"My a**hole makes more than your mother. "
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@Jolly said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
If you watch the video, you'll find that Reid has tried to get out of the industry, but can't (money, etc.). She has been shunned by her family. She now only does girl-on-girl or solo work because of her husband.
She can live a better life if:
- The other spouse makes more money or other family members provide more financial support so she doesn’t have to be in the industry that she doesn’t want to be anymore
- The family can simply be more accepting of her work
- Society in general, and that includes you lot, can simply be less judgmental
Could you imagine that marriage?
Psych care pro tip: Why do you want to imagine a stranger’s marriage? This may reflect a deep seating insecurity about yourself or your own relationships. Consider seeking professional help.
@Axtremus said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Jolly said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
If you watch the video, you'll find that Reid has tried to get out of the industry, but can't (money, etc.). She has been shunned by her family. She now only does girl-on-girl or solo work because of her husband.
She can live a better life if:
- The other spouse makes more money or other family members provide more financial support so she doesn’t have to be in the industry that she doesn’t want to be anymore
- The family can simply be more accepting of her work
- Society in general, and that includes you lot, can simply be less judgmental
Could you imagine that marriage?
Psych care pro tip: Why do you want to imagine a stranger’s marriage? This may reflect a deep seating insecurity about yourself or your own relationships. Consider seeking professional help.
Was your mother a whore?
There are some very dark issues bundled up in your world view, that are unexplainable in the world of a normal upbringing...
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You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
I was only joking
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You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
Well, we figure one bullshit poster is enough.
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@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
Well, we figure one bullshit poster is enough.
@Mik said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
Well, we figure one bullshit poster is enough.
I'm endeavouring to be less cynical in RL. I get it all out here. You're basically a bunch of very cheap therapists.
I was only joking
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@Mik said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
Well, we figure one bullshit poster is enough.
I'm endeavouring to be less cynical in RL. I get it all out here. You're basically a bunch of very cheap therapists.
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Mik said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
Well, we figure one bullshit poster is enough.
I'm endeavouring to be less cynical in RL. I get it all out here. You're basically a bunch of very cheap therapists.
You're really in trouble if you look to us to feel better.
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@Mik said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
Well, we figure one bullshit poster is enough.
I'm endeavouring to be less cynical in RL. I get it all out here. You're basically a bunch of very cheap therapists.
You're basically a bunch of very cheap therapists.
Coffee and cigarettes are
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You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
He's been on record about this several times.
Please love yourself.
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@Jolly , not cool, man; whatever our disagreement, you really shouldn't bring my parent (or any other poster's parent) into this.
@Axtremus said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Jolly , not cool, man; whatever our disagreement, you really shouldn't bring my parent (or any other poster's parent) into this.
I expected a "Hell, no!" answer. Curious, I didn't get that.
There has to be a reason for your position on the exploitation of women and your acceptance of pornography as a good thing. It's not. It's a misogynistic, hurtful, business, that chews young women up, folding, spindling and mutilating their souls. The same is true for young homosexual men and gay porn. It makes drug junkies out of people, it ruins their future relationships, it tears families apart and estranges children from their parents.
Even Jon, our resident hedonist, wouldn't want his son or daughter working as an actor in the porn industry. That's not a career any parent wishes their children to aspire to...So why do you see no problem with it?Even many people who consume porn will acknowledge its basic problems, yet I don't think I've ever seen you write a single condemning sentence.
So, something is different in your upbringing, your outlook on life or the very nature of your soul.
It's not something that will keep me up at night, but there is a reason lurking in the background for your attitude. You like to put the rest of us under a microscope, so how does it feel to have the oculars and lenses lined up on you?
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@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
He's been on record about this several times.
@Aqua-Letifer said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
He's been on record about this several times.
I've said a number of things here on numerous occasions that I don't actually believe. I find it quite gratifying if people take my trolling seriously.
Obviously, I have no idea what Ax actually thinks. He's a mysterie.
I was only joking
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@Aqua-Letifer said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
He's been on record about this several times.
I've said a number of things here on numerous occasions that I don't actually believe. I find it quite gratifying if people take my trolling seriously.
Obviously, I have no idea what Ax actually thinks. He's a mysterie.
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Aqua-Letifer said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
He's been on record about this several times.
I've said a number of things here on numerous occasions that I don't actually believe. I find it quite gratifying if people take my trolling seriously.
Obviously, I have no idea what Ax actually thinks. He's a mysterie.
When people tell you what they are, believe them.
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@Aqua-Letifer said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
He's been on record about this several times.
I've said a number of things here on numerous occasions that I don't actually believe. I find it quite gratifying if people take my trolling seriously.
Obviously, I have no idea what Ax actually thinks. He's a mysterie.
