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  • CopperC Online
    CopperC Online
    Copper
    wrote on last edited by
    #4

    The district is asking people not to share the video, saying, "We strongly encourage students and members of the community not to share footage of this incident or any other student fights. Showing this video serves no purpose other than to further ridicule and embarrass the victim and embolden bullies."

    Please don't show everyone how we messed up.

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    • brendaB Offline
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      brenda
      wrote on last edited by
      #5

      Why did no one stop the attacker? The intervention was pathethic. The video indicates the students know the teachers and other staff will do nothing. The school says they don't tolerate this behavior, but the video says otherwise.

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      • JollyJ Offline
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        Jolly
        wrote on last edited by
        #6

        Welcome to the Jungle.

        A couple of things going on here.

        1. Most students today are raised as little automatons, little cogs in the machine. Do not think, do not question. Do not worry about character, faith, fair-play, common good. In my day, a fair fight was a common school day occurence, but almost never in a class room and if somebody got whipped, so what? But nobody would have tolerated a beating against a helpless person. Nobody.

        2. Teachers cannot police their own classrooms. The girl doing the beating should have been taken down in a sudden and vicious manner by the teacher. Afterwards, she should have been cuffed by the resource ifficer, using whatever force was necessary. At that point, she goes to jail.

        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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        • KlausK Offline
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          Klaus
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          #7

          I've seen worse beatings. The intervention of the teacher was pathetic. The non-intervention of the other pupils was pathetic, too.

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          • AxtremusA Away
            AxtremusA Away
            Axtremus
            wrote on last edited by
            #8

            What would be the right policy for something like this?

            If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

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            • AxtremusA Axtremus

              What would be the right policy for something like this?

              If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

              Aqua LetiferA Offline
              Aqua LetiferA Offline
              Aqua Letifer
              wrote on last edited by
              #9

              @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

              What would be the right policy for something like this?

              If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

              Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

              Please love yourself.

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              • Aqua LetiferA Aqua Letifer

                @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                What would be the right policy for something like this?

                If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                AxtremusA Away
                AxtremusA Away
                Axtremus
                wrote on last edited by
                #10

                @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                What would be the right policy for something like this?

                If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                JollyJ CopperC 2 Replies Last reply
                • AxtremusA Axtremus

                  @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                  @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                  What would be the right policy for something like this?

                  If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                  Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                  The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                  Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                  JollyJ Offline
                  JollyJ Offline
                  Jolly
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #11

                  @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                  @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                  @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                  What would be the right policy for something like this?

                  If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                  Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                  The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                  Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                  What would you tell them?

                  “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                  Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

                  JollyJ 1 Reply Last reply
                  • AxtremusA Axtremus

                    @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                    @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                    What would be the right policy for something like this?

                    If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                    Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                    The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                    Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                    CopperC Online
                    CopperC Online
                    Copper
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #12

                    @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                    The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                    Some policy has been articulated

                    Cortez Masto praises group that called for defunding police, teaching critical race theory in schools

                    Cortez Masto is running for reelection in the 2022 midterms

                    Sen. Catherine Cortez Masto, D-Nev., recently praised an activist group that has pushed left-leaning ideas surrounding race and law enforcement.

                    The Washington Free Beacon reported that Cortez Masto said Battle Born Progress included "incredible advocates for our state." She made those comments on Nov. 3 while speaking at the self-described public relations firm's annual gala.

                    From 2017-2018, the group received nearly $100,000 from the Sixteen Thirty Fund, a so-called dark money group that funds liberal causes and has received money from billionaire George Soros.

                    Earlier this year, Battle Born Progress executive director Annette Magnus praised activist Akiko Cooks for saying that her organization wasn't focused on pushing critical race theory (CRT) "yet," noting that it was something kids should eventually learn.

                    "I mean, eventually, yes, we should be teaching that," she said. "Young people need to know this information. I would love to have known that information."

                    https://www.foxnews.com/politics/cortez-masto-nevada-crt

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                    • JollyJ Jolly

                      @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                      @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                      @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                      What would be the right policy for something like this?

