Marilyn!
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I have a hard time seeing him as the victim here, but he is innocent until proven guilty. It's a little hard to know what the record companies should do in this instance. Of course, normal non-celebrity people have been fired for a lot less.
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@doctor-phibes said in Marilyn!:
I have a hard time seeing him as the victim here,
He's not. We're the victim. Because of what you said right after:
but he is innocent until proven guilty. ... Of course, normal non-celebrity people have been fired for a lot less.
That's completely untrue, and that's why we're the victims. You can be fired, have your reputation forever ruined, your private information made public, and death threats can arrive at your door for years. And you can be completely innocent. All it takes is the right kind of person to want to do that to you.
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I get the other side of it, too. It sucks going through proper channels to out an abuser. It's an absolutely terrible process. And almost impossible to keep secret before your time in court. (Besides, if you actually were abused, what could possibly be your incentive to respect your abuser to keep quiet until your trial date, during which time the defense lawyer is going to do everything she can to attack you?)
I don't think there's an easy answer, though, because we quite frankly don't care about lives ruined from false accusations. Not in the least. If we did this would be a lot easier to navigate.
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I think we're still in the process of trying to figure out how to address this fairly. There's a long, long history of women being completely ignored by the police and others, and of being treated aggressively, as though somehow they're guilty of something when being a victim of sexual assault.
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He should probably go ahead and run for state legislature as a Democrat. That should restore his reputation.