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Aqua-Letifer said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
@Doctor-Phibes said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
You chaps keep talking to Axe as though he believes everything he posts
He's been on record about this several times.
I've said a number of things here on numerous occasions that I don't actually believe. I find it quite gratifying if people take my trolling seriously.
That's a fundamental difference I think. I fuck around a lot as well, but always with the underlying assumption that putting up with someone for decades (and in some instances meeting them in person) means there's a relationship worth respecting at least on some level. If after years of sharing family and life events someone feels obliged to treat this place like Reddit, I don't have any use for them. I'm here to fight and share jokes with friends. If I wanted to troll people I still consider randos I'd be on fucking Twitter.
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Dumb question, but couldn't she change her name to Jane Smith? I am not saying go like the "witness protection program", but dye her hair, different haircut, etc. Wouldn't be easy, but a internet search of Jane Smith would eliminate a lot of casual searches.
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Dumb question, but couldn't she change her name to Jane Smith? I am not saying go like the "witness protection program", but dye her hair, different haircut, etc. Wouldn't be easy, but a internet search of Jane Smith would eliminate a lot of casual searches.
@taiwan_girl said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
Dumb question, but couldn't she change her name to Jane Smith? I am not saying go like the "witness protection program", but dye her hair, different haircut, etc. Wouldn't be easy, but a internet search of Jane Smith would eliminate a lot of casual searches.
You might be right, but some people are very good at recognizing other people, even when their appearance is changed.
All it takes is one.
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This woman is just a single case. It seems premature to conclude anything from it just because her story reinforces ones own world view. Maybe there's three happy porn stars for every Riley Reid. Or not.
A quick ChatGPT query brought up a documentary, "After porn ends", which highlights the life of 9 former porn stars. Summary: " Some have no regrets about their years in the industry. For others, a career in the adult industry has proven to be a conduit to certain despair."
So, overall, it seems to be somewhat mixed.
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This woman is just a single case. It seems premature to conclude anything from it just because her story reinforces ones own world view. Maybe there's three happy porn stars for every Riley Reid. Or not.
A quick ChatGPT query brought up a documentary, "After porn ends", which highlights the life of 9 former porn stars. Summary: " Some have no regrets about their years in the industry. For others, a career in the adult industry has proven to be a conduit to certain despair."
So, overall, it seems to be somewhat mixed.
@Klaus said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
This woman is just a single case. It seems premature to conclude anything from it just because her story reinforces ones own world view. Maybe there's three happy porn stars for every Riley Reid. Or not.
A quick ChatGPT query brought up a documentary, "After porn ends", which highlights the life of 9 former porn stars. Summary: " Some have no regrets about their years in the industry. For others, a career in the adult industry has proven to be a conduit to certain despair."
So, overall, it seems to be somewhat mixed.
I've seen that documentary. IIRC, one guy had no regrets, while all the rest had varying degrees of regret. The women seemed to suffer the most, for varying reasons.
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This woman is just a single case. It seems premature to conclude anything from it just because her story reinforces ones own world view. Maybe there's three happy porn stars for every Riley Reid. Or not.
A quick ChatGPT query brought up a documentary, "After porn ends", which highlights the life of 9 former porn stars. Summary: " Some have no regrets about their years in the industry. For others, a career in the adult industry has proven to be a conduit to certain despair."
So, overall, it seems to be somewhat mixed.
@Klaus said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
This woman is just a single case. It seems premature to conclude anything from it just because her story reinforces ones own world view. Maybe there's three happy porn stars for every Riley Reid. Or not.
A quick ChatGPT query brought up a documentary, "After porn ends", which highlights the life of 9 former porn stars. Summary: " Some have no regrets about their years in the industry. For others, a career in the adult industry has proven to be a conduit to certain despair."
So, overall, it seems to be somewhat mixed.
Maybe actually watch the documentary you use to support your position.
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@Klaus said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
This woman is just a single case. It seems premature to conclude anything from it just because her story reinforces ones own world view. Maybe there's three happy porn stars for every Riley Reid. Or not.
A quick ChatGPT query brought up a documentary, "After porn ends", which highlights the life of 9 former porn stars. Summary: " Some have no regrets about their years in the industry. For others, a career in the adult industry has proven to be a conduit to certain despair."
So, overall, it seems to be somewhat mixed.
Maybe actually watch the documentary you use to support your position.
@Aqua-Letifer said in "My a**hole makes more than your mother. ":
Maybe actually watch the documentary you use to support your position.
I don't care about the topic enough to watch it, but by spending 30 seconds to read a summary I have actually done more research than those of you who merely checked that this single case fits their world view and hence must be true of all porn stars.
