exam and he has reviewed your record, how does the risk that he muffs it stack up against the consequences of skipping the appointment?

        I'm not worried about him giving me an exam, I'm worried about his understanding of how important going in right now might be. He might not think it's important simply because he doesn't fully understand what the exams do for me. This is a very weird disease and I guarantee you I'm the only patient of this kind for the entire practice. There's also a good chance that they'll never have another patient in the history of their practice that has what I have. That's how rare this is.

        And I'm not too worried about them being unsafe there. They're literally doing their best. But the nature of the exams are such that there's still going to be a significant risk, and there's nothing I can do about that.

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        Catseye3
        wrote on 9 Feb 2021, 18:57 last edited by
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        @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

        I'm not worried about him giving me an exam, I'm worried about his understanding of how important going in right now might be.

        Sorry; I didn't understand that rightly.

        It might be that he can't make that call, if the visits now are better-safe-than-sorry and the COVID is a crapshoot.

        I like Friday's advice. Get all the information you can, and then make your decision, and then do the best you can. I'm thinking there is no way you are going to make this stress free.

        Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

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        • C Catseye3
          9 Feb 2021, 18:57

          @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

          I'm not worried about him giving me an exam, I'm worried about his understanding of how important going in right now might be.

          Sorry; I didn't understand that rightly.

          It might be that he can't make that call, if the visits now are better-safe-than-sorry and the COVID is a crapshoot.

          I like Friday's advice. Get all the information you can, and then make your decision, and then do the best you can. I'm thinking there is no way you are going to make this stress free.

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          Aqua Letifer
          wrote on 9 Feb 2021, 19:23 last edited by
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          @catseye3 said in Would you go to the appointment?:

          I like Friday's advice. Get all the information you can, and then make your decision, and then do the best you can. I'm thinking there is no way you are going to make this stress free.

          Nope, none. Just trying to think it through, so thanks for the help!

          Please love yourself.

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          • A Aqua Letifer
            9 Feb 2021, 18:35

            @friday said in Would you go to the appointment?:

            If it's the new doctor, maybe you could ask if the office has been vaccinated.

            That's an awesome idea, thanks! I'll ask today.

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            Loki
            wrote on 9 Feb 2021, 19:53 last edited by
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            @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

            @friday said in Would you go to the appointment?:

            If it's the new doctor, maybe you could ask if the office has been vaccinated.

            That's an awesome idea, thanks! I'll ask today.

            That was my thought, as well. Of course they don’t know yet if vaccinated people can spread COVID. Only evidence so far suggests it is cutting the chance of transmission but they are studying that now.

            Regardless I would go.

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              jon-nyc
              wrote on 9 Feb 2021, 20:39 last edited by
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              Of course they’ve been vaccinated. Would have thought that is baked in to your question already. But as Loki points out we don’t know what that means for you.

              "You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from."
              -Cormac McCarthy

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                Aqua Letifer
                wrote on 16 Feb 2021, 20:06 last edited by
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                In the waiting room now. What part of "wear a mask" and "6 feet" do these fucks not understand?

                Please love yourself.

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                • A Aqua Letifer
                  16 Feb 2021, 20:06

                  In the waiting room now. What part of "wear a mask" and "6 feet" do these fucks not understand?

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                  brenda
                  wrote on 16 Feb 2021, 20:44 last edited by
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                  @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                  In the waiting room now. What part of "wear a mask" and "6 feet" do these fucks not understand?

                  Holy cow.

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                  • B brenda
                    16 Feb 2021, 20:44

                    @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                    In the waiting room now. What part of "wear a mask" and "6 feet" do these fucks not understand?

                    Holy cow.

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                    Aqua Letifer
                    wrote on 16 Feb 2021, 20:47 last edited by Aqua Letifer
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                    @brenda said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                    @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                    In the waiting room now. What part of "wear a mask" and "6 feet" do these fucks not understand?

                    Holy cow.

                    Also, my old doctor moved to another practice and the new guy openly admits ignorance. And the receptionists lost my info three times in 7 days.

                    FUCK this. Never again.

