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  • Doctor PhibesD Offline
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    Doctor Phibes
    wrote on last edited by Doctor Phibes
    #53

    I just said I'd outlaw it, so what's the point of the question?

    The question regarding virginity check has nothing to do with invasiveness, in any event. It's a method used to keep women in their place, and it has no place in a modern liberal society.

    I was only joking

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    • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

      I just said I'd outlaw it, so what's the point of the question?

      The question regarding virginity check has nothing to do with invasiveness, in any event. It's a method used to keep women in their place, and it has no place in a modern liberal society.

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      Jolly
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      @doctor-phibes said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

      I just said I'd outlaw it, so what's the point of the question?

      The question regarding virginity check has nothing to do with invasiveness, in any event. It's a method used to keep women in their place, and it has no place in a modern liberal society.

      The Jewish faith demands circumcision. The Muslim faith highly values the virgin bride. I see more problem with the former than the latter when it comes to personal decisions and the lack of freedom of the individual.

      In either case, does it really impact the way society functions?

      What business does a modern society enacting laws in either situation create a benefit to society?

      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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      • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

        I just said I'd outlaw it, so what's the point of the question?

        The question regarding virginity check has nothing to do with invasiveness, in any event. It's a method used to keep women in their place, and it has no place in a modern liberal society.

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        Renauda
        wrote on last edited by
        #55

        @doctor-phibes

        I would contend that a virginity check is invasive on a woman's right to privacy. Otherwise, I agree wholly with what you have written.

        Elbows up!

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        • RenaudaR Renauda

          @doctor-phibes

          I would contend that a virginity check is invasive on a woman's right to privacy. Otherwise, I agree wholly with what you have written.

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          Jolly
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          #56

          @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

          @doctor-phibes

          I would contend that a virginity check is invasive on a woman's right to privacy. Otherwise, I agree wholly with what you have written.

          It's only invasive if she does not consent.

          “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

          Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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          • CopperC Online
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            Copper
            wrote on last edited by
            #57

            Yes, let consenting adults take it or leave it

            If the man insists and she refuses, that is a good indication that the wedding is probably a bad idea, but that is their business.

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            • JollyJ Jolly

              @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

              @doctor-phibes

              I would contend that a virginity check is invasive on a woman's right to privacy. Otherwise, I agree wholly with what you have written.

              It's only invasive if she does not consent.

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              Renauda
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              @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

              @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

              @doctor-phibes

              I would contend that a virginity check is invasive on a woman's right to privacy. Otherwise, I agree wholly with what you have written.

              It's only invasive if she does not consent.

              The minuscule libertarian part of me would really like to agree with that sentiment. In the end though, I cannot. It leaves the door too wide open for the perpetuation of cultural practices that have no place in a secular liberal society. The French state is correct to outlaw it.

              Elbows up!

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              • JollyJ Jolly

                @brenda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                @jolly There's never any honor killings of the daughters?

                I suspect in an honor killing, there are laws broken along with harm done to the individual and to French society.

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                @jolly Failing a virginity test, whether the daughter is a virgin or not, is often used as the basis for an honor killing of her. Allowing the virginity test puts a young women at risk for murder at the hands of her own family. I would call that harm to society, and especially to the women. The tests can give false results, so even virgins are at risk.

                I think about the fear a young woman would have, because within that culture, she knows all about honor killings. No wonder they try to flee.

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                • JollyJ Jolly

                  @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                  @doctor-phibes

                  I would contend that a virginity check is invasive on a woman's right to privacy. Otherwise, I agree wholly with what you have written.

                  It's only invasive if she does not consent.

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                  brenda
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                  #60

                  @jolly said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                  @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                  @doctor-phibes

                  I would contend that a virginity check is invasive on a woman's right to privacy. Otherwise, I agree wholly with what you have written.

                  It's only invasive if she does not consent.

                  Does she have any option to not consent when that will be construed as evidence she would 'fail'? The repercussions for her are enormous, including the penalty of death.

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                    Horace
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                    #61

                    Muslim culture is garbage, the countries under its influence are shit holes, and images of Mohammed are funny looking which is why they are prohibited.

                    Education is extremely important.

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                    • CopperC Copper

                      Yes, let consenting adults take it or leave it

                      If the man insists and she refuses, that is a good indication that the wedding is probably a bad idea, but that is their business.

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                      brenda
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                      @copper Her family also insists on this testing to prove they are honorable. She may not be given any choice by anyone involved.

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                        "Honor killing" . . . not the most fortuitous phrase ever coined.

                        Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

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                        • CopperC Copper

                          Yes, let consenting adults take it or leave it

                          If the man insists and she refuses, that is a good indication that the wedding is probably a bad idea, but that is their business.

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                          Doctor Phibes
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                          @copper said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                          Yes, let consenting adults take it or leave it

                          If the man insists and she refuses, that is a good indication that the wedding is probably a bad idea, but that is their business.