                      If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                      Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                      The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                      Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                      What would you tell them?

                      JollyJ Offline
                      JollyJ Offline
                      Jolly
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #13

                      @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                      @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                      @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                      @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                      What would be the right policy for something like this?

                      If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                      Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                      The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                      Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                      What would you tell them?

                      I'm waiting...

                      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

                      Aqua LetiferA 1 Reply Last reply
                      • JollyJ Jolly

                        @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                        @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                        @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                        @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                        What would be the right policy for something like this?

                        If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                        Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                        The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                        Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                        What would you tell them?

                        I'm waiting...

                        Aqua LetiferA Offline
                        Aqua LetiferA Offline
                        Aqua Letifer
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #14

                        @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                        @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                        @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                        @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                        @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                        What would be the right policy for something like this?

                        If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                        Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                        The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                        Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                        What would you tell them?

                        I'm waiting...

                        Yeah, Ax can go, then I will.

                        Please love yourself.

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                        • LarryL Offline
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                          Larry
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #15

                          I can tell you what Ax would do. Ax would have sat there on his ass and watched it, thankful that it wasn't him getting hit. Later on, he would tell you why the girl who did the beating was the real victim, her aggression caused by some conservative, Republican failure to enact some democrat policy.

                          The teacher should have picked up a chair and knocked the cold shit out of the girl doing it.

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                          • Aqua LetiferA Aqua Letifer

                            @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                            @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                            @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                            @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                            @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                            What would be the right policy for something like this?

                            If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                            Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                            The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                            Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                            What would you tell them?

                            I'm waiting...

                            Yeah, Ax can go, then I will.

                            AxtremusA Away
                            AxtremusA Away
                            Axtremus
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #16

                            @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                            @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                            @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                            @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                            @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                            @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                            What would be the right policy for something like this?

                            If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                            Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                            The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                            Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                            What would you tell them?

                            I'm waiting...

                            Yeah, Ax can go, then I will.

                            This is what I would tell them:

                            1. If there is no school staff member (legal adult) in the room, go get a school staff member (make your way to the principal’s office, alert the first staff member you encounter along the way).

                            2. If there is a school staff member (legal adult) in the room, let that staff member handle it.

                            3. If you are not happy with how the school staff member is handling it, go get another school staff member (make your way to the principal’s office, alert the first staff member you encounter along the way).

                            4. (Depending on policy/guidelines issued by the state, the district, or the school, I reserve me right to revise what I would tell the kids to work within those policy/guidelines.)

                            Now you folks (@Jolly, @Aqua-Letifer, @Larry, etc.) go ahead and tell me what you, if you take the position of a parent, would tell your own kid to deal with something like this if your kid were to witness it in his/her class.

                            LarryL Aqua LetiferA CopperC 89th8 4 Replies Last reply
                            • AxtremusA Axtremus

                              @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                              @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                              @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                              @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                              @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                              @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                              What would be the right policy for something like this?

                              If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                              Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                              The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                              Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                              What would you tell them?

                              I'm waiting...

                              Yeah, Ax can go, then I will.

                              This is what I would tell them:

                              1. If there is no school staff member (legal adult) in the room, go get a school staff member (make your way to the principal’s office, alert the first staff member you encounter along the way).

                              2. If there is a school staff member (legal adult) in the room, let that staff member handle it.

                              3. If you are not happy with how the school staff member is handling it, go get another school staff member (make your way to the principal’s office, alert the first staff member you encounter along the way).

                              4. (Depending on policy/guidelines issued by the state, the district, or the school, I reserve me right to revise what I would tell the kids to work within those policy/guidelines.)

                              Now you folks (@Jolly, @Aqua-Letifer, @Larry, etc.) go ahead and tell me what you, if you take the position of a parent, would tell your own kid to deal with something like this if your kid were to witness it in his/her class.

                              LarryL Offline
                              LarryL Offline
                              Larry
                              wrote on last edited by
                              #17

                              @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                              @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                              @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                              @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                              @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                              @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                              @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                              What would be the right policy for something like this?

