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  • JollyJ Offline
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    Attended SIL's grandfather's funeral today, mostly to chase my grandkids. He was an interesting guy...SMU grad, he went to medical school and became an infernal med. Was an USAF flight surgeon for awhile, then worked for Parke-Davis in research. Some of his work was used in making the first BCP.

    But, he wasn't wild about research, had a passel of kids (7), so he wanted regular hours. Went back to school, became an optometrist and practiced until he retired. And somewhere in the middle of all this, he obtained a degree in theology. And taught himself German and Spanish. Because he wanted to.

    I knew some of his kids. One is a pedi, another was family practice. One of the boys has a son that's also a doc, although I don't know what kind. My SIL's mom has a nursing PhD. His wife passed several years ago.

    Oh, and three of the pallbearers were docs. Just before the service started, a surgeon I knew slipped into a back pew, still in his scrubs

    If there was a funeral where if someone had a medical emergency and needed help, this was it!😄

    BTW, two of his grandsons held his funeral. One is handicapped, but is an excellent historian and the other grandson is a Methodist minister. While the history guy was researching through his Grandpa's records, he ran across an IQ test that P-D had done on his Grandpa back in the 50's. The score was 160. Nobody in the family knew, because he'd never told them.

    Smart man. Smart family. Maybe it's just a bad turn on the fortune wheel of the cosmos, but he died from Alzheimer's complications. But maybe God shows us what's important anyway...See, Doc was known for a sense of humor that was slightly off-kilter. Punny, and full of corn-pone. The man who could answer almost everything on a Jeopardy episode, thought Hee-Haw was the funniest TV show ever made.

    And while things eventually progressed to the point he sometimes didn't recognize his children, he kept that wacky sense of humor until the end. That's not the norm in an Alzheimer's patient.

    Not a lot of point to this story. Just another guy who lived a good life, had a great family and was able to laugh the week he died.

    Not a bad life. Not at all...

    “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

    Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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      I love your stories.

      "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

      The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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        Found out something else this evening...One of the grandsons did not attend the funeral. The grandson is having to move into his new apartment and trying to get acclimated to a new city.

        See, his internal med residency starts 7/1...

        “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

        Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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        • JollyJ Jolly

          Attended SIL's grandfather's funeral today, mostly to chase my grandkids. He was an interesting guy...SMU grad, he went to medical school and became an infernal med. Was an USAF flight surgeon for awhile, then worked for Parke-Davis in research. Some of his work was used in making the first BCP.

          But, he wasn't wild about research, had a passel of kids (7), so he wanted regular hours. Went back to school, became an optometrist and practiced until he retired. And somewhere in the middle of all this, he obtained a degree in theology. And taught himself German and Spanish. Because he wanted to.

          I knew some of his kids. One is a pedi, another was family practice. One of the boys has a son that's also a doc, although I don't know what kind. My SIL's mom has a nursing PhD. His wife passed several years ago.

          Oh, and three of the pallbearers were docs. Just before the service started, a surgeon I knew slipped into a back pew, still in his scrubs

          If there was a funeral where if someone had a medical emergency and needed help, this was it!😄

          BTW, two of his grandsons held his funeral. One is handicapped, but is an excellent historian and the other grandson is a Methodist minister. While the history guy was researching through his Grandpa's records, he ran across an IQ test that P-D had done on his Grandpa back in the 50's. The score was 160. Nobody in the family knew, because he'd never told them.

          Smart man. Smart family. Maybe it's just a bad turn on the fortune wheel of the cosmos, but he died from Alzheimer's complications. But maybe God shows us what's important anyway...See, Doc was known for a sense of humor that was slightly off-kilter. Punny, and full of corn-pone. The man who could answer almost everything on a Jeopardy episode, thought Hee-Haw was the funniest TV show ever made.

          And while things eventually progressed to the point he sometimes didn't recognize his children, he kept that wacky sense of humor until the end. That's not the norm in an Alzheimer's patient.

          Not a lot of point to this story. Just another guy who lived a good life, had a great family and was able to laugh the week he died.

          Not a bad life. Not at all...

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          @Jolly said in Interesting Funeral:

          Just another guy who lived a good life, had a great family and was able to laugh the week he died.

          Not a bad life. Not at all...

          Well written and your last couple of sentences is a good legacy for anyone to have

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