Drop 'em like a hot rock.

[Jolly]

Conversation going on among a few of us guys today, centered around one question...

How many times would you date a woman before you decided to move on?

And for the gals...

How many times would you date a guy before you decided to move on?

[Mik]

All over the map. Sometimes ended during first date, sometimes a couple, four or five, 15 or 20 sometimes.

Feelings are funny. One girl I dated several months and then something changed. I just didn’t want to see her anymore. Could not tell you why. It’s not like she did anything to cause it.

Probably most often two or three.

[Aqua Letifer]

@Jolly said in Drop 'em like a hot rock.:

Conversation going on among a few of us guys today, centered around one question...

How many times would you date a woman before you decided to move on?

And for the gals...

How many times would you date a guy before you decided to move on?

I don't think it's like that. Some things take longer or shorter to develop, based on the people involved, how hasty or patient they are, how well they're able to get to know each other based on the nature of the dates, etc., etc.

But you better get some good fights under your belt before you commit to anything serious.

[Jolly]

@Aqua-Letifer said in Drop 'em like a hot rock.:

But you better get some good fights under your belt before you commit to anything serious.

Silly boy. We all know that couples in long term relationships never fight.

[Aqua Letifer]

@Jolly said in Drop 'em like a hot rock.:

@Aqua-Letifer said in Drop 'em like a hot rock.:

But you better get some good fights under your belt before you commit to anything serious.

Silly boy. We all know that couples in long term relationships never fight.

Yeah okay.

[Mik]

After a while you really don’t fight. You have learned how to just do what she wants avoid it.

[Horace]

For any person, there are some people they'd date zero times, some once, some twice, etc. The question is not really coherent. Though "I know immediately whether it will work" is a common sentiment, if one chooses to subject oneself to, say, youtube videos of women talking about such things.

[Jolly]

@Mik said in Drop 'em like a hot rock.:

After a while you really don’t fight. You have learned how to just do what she wants avoid it.

At what point does that occur?

[Mik]

About the same time you figure out what hill you want to die on. When you understand that while it seems unimportant to you, she does not see it that way.

Funny thing is she learns the same is true for you about the same time.

[Catseye3]

@Horace said in Drop 'em like a hot rock.:

The question is not really coherent.

This.