                              If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                              Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                              The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                              Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                              What would you tell them?

                              I'm waiting...

                              Yeah, Ax can go, then I will.

                              This is what I would tell them:

                              1. If there is no school staff member (legal adult) in the room, go get a school staff member (make your way to the principal’s office, alert the first staff member you encounter along the way).

                              2. If there is a school staff member (legal adult) in the room, let that staff member handle it.

                              3. If you are not happy with how the school staff member is handling it, go get another school staff member (make your way to the principal’s office, alert the first staff member you encounter along the way).

                              4. (Depending on policy/guidelines issued by the state, the district, or the school, I reserve me right to revise what I would tell the kids to work within those policy/guidelines.)

                              Now you folks (@Jolly, @Aqua-Letifer, @Larry, etc.) go ahead and tell me what you, if you take the position of a parent, would tell your own kid to deal with something like this if your kid were to witness it in his/her class.

                              Using your method, by the time you got someone to come in and put a stop to it the victim would already have had the shit kicked out of her.

                              What would I tell my kid? Exactly the same thing I told them when they were in school - don't start anything, but if someone else does, you finish it.

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                              • MikM Offline
                                MikM Offline
                                Mik
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #18

                                That's what I taught my daughter. Don't start anything, but if it happens, you take any step necessary to stop the attack, rendering your attacker unable or unwilling to continue. If that means smashing their head in with whatever is available, have at it. We will deal with the consequences later.

                                But this bullshit we teach kids now about you should never ever fight is destructive.

                                “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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                                • MikM Mik

                                  That's what I taught my daughter. Don't start anything, but if it happens, you take any step necessary to stop the attack, rendering your attacker unable or unwilling to continue. If that means smashing their head in with whatever is available, have at it. We will deal with the consequences later.

                                  But this bullshit we teach kids now about you should never ever fight is destructive.

                                  AxtremusA Away
                                  AxtremusA Away
                                  Axtremus
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #19

                                  @mik said in At school in Vegas:

                                  … if it happens, you take any step necessary to stop the attack, rendering your attacker unable or unwilling to continue. …

                                  Not sure if you were responding to my question. On the off chance that you were, I would say that you have misunderstood my question. My question asks what you would tell your kid to do if she were witnessing an incident like this in her class, not as one being attacked. Please feel free to provide your answer, if you wish, for the scenario where your kid is a bystander witnessing the incident in her class, your kid herself is not the one being attacked.

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                                  • AxtremusA Axtremus

                                    @mik said in At school in Vegas:

                                    … if it happens, you take any step necessary to stop the attack, rendering your attacker unable or unwilling to continue. …

                                    Not sure if you were responding to my question. On the off chance that you were, I would say that you have misunderstood my question. My question asks what you would tell your kid to do if she were witnessing an incident like this in her class, not as one being attacked. Please feel free to provide your answer, if you wish, for the scenario where your kid is a bystander witnessing the incident in her class, your kid herself is not the one being attacked.

                                    LarryL Offline
                                    LarryL Offline
                                    Larry
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #20

                                    @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                                    @mik said in At school in Vegas:

                                    … if it happens, you take any step necessary to stop the attack, rendering your attacker unable or unwilling to continue. …

                                    Not sure if you were responding to my question. On the off chance that you were, I would say that you have misunderstood my question. My question asks what you would tell your kid to do if she were witnessing an incident like this in her class, not as one being attacked. Please feel free to provide your answer, if you wish, for the scenario where your kid is a bystander witnessing the incident in her class, your kid herself is not the one being attacked.

                                    He did. Answer your question. It doesnt matter if his (or my) kid is the one being attacked or if it's some other kid. If his (or my) kid sees it happening, beat the shit out of the attacker. Finish it. Bring. It. To. An. End.

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                                    • AxtremusA Axtremus

                                      @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                                      @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                                      @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                                      @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                                      @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                                      @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                                      What would be the right policy for something like this?

                                      If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                                      Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                                      The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                                      Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                                      What would you tell them?