                    I had to make shit up just to get a pressure test.

                    Please love yourself.

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                    • A Aqua Letifer
                      16 Feb 2021, 20:47

                      @brenda said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                      @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                      In the waiting room now. What part of "wear a mask" and "6 feet" do these fucks not understand?

                      Holy cow.

                      Also, my old doctor moved to another practice and the new guy openly admits ignorance. And the receptionists lost my info three times in 7 days.

                      FUCK this. Never again.

                      I had to make shit up just to get a pressure test.

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                      brenda
                      wrote on 16 Feb 2021, 20:51 last edited by
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                      @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                      @brenda said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                      @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                      In the waiting room now. What part of "wear a mask" and "6 feet" do these fucks not understand?

                      Holy cow.

                      Also, my old doctor moved to another practice and the new guy openly admits ignorance. And the receptionists lost my info three times in 7 days.

                      FUCK this. Never again.

                      I had to make shit up just to get a pressure test.

                      Can you get your records moved to the practice where you prior doc now works? It sounds like this current place is not set up to serve your needs.

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                      • B brenda
                        16 Feb 2021, 20:51

                        @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                        @brenda said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                        @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                        In the waiting room now. What part of "wear a mask" and "6 feet" do these fucks not understand?

                        Holy cow.

                        Also, my old doctor moved to another practice and the new guy openly admits ignorance. And the receptionists lost my info three times in 7 days.

                        FUCK this. Never again.

                        I had to make shit up just to get a pressure test.

                        Can you get your records moved to the practice where you prior doc now works? It sounds like this current place is not set up to serve your needs.

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                        Aqua Letifer
                        wrote on 16 Feb 2021, 20:56 last edited by
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                        @brenda said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                        @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                        @brenda said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                        @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                        In the waiting room now. What part of "wear a mask" and "6 feet" do these fucks not understand?

                        Holy cow.

                        Also, my old doctor moved to another practice and the new guy openly admits ignorance. And the receptionists lost my info three times in 7 days.

                        FUCK this. Never again.

                        I had to make shit up just to get a pressure test.

                        Can you get your records moved to the practice where you prior doc now works? It sounds like this current place is not set up to serve your needs.

                        Waiting for more tests now but I already found her and made my appointment. Just need to get my records now.

                        Please love yourself.

                        B 1 Reply Last reply 16 Feb 2021, 20:57
                        • A Aqua Letifer
                          16 Feb 2021, 20:56

                          @brenda said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                          @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                          @brenda said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                          @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                          In the waiting room now. What part of "wear a mask" and "6 feet" do these fucks not understand?

                          Holy cow.

                          Also, my old doctor moved to another practice and the new guy openly admits ignorance. And the receptionists lost my info three times in 7 days.

                          FUCK this. Never again.

                          I had to make shit up just to get a pressure test.

                          Can you get your records moved to the practice where you prior doc now works? It sounds like this current place is not set up to serve your needs.

                          Waiting for more tests now but I already found her and made my appointment. Just need to get my records now.

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                          brenda
                          wrote on 16 Feb 2021, 20:57 last edited by
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                          @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                          @brenda said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                          @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                          @brenda said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                          @aqua-letifer said in Would you go to the appointment?:

                          In the waiting room now. What part of "wear a mask" and "6 feet" do these fucks not understand?

                          Holy cow.

                          Also, my old doctor moved to another practice and the new guy openly admits ignorance. And the receptionists lost my info three times in 7 days.

                          FUCK this. Never again.

                          I had to make shit up just to get a pressure test.

                          Can you get your records moved to the practice where you prior doc now works? It sounds like this current place is not set up to serve your needs.

                          Waiting for more tests now but I already found her and made my appointment. Just need to get my records now.

                          Good. πŸ™‚

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                            Mik
                            wrote on 16 Feb 2021, 22:04 last edited by
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                            That's sooo disappointing when they screw up and act like it's no big deal.

                            β€œI am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                              Copper
                              wrote on 16 Feb 2021, 22:10 last edited by
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                              This is just a brief office visit.

                              It's not like it's something permanent, like say tncr.

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