                          You don't know many Muslims, do you?

                          I was only joking

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                            LuFins Dad
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                            I personally find the reasoning behind it morally and ethically abhorrent, and on a practical basis, pretty effin stupid. I assume that they are checking for the presence of an intact hymen? Young ladies can lose their hymen for many reasons other than sexual intercourse...

                            I'm not sure the ban will be very effective at ending the practice, however, and may even backfire. Wouldn't an intact or broken hymen be evident in a standard gynecological exam? Is France going to ban gynecological exams for Muslims now? Or are they going to ban Muslims from going into that particular medical practice?

                            The Brad

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                            • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

                              @copper said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                              Yes, let consenting adults take it or leave it

                              If the man insists and she refuses, that is a good indication that the wedding is probably a bad idea, but that is their business.

                              You don't know many Muslims, do you?

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                              Copper
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                              @doctor-phibes said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                              @copper said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                              Yes, let consenting adults take it or leave it

                              If the man insists and she refuses, that is a good indication that the wedding is probably a bad idea, but that is their business.

                              You don't know many Muslims, do you?

                              I got to know several when I worked in Kuwait.

                              They don't think like you. This is shameful.

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                              • CopperC Copper

                                @doctor-phibes said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                @copper said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                Yes, let consenting adults take it or leave it

                                If the man insists and she refuses, that is a good indication that the wedding is probably a bad idea, but that is their business.

                                You don't know many Muslims, do you?

                                I got to know several when I worked in Kuwait.

                                They don't think like you. This is shameful.

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                                George K
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                                @copper said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                I got to know several when I worked in Kuwait.

                                They were probably closet Christians Jews.

                                "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                                The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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                                • brendaB brenda

                                  @jolly Failing a virginity test, whether the daughter is a virgin or not, is often used as the basis for an honor killing of her. Allowing the virginity test puts a young women at risk for murder at the hands of her own family. I would call that harm to society, and especially to the women. The tests can give false results, so even virgins are at risk.

                                  I think about the fear a young woman would have, because within that culture, she knows all about honor killings. No wonder they try to flee.

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                                  Jolly
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #68

                                  @brenda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                  @jolly Failing a virginity test, whether the daughter is a virgin or not, is often used as the basis for an honor killing of her. Allowing the virginity test puts a young women at risk for murder at the hands of her own family. I would call that harm to society, and especially to the women. The tests can give false results, so even virgins are at risk.

                                  I think about the fear a young woman would have, because within that culture, she knows all about honor killings. No wonder they try to flee.

                                  Is honor killing against the law in France and how many occur each year?

                                  “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                  Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                  • JollyJ Jolly

                                    @brenda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                    @jolly Failing a virginity test, whether the daughter is a virgin or not, is often used as the basis for an honor killing of her. Allowing the virginity test puts a young women at risk for murder at the hands of her own family. I would call that harm to society, and especially to the women. The tests can give false results, so even virgins are at risk.

                                    I think about the fear a young woman would have, because within that culture, she knows all about honor killings. No wonder they try to flee.

                                    Is honor killing against the law in France and how many occur each year?

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                                    Renauda
                                    wrote on last edited by Renauda
                                    #69

                                    @jolly

                                    My certain hunch is that premeditated First degree murder is indeed against the law in France. No such thing as or accommodation for honour killing even exists in Napoleonic criminal code. Nor should it.

                                    Elbows up!

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                                    • RenaudaR Renauda

                                      @jolly

                                      My certain hunch is that premeditated First degree murder is indeed against the law in France. No such thing as or accommodation for honour killing even exists in Napoleonic criminal code. Nor should it.

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                                      Jolly
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                                      @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                      @jolly

                                      My certain hunch is that premeditated First degree murder is indeed against the law in France. No such thing as or accommodation for honour killing even exists in Napoleonic criminal code. Nor should it.

                                      It doesn't under the Napoleonic Code I live under.

                                      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                                        Renauda
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                                        No criminal charge for murder? I doubt it. Just stop with the BS trying to justify the unjustifiable. The practice of virgin certification in a secular liberal democracy is wholly unacceptable. Full stop.

                                        Elbows up!

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                                        • RenaudaR Renauda

                                          No criminal charge for murder? I doubt it. Just stop with the BS trying to justify the unjustifiable. The practice of virgin certification in a secular liberal democracy is wholly unacceptable. Full stop.

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                                          Jolly
                                          wrote on last edited by
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                                          @renauda said in French Government Says No to Virginity Test:

                                          No criminal charge for murder? I doubt it. Just stop with the BS trying to justify the unjustifiable. The practice of virgin certification in a secular liberal democracy is wholly unacceptable. Full stop.

                                          Read what I wrote.

                                          “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

                                          Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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