                                      I'm waiting...

                                      Yeah, Ax can go, then I will.

                                      This is what I would tell them:

                                      1. If there is no school staff member (legal adult) in the room, go get a school staff member (make your way to the principal’s office, alert the first staff member you encounter along the way).

                                      2. If there is a school staff member (legal adult) in the room, let that staff member handle it.

                                      3. If you are not happy with how the school staff member is handling it, go get another school staff member (make your way to the principal’s office, alert the first staff member you encounter along the way).

                                      4. (Depending on policy/guidelines issued by the state, the district, or the school, I reserve me right to revise what I would tell the kids to work within those policy/guidelines.)

                                      Now you folks (@Jolly, @Aqua-Letifer, @Larry, etc.) go ahead and tell me what you, if you take the position of a parent, would tell your own kid to deal with something like this if your kid were to witness it in his/her class.

                                      Aqua LetiferA Offline
                                      Aqua LetiferA Offline
                                      Aqua Letifer
                                      wrote on last edited by
                                      #21

                                      @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                                      @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                                      @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                                      @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                                      @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                                      @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                                      @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                                      What would be the right policy for something like this?

                                      If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                                      Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                                      The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                                      Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                                      What would you tell them?

                                      I'm waiting...

                                      Yeah, Ax can go, then I will.

                                      This is what I would tell them:

                                      1. If there is no school staff member (legal adult) in the room, go get a school staff member (make your way to the principal’s office, alert the first staff member you encounter along the way).

                                      2. If there is a school staff member (legal adult) in the room, let that staff member handle it.

                                      3. If you are not happy with how the school staff member is handling it, go get another school staff member (make your way to the principal’s office, alert the first staff member you encounter along the way).

                                      4. (Depending on policy/guidelines issued by the state, the district, or the school, I reserve me right to revise what I would tell the kids to work within those policy/guidelines.)

                                      Now you folks (@Jolly, @Aqua-Letifer, @Larry, etc.) go ahead and tell me what you, if you take the position of a parent, would tell your own kid to deal with something like this if your kid were to witness it in his/her class.

                                      You know what's funny? It occurred to me watching this that this very thing happened to me in high school. This precise scenario. We had to bring crap in to class for shop that day. I brought in my stuff, Jamie didn't. Teacher wasn't in the room, so Jamie marked me and wailed on me until I relented and gave him my stuff. Jamie's in prison now as he graduated to career criminal but by the way, even in high school he was a shitload bigger than this girl and he knew how to hit people.

                                      Nobody came to my rescue, there wasn't an adult, everyone saw it and nothing happened to him. That's public school, sometimes, motherfuckers. I think back on my childhood a lot, but this particular memory doesn't really bring with it too many emotions. Jamie was a bad guy, the world has bad guys in them and these things sometimes happen. Also, I balanced the scorecard in ways I found acceptable, so there were no hard feelings. More on that in a second.

                                      My parents taught me the same tired bullshit a lot of kids are taught today: under no circumstances, do not fight anybody, ever. If you do, you're wrong, no matter the scenario. And not only that, but I was one skinny kid with no street sense about me whastosever. I couldn't throw a punch to save my life back then and if I'm honest, I listened to my parents and so punch-throwing honestly didn't occur to me. It's precisely why Jamie picked me out of the class! I wish I could sound cooler or something, but I just wasn't like that. I did things in my own way. I waited until we finished the assignment, hung around in school for a long while after classes ended—I walked home so no big—went back into the classroom and trashed Jamie's assignment. I kept the pieces there so whoever found it would know it was destroyed, not just stolen. I honestly forget what happened after that, assignment-wise.

                                      But when Jamie got his license, a lot of things happened to his car. And he didn't like being called a fatass so diet and exercise brochures and pictures of huge people kept finding their way into his locker on the regular until we graduated.

                                      Ax, your advice is for when a kid puts gum under his table, it's ridiculous for a scenario like this.

