"I won't make fun of you...."
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wrote on 12 Jan 2021, 14:46 last edited by
If you're going through chemotherapy, the last thing you need is more stress, such as looking for a new job, or getting into an HR-related battle.
I wouldn't say this is snowflakey - she is going through a ton of shit already. A comment like that wouldn't bother me, but I'm losing my hair already. For some people it would be very upsetting.
The way I would handle it is I'd ask for a meeting with the person who made the comment, and I would point out to them how hurtful the remark was - "I don't know if you realised, but what you said was very hurtful" type of approach. If it re-occurs, then he hasn't got the 'I was only joking' excuse.
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If you're going through chemotherapy, the last thing you need is more stress, such as looking for a new job, or getting into an HR-related battle.
I wouldn't say this is snowflakey - she is going through a ton of shit already. A comment like that wouldn't bother me, but I'm losing my hair already. For some people it would be very upsetting.
The way I would handle it is I'd ask for a meeting with the person who made the comment, and I would point out to them how hurtful the remark was - "I don't know if you realised, but what you said was very hurtful" type of approach. If it re-occurs, then he hasn't got the 'I was only joking' excuse.
wrote on 12 Jan 2021, 16:35 last edited by@doctor-phibes said in "I won't make fun of you....":
If you're going through chemotherapy, the last thing you need is more stress, such as looking for a new job, or getting into an HR-related battle.
I wouldn't say this is snowflakey - she is going through a ton of shit already. A comment like that wouldn't bother me, but I'm losing my hair already. For some people it would be very upsetting.
The way I would handle it is I'd ask for a meeting with the person who made the comment, and I would point out to them how hurtful the remark was - "I don't know if you realised, but what you said was very hurtful" type of approach. If it re-occurs, then he hasn't got the 'I was only joking' excuse.
Perfect.
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If you're going through chemotherapy, the last thing you need is more stress, such as looking for a new job, or getting into an HR-related battle.
I wouldn't say this is snowflakey - she is going through a ton of shit already. A comment like that wouldn't bother me, but I'm losing my hair already. For some people it would be very upsetting.
The way I would handle it is I'd ask for a meeting with the person who made the comment, and I would point out to them how hurtful the remark was - "I don't know if you realised, but what you said was very hurtful" type of approach. If it re-occurs, then he hasn't got the 'I was only joking' excuse.
wrote on 12 Jan 2021, 16:38 last edited by@doctor-phibes said in "I won't make fun of you....":
I would point out to them how hurtful the remark was - "I don't know if you realised, but what you said was very hurtful" type of approach. If it re-occurs, then he hasn't got the 'I was only joking' excuse.
Yeah, okay. Then as an end note, go upside his head with a stapler.
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If you're going through chemotherapy, the last thing you need is more stress, such as looking for a new job, or getting into an HR-related battle.
I wouldn't say this is snowflakey - she is going through a ton of shit already. A comment like that wouldn't bother me, but I'm losing my hair already. For some people it would be very upsetting.
The way I would handle it is I'd ask for a meeting with the person who made the comment, and I would point out to them how hurtful the remark was - "I don't know if you realised, but what you said was very hurtful" type of approach. If it re-occurs, then he hasn't got the 'I was only joking' excuse.
wrote on 12 Jan 2021, 16:47 last edited by@doctor-phibes said in "I won't make fun of you....":
The way I would handle it is I'd ask for a meeting with the person who made the comment, and I would point out to them how hurtful the remark was - "I don't know if you realised, but what you said was very hurtful" type of approach. If it re-occurs, then he hasn't got the 'I was only joking' excuse.
I think I had an online corporate training program on this issue that suggested that very response. While also making it clear that you can always go to HR if you'd like to.
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wrote on 12 Jan 2021, 16:53 last edited by
Set his car on fire?
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Set his car on fire?
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@doctor-phibes said in "I won't make fun of you....":
@aqua-letifer said in "I won't make fun of you....":
Set his car on fire?
Empty, or with him in it?
Is that an incitement to violence?
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wrote on 12 Jan 2021, 17:31 last edited by
No, it was a trap. If he said 'with him in it', I was going to report Aqua to the FBI.
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No, it was a trap. If he said 'with him in it', I was going to report Aqua to the FBI.
wrote on 12 Jan 2021, 17:39 last edited by@doctor-phibes said in "I won't make fun of you....":
No, it was a trap. If he said 'with him in it', I was going to report Aqua to the FBI.
I do believe I phrased my response in the form of a question, condoning neither implicitly nor explicitly an incitement to violence, destruction of property, or any other legal infraction generally.
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wrote on 12 Jan 2021, 17:44 last edited by
I shall of course advise the FBI accordingly.
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Set his car on fire?
wrote on 12 Jan 2021, 17:45 last edited by@aqua-letifer said in "I won't make fun of you....":
Set his car on fire?
I'm in.
I prefer the direct approach.
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wrote on 12 Jan 2021, 17:46 last edited by
The trap closes.
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wrote on 13 Jan 2021, 04:24 last edited by
On a related note, I'm sure y'all be glad to know all my hair came back. I think it was stress. A HELOC to pay off some usurious student loan rates and some cortisone shots skillfully placed did the trick.