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Y'all, it's Mother's Day

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  • LuFins DadL Offline
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    LuFins Dad
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    My mom passed 20 years ago, 1 year after Karla and I wed and 6 months before Lucas was born. I (and my Mom) found out Karla was pregnant the night before she went into the hospital and didn’t come out…

    The Brad

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    • JollyJ Offline
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      Jolly
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      My mom has been dead a little longer than that. The wife's mom is still going strong at 83...She helped me pick sugar peas the other day.

      She dropped by for lunch today, as did my daughter and the grand young'uns.

      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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      • MikM Away
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        Mik
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        Lost mine in 84, then my MIL last summer. Luckily I still have my sort of adopted mom. I did call her yesterday.

        "You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible." — Thomas Sowell

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          #5

          Mom will have been gone 15 years this August.

          If you don't take it, it can only good happen.

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          • Doctor PhibesD Offline
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            We buried my mum's ashes last week. She had been looking down disapprovingly at my brother from a bookshelf for 3 years, so it was past time.

            For some reason known only to my subconscious, we did it the day after the Coronation. Oddly enough, it worked quite well, since we went to the church service and they held a picnic at our old primary school which adjoins the church. Despite (or possibly because) it being very High Anglican, I rather enjoyed the service, probably the last time I'll visit the old place where I spent a fair amount of my childhood. The school I attended between the ages of 4 and 11 seemed to have got a great deal smaller.

            And yes, those are stocks on the right - how many kids got to go to a school where they had those?

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            I was only joking

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            • Doctor PhibesD Doctor Phibes

              We buried my mum's ashes last week. She had been looking down disapprovingly at my brother from a bookshelf for 3 years, so it was past time.

              For some reason known only to my subconscious, we did it the day after the Coronation. Oddly enough, it worked quite well, since we went to the church service and they held a picnic at our old primary school which adjoins the church. Despite (or possibly because) it being very High Anglican, I rather enjoyed the service, probably the last time I'll visit the old place where I spent a fair amount of my childhood. The school I attended between the ages of 4 and 11 seemed to have got a great deal smaller.

              And yes, those are stocks on the right - how many kids got to go to a school where they had those?

              15f72b85-3651-45d5-a844-d48e7c83ac6a-image.png

              George KG Offline
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              @Doctor-Phibes said in Y'all, it's Mother's Day:

              We buried my mum's ashes last week. She had been looking down disapprovingly at my brother from a bookshelf for 3 years, so it was past time.

              For some reason known only to my subconscious, we did it the day after the Coronation. Oddly enough, it worked quite well, since we went to the church service and they held a picnic at our old primary school which adjoins the church. Despite (or possibly because) it being very High Anglican, I rather enjoyed the service, probably the last time I'll visit the old place where I spent a fair amount of my childhood. The school I attended between the ages of 4 and 11 seemed to have got a great deal smaller.

              What a wonderful memory.

              And yes, those are stocks on the right - how many kids got to go to a school where they had those?

              We had nuns and Dominical priests, so there's that.

              "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

              The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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              • MikM Away
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                Mik
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                #8

                I expect you spent a fair amount of hours in the stocks.

                "You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible." — Thomas Sowell

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                • MikM Mik

                  I expect you spent a fair amount of hours in the stocks.

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                  @Mik said in Y'all, it's Mother's Day:

                  I expect you spent a fair amount of hours in the stocks.

                  Pretty much everybody featured in a re-enactment at some point - we'd wait there to be picked up after school, and the inevitable would happen. Luckily, there was no rotten fruit available.

                  I was only joking

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                  • Catseye3C Offline
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                    Mine died when I was three, stepmother a couple of years ago.

                    Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

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                    • CopperC Offline
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                      #11

                      My 94 years old mother is just fine, still in the same house in Boston.

                      I talked to her last night.

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                      • CopperC Copper

                        My 94 years old mother is just fine, still in the same house in Boston.

                        I talked to her last night.

                        jon-nycJ Offline
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                        jon-nyc
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                        @Copper Great. How often do you see her?

                        If you don't take it, it can only good happen.

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                        • CopperC Offline
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                          Copper
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                          We have talked weekly for about 40 years, I haven't seen her in about 1.5 years. Covid gets partial blame for that, she wanted to avoid contact, but I have 3 sisters near Boston.

                          Sister #4 will visit from NZ this summer, I might head to Boston for that.

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                            Horace
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                            #14

                            I've talked to my mom every week since I moved out of the house. Not really by my choice, tbh. I might prefer fewer hour long sessions of sharing excruciating details of our lives. But my mom doesn't take no for an answer. We'll be getting together with her and my brother's family later this week, for a four day celebration of my nephew's bachelor's degree graduation, organized by his mom. Seems excessive again. But one does what one can. These things, in my experience, are always in service of the female members of the family, who literally can't imagine other people not deriving great joy from it.

                            Education is extremely important.

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