                                      I'm going to be telling my daughter a lot of things as she's growing up that would be directly applicable here. A lot of things about right and wrong, about rules and procedures, and about the times in which someone has to step up because there is no adult vs. getting hurt or killed because you tried to play the hero. After school these situations get very complicated. But for a school situation, I'm going to be telling her something similar to what mik and Larry said. In school, you see that sort of shit, you don't wait for a fucking adult, you stop it.

                                      Please love yourself.

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                                        @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                                        @mik said in At school in Vegas:

                                        … if it happens, you take any step necessary to stop the attack, rendering your attacker unable or unwilling to continue. …

                                        Not sure if you were responding to my question. On the off chance that you were, I would say that you have misunderstood my question. My question asks what you would tell your kid to do if she were witnessing an incident like this in her class, not as one being attacked. Please feel free to provide your answer, if you wish, for the scenario where your kid is a bystander witnessing the incident in her class, your kid herself is not the one being attacked.

                                        He did. Answer your question. It doesnt matter if his (or my) kid is the one being attacked or if it's some other kid. If his (or my) kid sees it happening, beat the shit out of the attacker. Finish it. Bring. It. To. An. End.

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                                        @larry said in At school in Vegas:

                                        @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                                        @mik said in At school in Vegas:

                                        … if it happens, you take any step necessary to stop the attack, rendering your attacker unable or unwilling to continue. …

                                        Not sure if you were responding to my question. On the off chance that you were, I would say that you have misunderstood my question. My question asks what you would tell your kid to do if she were witnessing an incident like this in her class, not as one being attacked. Please feel free to provide your answer, if you wish, for the scenario where your kid is a bystander witnessing the incident in her class, your kid herself is not the one being attacked.

                                        He did. Answer your question. It doesnt matter if his (or my) kid is the one being attacked or if it's some other kid. If his (or my) kid sees it happening, beat the shit out of the attacker. Finish it. Bring. It. To. An. End.

                                        Do let @Mik speak for himself. @Mik's previous answer uses the term "your attacker," which suggests that he assumes that his kid is the one being attacked. @Mik can speak for himself if he wishes.

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                                          @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                                          @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                                          @jolly said in At school in Vegas:

                                          @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                                          @aqua-letifer said in At school in Vegas:

                                          @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                                          What would be the right policy for something like this?

                                          If you are the school administrator, the district's superintendent, or the state's secretary of education, what policy would you put out to advise staff (school employees) and students on what to do if they were to witness something like this?

                                          Annnnnnd that's exactly why you'd watch it happen like they did.

                                          The inability to articulate a coherent policy leads to inaction.

                                          Take it closer to home, forget about being an administrator or superintendent, just take your position simply as a parent with kids in the school. What would you, as a parent, tell your own child what to do if/when she sees something like this in her class?

                                          What would you tell them?

                                          I'm waiting...

                                          Yeah, Ax can go, then I will.

                                          This is what I would tell them:

                                          1. If there is no school staff member (legal adult) in the room, go get a school staff member (make your way to the principal’s office, alert the first staff member you encounter along the way).

                                          2. If there is a school staff member (legal adult) in the room, let that staff member handle it.

                                          3. If you are not happy with how the school staff member is handling it, go get another school staff member (make your way to the principal’s office, alert the first staff member you encounter along the way).

                                          4. (Depending on policy/guidelines issued by the state, the district, or the school, I reserve me right to revise what I would tell the kids to work within those policy/guidelines.)

                                          Now you folks (@Jolly, @Aqua-Letifer, @Larry, etc.) go ahead and tell me what you, if you take the position of a parent, would tell your own kid to deal with something like this if your kid were to witness it in his/her class.

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                                          @axtremus said in At school in Vegas:

                                          Now you folks (@Jolly, @Aqua-Letifer, @Larry, etc.) go ahead and tell me what you, if you take the position of a parent, would tell your own kid to deal with something like this if your kid were to witness it in his/her class.

                                          Fire at least one shot in the air to make sure the attacker understands the situation.

                                          If the attacker continues, put a couple into her kneecaps, that should discourage her.

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