Children are a gift from God
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Kids are inconvenient.
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@George-K said in Children are a gift from God:
@LuFins-Dad said in Children are a gift from God:
Cats are much better.Cheaper and friendlier too.
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Gotta be willing to put a child’s needs before your own. Having kids is very expensive.
Just speculating, but parent generations now might be experiencing a generation of grandparents who are too old to help raise the grandkids. They also have fewer siblings to help out as aunties or uncles. -
Gotta be willing to put a child’s needs before your own. Having kids is very expensive.
Just speculating, but parent generations now might be experiencing a generation of grandparents who are too old to help raise the grandkids. They also have fewer siblings to help out as aunties or uncles.@blondie said in Children are a gift from God:
a generation of grandparents who are too old to help raise the grandkids
G2 is 6, G3 is 2. Mrs. George and I are 74.
Three hours with them is exhausting.
That said, I was, for the most part, raised by my grandmother - both parents worked. I went to college when she was 71.
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Talking to some millennials in my city, they shout loudly they compete to get 600 sq ft rental units, stress over rent increases, don’t have vehicles, commute at all hours on a crappy transit system and/or do remote work from their bedrooms, struggle to find primary careers and their 2nd side jobs, then work just to be downsized/laid off. They are stressed and depressed. Many don’t date or socialize and say they can’t afford to (money & time wise). I get the feeling they have declining hope for their futures. I don’t hear any of them ponder having kids. Some dream of owning a condo but say it’s impossible. They are stuck in now mode and aren’t too future positive. They blame boomers, corporate greed, the government.
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Millennials and Gen Z? I’ve had quite a few as employees over the last few years.
Of the 6, 3 now own their own places. The other 3 rent, on their own. I expect 1 will be buying a house soon. The other 2 won’t until after grad school. All have had a modicum of support from the parents, but most also had side gigs. 2 of them had problems because they were spending too much on travel and going out, but have corrected course. One, I’ve gotten him to use the debt snowball to pay off his college and car loans, open an IRA, and buy a cheap condo rather than rent. He’s now gotten married and doing great.
